Shaving in the buff is fine -- I do it all the time. But having your cock flop on the sink is not. Either stand back enough so that your cock doesn't touch the sink or get a facecloth to put on the area you're going to flop on. That's the same as having a towel to park your nude but on. Seeing is fine; having contact with shared surfaces just isn't.View Thread
Well, I suppose that the baseball players do enjoy knowing that thousands of people are watching them adjust their cup and/or shaking their junk up before their at-bat. And you're right, HairyD, footballers don't do that and I wonder if it has something to do with the differences between the sports.
Football uses more of the entire body and is played in groups. A baseball player when at bat is the only offense player up and is against 9 defense players (a more realistic comparison with real life, don't you think?) And do you suppose that if a player shakes up his cup just before swinging his bat he is somehow then transferring power from his mightly penis to his mighty bat, something somewhat similar in shape? That's such a whacky idea there might be something to it. What do you think, guys?View Thread
Ah, conference calls, how to spend time making money without working! Sometimes after one is over I'll sign on here to see what's going on. This place can be like a familiar bar where you can stop by just to be yourself and relax a little. That does make it a treat to look forward to.
And Doogood -- I agree with you that the 'good old strumming' which you described really is masturbation and that one doesn't have to go all the way to ejaculation to make it so. But there probably is a point where a conscious choice is made to move from 'strumming' to 'stroking.' And stroking can be pleasurable in itself without it being semen productive. It's a rare morning that I wake up without myself saluting the new day, and giving a hard cock some friendly strokes and tugs is a good way to assure oneself that at least some parts of the new day will be good! It appreciates the attention and at this point doesn't always demand a full show.View Thread
Hey, jrocker, you're right -- it has been unusually quiet around here lately. Like you I like to take a break while something is running and check out what randy thoughts might be under discussion here, sort of like going into a familiar bar to get a little refreshment.
But lately it's been like going into a bar where nobody's there, and that's kind of dull. So, come on guys, let's see what we can come up with and post something. And no, I don't know of any other sites where the guys might have gone.
I'll start the ball rolling by bringing up the subject of absent-minded masturbation. The other day I was sitting in a stall thinking over a problem, looked down and saw my hand was pumping a semi-hard cock. Well, I thought, this is nice -- but do I just stop and go back to work or see this through and have some unplanned relaxation. It can go either way and has sometimes. This time I decided to complete the process to ejaculation -- and hey, I can feel myself stiffening up as I remember the incident and tell you about it. And reading this maybe you're joining me, too, in discovering that your undershorts suddenly don't seem to have enough room in them any more. (Your decision what to do).
Something else I was wondering when all this happened the other day -- when does rubbing or pulling one's penis stop being just rubbing and pulling and becomes masturbation? Do you have to ejaculate in order for a session to be called masturbation? In which case you could never say "I am masturbating" but could only say "I masturbated" (or, "I will masturbate"). If it has to be completed to be 'official' then you couldn't use the present tense. This line of thinking is rather stupid but I did and do find it somewhat entertaining. Just what is masturbation, anyway? Like we don't know . . .
And relating to the original subject of absent-minded masturbation: I can remember some years back while watching TV with my wife she looked at me, laughed and asked me if I was having a good time? I suddenly realized that under my bathrobe I'd been pulling on my penis -- it wasn't hard and my mind had been on the show but sometimes that happens, just like wiggling your leg or something like that -- and I felt something like I had been 'caught' at something. I pulled my hand out and looked surprised. She then told me that I should keep on if I liked and it felt good, just that she thought it was funny. Since I had not been consciously beating off in the first place it was kind of hard to go back to what I was doing but I did find it cool that she was fully comfortable with my doing it. In fact there wasn't anything I might do by myself which I couldn't do with her around as well. I really appreciated that!
OK, it's your turn -- you've read this, now you tell us something interesting.View Thread
And did you notice that we were having a good conversation last week about being aroused when either reading or writing these posts -- and in that fashion we were actually sharing erections? All of a sudden that thread is gone, too! Seems we were on a roll and I was looking forward to seeing where that might be taking us.
There's something powerful and enjoyable about considering that we are able to share arousal, pass it along and celebrate our common and shared masculinity together. That's one of the great spirits of these boards and I do appreciate sharing with you all.View Thread
And then there's the whole bit about baseball players grabbing their crotch -- adjusting their cup, I'm told. That's another whole topic. Maybe they just need reassurance in moments of pressure that their guy stuff is still there?View Thread
Your idea of mirroring someone else's behavior is interesting and it can be something that a lot of us do sometimes without realizing it. Even if we're carefully constructing our speech we may not be fully mindful of all of our body actions.
I do know that sometimes when I have been having a conversation with someone who has a partcular accent (either regional or foreign) I may start talking with some elements of that accent myself without realizing it. Since language is really a form of behavior it's easy to see how hand movement could also unconsciously mimic another person's.
Apparently you've encountered this thing of another guy rubbing his abs and pecs both with and without clothes, probably in a gym-like situation. And if you're both nude, the other guy is rubbing his pec and his nip gets hard it's only reasonable that your dick would begin to thicken. For even if your conversation isn't sexual that type of body rubbing can well be. But what's the issue with labelling -- you're relaxing and when relaxing our sexual sides are more liable to come out.
While relaxing in the steam room after a hard workout I've been known to massage various muscle groups to help them relax. And sometimes I'll also pull on my dick a time or two. And the guy across from me may do the same. And we both may wind up having a pleasant bit of relaxation and release -- no contact, but no need to hide. We're really very much the same and sometimes that type of relaxation just comes along as a welcome part of the day. Acknowledging that through shared experience can be nice.
All I'm suggesting, SeattleRon, is that you relax and enjoy your sexuality -- don't be afraid of it if it comes along unexpectedly. Get to know it better. On the other hand, don't let yourself feel directed or pressured by someone else's actions.View Thread
I've been away for a little while and today am not able to get to the Man to Man Topics -- when I click on 'My Communities' a listing which includes Man to Man Topics comes up but then is supplanted by a general communites web page.
Has the Man to Man Topics board been discontinued? It was one of the three which I visited regularly for quite some time.View Thread
OK, so perhaps things don't go the same way for all of us. I'll agree that coming when I have to piss is not as pleasant as it could be, but I've yet to encounter an unmasturbatable hard-on. If I stroke the bloke, he'll produce and let me go on my way.
Maybe it would be easier if you aimed your dick into the shower? That could be easier to clean up afterwards. Or, depending where you live, just go outside?View Thread
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