Hey An_251175. I've occaisonally thought about piercing. Probably not a PA, but perhaps a quiche or a jacobs ladder. Again this is just fantasy. I think it would feel interesting and exciting, but I;m just not ready to go through the pain and potential infections in a really sensative area of my body.View Thread
Jrocker - if you're looking for a cock ring check out extreme restraints dot com and be adventurous. I personally have an assortment of the leather variety. They typically come with a range of adjustment snaps. My favorite have straps that go around all the good spots - cock, balls and between the scrot. In this day and aage I;m sure you can run across exactly what turns you on and keeps everything thing snug and taught - which is the point - right? Plus if you're looking for something to use with your partner, speaking from experience, anything that makes your firmer and gets your balls slapping against them is definately a plus!View Thread
hmmm - by public does that mean around other people or outside as some have suggested. I would say the stall at work over the years has been a public experience. Then again the time I rode my motorcycle to a deserted farm that wasn't too far out in the country, dropped drawers and pulled one off in the mid afternoon sun might be considered more 'public' since there was a neighborhood not too far away. Or perhaps the sand dunes at Montauk Long Island was the most public place - note there's an airport runway near the end of the island or maybe it's my backyard in the suburb.View Thread
HairyD - I'm not understanding what you're getting at. Are you saying that WebMD is performing some kind of tracking on your computer via cookies? Sorry to see you leave the groups. You've always provided an interesting point of view and some great conversation. If you have to go - best of luck to you, your wife and your sons. Hope you continue to provide them guidance and support. We will miss you bro!
well it used to be cotton/spandex boxer briefs most of the time but those were pushing the boys in an uncomfortable postion. Lately I've been wearing ergowear pouch style trunks. More specifically the PLUS III style. They have a u shaped opening in the front of the trunk that cradles the scrotum. These are the most comfortable undergarments I've come across.View Thread
Ok - to answer the question in the title of the post - 17. To go along with the discussion - I agree the first time - even the first times (plural) we're just going through some motions that we've heard or read about that aren't very refined, accurate or satisfying. My first time was not a spectacular moment. I was so nervous and had no idea if what I was doing was good or bad. I also didn'[t have a lot of feedback from my girlfriend so I had no idea if my movements and techniques were enjoyable, painful or didn't make a difference one way or another. As Long states in his post I'm most certainly not the 'boy' I was almost 30 years ago. I've grown through interaction with different partners as well as learning what I enjoy, over the years. Back to HairyD's statement - I have definately made an effort to gain skills and improve for my and my partners benefit.View Thread
hmmm - so just the act of thought and/or fantisizing counts as masturbation as long as there is the intent of being aroused. I auppose that could be the core ideal of masturbation - the intent and conscious actions of sexual arousal. Sounds good to me!View Thread
Yes - there's a decisive point where subconscious moves into conscious and you decide to continue with the stroking - regardless of outcome - for the sheer pleasure of the action. ok - at the risk of going too far; I can say that every morning I go through a 'ritual' of sorts. Grab hold of the head under the glans, stretch it out and hold regardless of the extent of blood flow; scatch the pubes - maybe a couple of movements more than necessary to get rid of the matting and any itch; then go after the boys. Nothing beats a good tug or 5 on my sac with a couple of digs into the area where it connects to my abdomin. And just to finish off - sniff fingers, really deep to get my scent into my memory for the day.
I guess this counts as masturbation without ejaculation since it gets my body, blood and mind going and it's a consious act.
Gymrat - you always come up with the most thought provoking posts. Absentminded masturbation - what a great topic! I too have used auto-stroking to get my creative juices flowing - in more ways than one! I've also been caught by my wife brushing my cock while watching tv. Not so much to reach a full blown erection and lead to ejaculation, just good old strumming cause it feels good. I would say that just the action of touching oneself in a sexual manner would be considered masterbation even without orgasm. I guess the un-aware stroking would be borderline masturbation.
On the subject of getting aroused and taking action while reading these posts - I will most certainly admit that there are more times than not when there's a stirring in my pants while reading the exploits of my fellow posters. I definately found myself in the situation where my undershorts didn't have enough room - and I will take matters into my own hands and satisfy the situation!
More so when I was younger I found myself where I needed to get myself to the restroom at work to get some relief. There was one specific time my wife and I were talking over the phone and the discussion led to talk about sex. I wound up stroking my dick and getting more aroused - by the conversation, the sensation and the idea that I could have been caught. The last thing my wife said to me was to get to the bathroom and jerk off. Well of course I had to comply! It didn't take long to reach orgasm that time.
Thanks for getting the balls rolling jrocker and gymrat!View Thread