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What happened to Ms Scarlett - did all these birds scare her off???View Thread

I love reading these posts but don't believe in man playing God - if merely advisory of nature, by all means go for it, but I, for one, will NOT tell anybody that he is doing wrong and heading for disaster - I will warn him of the pitfalls and dangers I forsee, but not that he is wrong - with such an inclination I do not agree.
As for you HairyD and Gymrat 44, you are experienced wise old owls, and I LOVE and APPRECIATE your posts - just wanted us not to scare off the Lady - surely we can come up with better adcice?
Hey HairyD, what about an owl as your profile picture? And I mean it in the nicest of terms.View Thread

I once was, inter alia, an underwear model, also doing ramp work, and cannot understand how other guys can think that models are different from other men.
Yes, you have to have a relatively nice body, but so do some guys who don't even gym.
Being a model is not about boasting about your body, but mainly done for the money and is quite hard work AND, surprise surprise, it did NOT make me more of a man.
A real man is a person who is comfortable with himself, accepts himself and his dick size if necessary (I'm only a bit more than average) BUT most importantly in being male (not a man).
Boys are different from girls - if you don't dress in pink dressed or high heels, I think you pretty much make the grade!
Be happy with your sexuality, having a dick, in being a leader, and having to shave everyday - that pretty much makes you a man. NOTHING like muscles required!!!View Thread

I agree that when you are in a steady relationship it is most definitely NOT ok to ****** around, except if BOTH parties are into it and do it TOGETHER. Also old fashioned in that repect.
BUT, judges of man, how many of you watch porn or see a pretty girl and imagine her naked? Imagining it is as bad as doing it - in your subconsious you were already been unfaithful.
Come on - be true to yourselves - it is only NORMAL, unless you are annointed saints.
Makes you think, doesn't it??? I am not a hypocrite - I have been around the block and know from first hand experience what I talk about and I choose NOT to judge others.View Thread

Scarlett - from what you have told us, this Dude is still very young and has been in a steady relationship with you for 2 years. Accept that he does not have your emotional or sexual maturity and will want to find himself. Best will be to support him in this quest and if it is meant to be, your love and support will prevail. Just be warned that most men are still sexual juveniles up to the age of 25 and there-after stability in who they are is established. Of course there are exceptions - some mature earlier, but as a general rule this is the case.
My advice thus - let him be honest with YOU and not an intermediary. If you show understanding, sympathy and unconditional love he will open up more to YOU than a stranger. You will hear his side, as he perceives it, more honestly expressed than through a third party.Trust me, I know, also having / still having some issues from the past. In my case I am, regrettably, not as honest about my feelings to my partner as I could be, but that would have been different if she was not so blatantly prejudiced. In our situations, maybe strangely so, we WANT to discuss our issues with our better halves and not live with a 'dark' secret and no, talking about these issues, do NOT imply he has gay or bi inclinations - it is merely an attempt to also understand himself.
Keep us posted!View Thread

Do not be afraid - everybody goes through phases. At the end of the day you just need to find yourself, mentally, so no stress, time is on your side.
For now, enjoy the jerking off and porn and, for God's sake, relax and stop fretting about it - you will be amazed what difference it will make if you stop putting pressure on yourself to force a verdict. What must be will be and will follow naturally.
Keep us up to speed!View Thread

As for the porn - personally I find it boring, but have been enamoured with it once. It will blow over once you are in a steady relationship, but if it does'nt, so what, guys watch it all the time!
Hope this helps!View Thread

Why I did it? Simply because I saw guys with cut dicks and liked it, more than uncut dicks - and no more cleaning up your dick all day and being embarrassed when you get imprompto blow-jobs!!
Simply love my cut dick - and no, I am not vain!!! Yeah right!View Thread
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