I just started on the replacement therapy thing. 1/21.. The dang thing about our medical system is if you're lab shows you're normal even though you could be better they cannot prescribe. My motivation was to put on some muscle and strengthen what I have. I still like to water ski and that's not a smart thing to do out of shape at 68.
Would like to hear from anyone doing the same.
Oh...The morning wood is back big... I had forgotten about that.
Since I am 68 and just above "normal" levels but I want to have the benefits of a hire level I started asking and found I could purchase and do my own injections easily.
I am not going crazy at 500 a week. First self injection was a piece of cake. Every thing about my health tops. I will do 12 weeks at $400. More than anything I did not want to mess around with my insurance or going to the doctors office for injections. pain in the arse.
I am looking forward to improved workouts at my gym. I had already put on 5 pounds of muscle and I want 10 more. Plus all the side benefits. I gathered that my morning wood will be a good measurement. So has anyone got experiences (over 50 gent) with what I am up to?
I replied to another post with a similar reply. The meat of my point is that my experience tell me sex with the same sex is 90% lust driven and sex with my wife is 90% intimacy driven. Most of the bi men I have talked with were first introduced to a same sex activity from Jerking, helping hand to more in a buddy situation as teens. Later in life when they get lazy about the necessary foreplay to secure their wife's interest they recall the early life experience with their friends. Note: Begging for sex for 30 min does not count as foreplay.
So, those having crossed the same sex boundary experience are more prone to return to it in the right situation as and hot lust based ONLY activity. Not to make a life choice from it. Actually, what I am pointing out is that this is a very immature activity. Having said that I have done it myself. Un fortunately I lacked all self confidence in my early teens and my first experience was NOT consensual it was twice at the hands of an older kid who knew what he wanted.View Thread
I have a different take on this. The difference between the buddy and wife situation is the buddy is LUST driven and the wife is Intimacy driven. Some guys keep the Lust buddy aspect combined with themselves and what ever fantasy they bring in to make that work.
Lust fueled sex is where our sexuality begins and with our wives it should/must evolve but there is still and draw for the Lust intense erotic. Some of us find our first into as teens involved a buddy be it a circle J or something more, or maybe not crossing the boundary of the helping hand. That crossing is so powerful when being aroused and "Touched" someone else stroking us or more. It stays in our recall.
Later in life maybe we are tired of the effort required to bring out mates up to temp and we are drawn to recall the teen experience. Maybe we are having a beer or 6 with friend and sex talking when one shares his teen guy thing and. However, it goes from there that results in re enacting that experience together.
I don't know if that is right or wrong, but recognizing it for what it is keeps it in perspective.
Now I have a question for everyone. Somehow I came upon these Anerios Helix prostrated deals. Saw the video, read and also read for negatives. So with everything else we talk about here I might have missed a prior discussion. So if there was one someone point me to it or if you have experience with the Anerios Helix or similar thing contact be. I guess the question is would you do it again? It actually, looks like it could become addictive? Ron@RonWalken.comView Thread
Just signed in and saw your reply. The ideal of pursuing a bi or gay life was discus-ting to me. A life centered/focused on a sexual acting out behavior would have no basis. Only on a couple of occassions did I get with the same guy more than once. There was no emotional connection sought or wanted. Actually, that growing up non experience was devoid of intimacy. We three kids were emotionally abandoned from birth.
I am certainly aware that I am not the only guy who deals with same sex attraction.. As a matter of FACT every guy started with Same sex attraction..with masturbation? And in not so far past there were lots of healthy places where men gathered naked together and probably some were encouraged to meet outside one on one? Dynamics drastically change when one accepts a helping hand.. big boundary to cross. Been there done that more than once.View Thread
Final from Ron here. At my deepest point of shame and dis pare found Sexaholics Anonymous a few years ago and at the first meeting listening I realized without a doubt that I was a sex addict just like all the other guys in the room. some went for children (boys and girls) others for erotic hetreo massages, prostitutes, exhibitionism and some same gender anonymous sex.
My story was theres. I had taken part of my natural sexuality and miss used it as an emotional coping tool since I first started having arousal's about 5. Actually, it is rare but from birth I was emotionally abandoned and on my own to provide for all of my emotional needs. The awesome excitement of those first arousal I am sure I believed it was Self Love I so desperately sought.View Thread
Having said what I said in my first reply and read to other replies I now what to add to this string.
My first reply mentioned... down a road yu might not want to go. For me that road lead to annomyous un planed immediate sex with a goodlooking willing guy. It was never satisfying lacking.
However, last week I did a local Craigslust post, Mwm for nude friendly mwm time" Well, I assumed I would get some weird crazy responses. But instead a married guy about my age replied. He was up for it. I know for me just taking my clothes off give me an arousal charge. I think it would be cool fun to do this with this guy who replied. Where it is okay to "check each other out" Seeing another guy naked with a little charge. So he is coming down Monday to help me was down my cruiser at the marina shirtless with a couple of beers we might go below and let our manliness hang out...charged. Crazy?View Thread
The frequency issue. I probably me and I rarely mb after mid 30's Some friends have suggest the "Something about Mary" jerk off before the big date? Growing up with three 2 siblings and a shared bedroom I got in the habit of a fast jerk off maybe not getting fully erect for fear of being caught. That went on a long time and I think it carries over still today. I have been thinking of using the blue pill because it might help keep it up and get the first unload out of the way. Anyone tried that?View Thread