My HMO dictates what ED med I can take by pricing. The most effective med for me is Cialis, but they charge as much as outside pharmacies. They offer Levitra; 8 tablets for $40.
I refilled online and the bottle had 40 tablets. I read the label and it was 20mg Sildenafil at a cost of $10. I guess it was on sale. Levitra doesn't particularly work well for me. I've never taken Viagra or generic Viagra, so I will give it a try.
I may get a headache or go blind, but at least it was cheap.View Thread
1. I'll take a vagina over a hand every time. 2. I would rather have my partner stimulate me manually than stimulate myself. Unfortunately, there are women like my wife who sing the praises of my penis, but don't want to touch it. My idea of a good time would be watching TV or listening to music and manually stimulating each other. Good couples sexual activity is far superior to solo activity. 3. The argument for solo activity is that if you want two orgasms a day you should be able to have them. Your partner can provide as many as she enjoys giving. This is normally less than what you want. Masturbation should be done discretely so as not to make your partner uncomfortable. 4. I have a poor opinion of a man who would rather watch porn and masturbate, than make love to a real woman. He would do this because he is only interested in pleasing himself and is either too lazy or sexually incompetent to try to satisfy his partner. 5. Typically a man who is willing and able to please his partner is not going to be allowed to do that with the frequency he would like. If porn is required to enhance the experience it is okay. A partner shouldn't feel intimidated by porn. It's the equivalent of junk food. Fake breasts, fake sexual scenarios and performance. I replaced porn with my own fantasies years ago. Replaying past lovemaking in my mind or fantasizing about what could have happened. Those fantasies were about real people, not porn stars, models or other celebrities.View Thread
I've masturbated for over 50 years. I masturbated when I was dating two women and had a very enjoyable sex life. If you get sore you are doing something wrong; not enough/wrong lubricant, technique or frequency.
Your first obligation is satisfying your wife and not as an obligation. After that you can do what you want. Can you masturbate without porn? Can you masturbate thinking about your wife or past lovers or wanted to be lovers?
I've seen plenty of porn over the years but not for more than 20 years. I find it a turnoff in the same way as huge fake breasts.View Thread
Masturbation when two adolescents are pleasuring themselves together is probably very common, but it's a pretty big leap to calling it sexual attraction.
My opinion is the boundary is considering accepting a helping hand. There is a strong taboo associated with it and crossing the boundary is labeling yourself as bi or gay and associating yourself with a particular lifestyle.
Once again, in my opinion, a lot of men think with their penises and if there wasn't an identification associated with same sex behavior they would engage in it. This kind of behavior could be outside what is considered an attraction.View Thread
Getting older, my erection and feeling in my penis has diminished. I've been taking herbs that have improved my erection, but my ability to orgasm is way down. Orgasming always will be very important to me no matter how old I am. I used Hitachi magic wand which tended to numb after a while.
I bought a vibratex personal massager which works a lot better. It has 6 functions; 4 speeds and 2 programs. The programs change the functions and pause briefly which reduces the tendency to numb while still stimulating.
Buying a vibrator for a man is not easy. Most are designed for women. If you go to Amazon (and turn off browsing history) and sort from high price to low there are so many choices it's almost impossible to look at everything available because there so many listed so I don't even know what Is available.
I can imagine a blue tooth model that you could program on a PC and even have simultaneous visual stimulation associated with the program. I have no idea what the limits are.View Thread