Being a man comes from strength of character; a MAN of integrity, courage and dependability. Leader friend husband father professional whatever- doing those things, NOT a six pack abs, a 10 inch cock (pardon slang) or women doing a "double take at you in the mall.
I know, because I am a man and have gone from "player" doing threesomes (honest) "stud" older women (25 when I was 15) came on to, to a bloated 293 lb impotent "mess" in health and personal catastrophe back to "6 pack" but still have impotence and anesthesia in penis-and I was a strong man in all 3 stages.
Think about it-do the people you love count on you, and isn't that infinitely more of being a man than ladies you don't know "looking twice" at you in the GAP?????
I am fighting Low T and impotence with little to no feeling in penis. Which is "okay"; am a widower, was blessed with "pornographic worthy" sexual exploits in past years, yet as my erections diminish and feeling does, too, my PSYCHOLOGICAL fixation on sex grows; I am becoming an addict-but to fantasizing about almost any attractive woman I see from 25 to 65! In my youth, I had "multiple" partners, so I know I haven't "missed out" but this preoccupation is hindering me. Anyone have similar issues?
13 to magnificent visiting neighbor's friend 38; sorry, believe in"double standard"; I cherish my first time with older woman, yet if a 38 year old guy tried to touch my 13 year old daughter I WOULD KILL HIM-and go to prison. Why? men and women are different but I digress!
13; in an "unofficial poll" trying to cut thru the LIES I feel the average age for guys is around 16; for girls, getting younger (the honest ones) 20 years ago was usually 15 to 18 when I "got personal enough with girls who were friends" to discuss it; now? 13 or 14 seems to be "norm".