Don't worry about it, you are young and it happens. If you feel that you cannot hold back, then masturbate an hour or two before your massage.
years ago I was getting a massage at a student clinic and I was so amped up and the guy I went to spent a long time on the backs of my legs. He went way up into my inner thighs and brushed against my balls and ass (hole). Well that sent me over the edge and I was only 20 mins in like you were... I was super embarrassed the remaining 40 mins! I've had MTs give me happy endings and a few of them I have cum very quickly from the 55 mins of buildup. One time just a year or two back, my regular therapist who never crossed the line of giving a happy ending, but did do a lot of touching during the hour, while face down he ran his hands down my back, across my butt crack and then down my balls. I had my shaft pointed up and on the 2nd pass (he was standing at my feet) he slid under with one hand while the other was crossing my balls and he pulled my shaft down so it went between my legs. On the third pass when he stroked my shaft I came right then. I think he was surprised I came, so he wiped me up and kept going. I've been able to control it for the most part so that when the MT does run over your ass crack or balls or shaft teasing, I love the feeling but keep under control.View Thread
so you found out by looking at text msgs and not him telling you he did this? The biggest issue you have to deal with is trust. You both talked about the outing to some hot tubs and you said he should not do it, but he went anyway. Now getting an erection in a hot tub is no big deal. Many guys will get an erectio because they are naked in a public setting or the hot water will sometimes do that as well. He also stopped his buddy from rubbing him, so I would have no reason to think he is gay ot bi, just going out with a friend to aa new place. Lots of guys like hanging out and getting nakled on occasion. In some cultures, this is very regular. You may be more conservative and think it is not right.
Now, his friend was massaging him, made a move to rub his penis and had his erection in your boy friends butt crack. So, I am guessing this guy is probablt gay or bi. Your fiance can still hang out with him, but he needs to make it clean that there is nothing between them if you both want things just between you two. Talk it out and get back to a trusting relationship!View Thread
Actually yes. I went back to that same MT instructor who was having another Lomi session. I was face up for the 1 1/2 hr session as students worked on me. They had me covered onmy with the folded upsarong covering me in the crotch, but beacause it was just laid over me it was not too covering. I got partually hard a few times and my penis would get exposed to one side as it grew! I kept from getting hard.
The best part was that there were 8 students all working on me. I could feel myself getting exposed but both arms were being worked on while they did torso and legs so I was at the mercy of someone covering me back up. I was ok w/ th nudity but eventually I would feel the wrap re-positioned. One girl also did some work from behind my head and every reach down my body she would press her chest into my face! That did not help keep me soft!! I could have stayed for a 2nd massage that same day but I could not be there the whole day. It would have been nice...View Thread
it is very easy for a person who is 100% heterosexual to tell others to live a 100% honest life w/ family and friends. You are in the mainstream where others who don't agree with what goes on behind some doors is acceptable.
Put yourself in someone's shoes who is living a "straight" lifestyle but has had some non-straight activities. If you simply open up, you may lose a wife, children and friends. That's not such an easy decision to make and as you can see from these threads, alot of guys make the decision to stay quiet. This is a very personal decision and not one that should be made by someone else, or even judged by someone else for that matter.
If you all cannot see that there is a lot of grey out there, you are just being color blind (gay blind).View Thread
Hairy, thank you for stalking me!! as for my size, I was pretty close in all 3. I don't measure myself often so I was going by memory this last time. I said 6.5" x 5" and in the other thread I said 6.5-7" x 5.5"... I would say that is pretty close! I am not huge by any means, but I've never had trouble with the size and soft I look pretty good (4-5" depending on how flacid I really am).View Thread