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I am so sorry to hear that you're having to endure such sleep deprivation. That can be brutal! It can be so tricky to figure out feeding patterns with babies. Sometimes introducing cereal helps, but often times, it doesn't make a huge difference in terms of filling them up more. I would tend to agree with one of the posts here that suggested just cutting out his nighttime feedings. You're right - it won't go over well, but it's not a mean thing to do, and certainly not dangerous from a medical perspective. I'm going to post a link to a post I made about this awhile back. You may find it to be helpful. Best of luck to you!
http://forums.webmd.com/3/newborn-and-baby-exchange/tip/40View Thread

I am sorry to hear that your little guy has been sick. I am unaware of any side effect from Omnicef or Xopenex that would discolor the tongue, and since oxygen problems can be very subtle in babies, it definitely is important to have him seen by his pediatrician. I hope by now that the issue has resolved, but if not, please get him in to be evaluated.View Thread

So sorry to hear that your little one has been struggling with her eating. I hope by now that you've found an answer. Your description of her eating pattern certainly sounds suspicious for acid reflux. Zantac is just one of several antacid medications that are sometimes helpful for babies with acid reflux. Other tips that sometimes help, include keeping baby in a fairly upright position during and after feedings, taking frequent breaks during the first ounce to 2 ounces to burp, sit upright, expel air/gas, and sometimes making a formula change, in certain situations, but only under the advisement of your doctor. Keep us updated as to how she is doing!View Thread

This is such a common problem. I can attest to the fact that some babies are just so hard to give medicine to - my youngest was the same way. In general, we frown upon mixing medicines with formula in the bottle. Some medicines can become diluted too much, even with just a little bit of formula, and sometimes, especially with a volume as small as 1ml, most of it will end up just sticking to the sides of the bottle or inside of the nipple, so that the baby doesn't end up getting much of the medicine, if any at all. Particularly with Nystatin, we want the medicine to touch as much of the surfaces inside the mouth as possible, before they swallow it. Take the medicine syringe or dropper and aim for the inside of one of his cheeks. Then gently massage both of his cheeks at the same time...this will trigger his mouth to shut, and that should be enough time for him to swallow it. Hope that helps!View Thread

There are few things more distressing than when your baby gets her first fever. I don't see where you mention how old she is, but if she is under 3 months of age and has a rectal temperature greater to or higher than 100.4, please contact your pediatrician. If she's older than that, and seems to be acting fine, eating fine, etc, and just has a fever, it is perfectly safe to watch her for a few days, and administer a weight-appropriate dose of fever-reducing medicine. Fevers that are accompanied by lethargy, trouble breathing, poor eating and drinking, or that last more than 3-5 days always need to be evaluated by a pedatrician. Lastly, armpit temperatures are a "screening tool" only, but not always accurate when you truly suspect a fever. Please monitor her fever with a digital rectal thermometer, as this is the most reliable indication of a baby's true body temperature. Hope this helps!View Thread

I am so sorry to hear that you've been having such a rough time with your daughter's sleep issues! You are certainly not alone. Infancy is a tough time for parents in terms of figuring out what children's sleep needs are and in terms of figuring out how to get them to sleep! At 9 months, babies are much more willful (meaning, they have an opinion about what they want and don't want) and they also don't being left alone, because of a normal stage of develpment known as separation anxiety. That having been said, it is absolutely ESSENTIAL that parents set firm limits for sleep with babies at this age. The reason your daughter becomes so combative and seamingly angry at bedtime is that she is overtired. When babies become overtired, they don't act sleepy, they often act more awake, and more fussy. They literally don't know how to calm themselves, and certainly don't know how to let mom and dad know what they need. The best way to handle this situation, is this:
1) Establish a regular bedtime routine that you do at the same time, every night. You can decide what works best, but it might include a bath, then some lotion, then pajamas, then a short book or soft music (not lasting longer than 5 minutes), then an "I love you", and then lay her down awake in her crib and walk out.
2) She will cry and protest. She's already shown you that. Giving in to her protests will only reinforce the behavior and make it worse.
3) Do not try to calm her by offering her a bottle, a pacifier, or by going back in and picking her up. This will also reinforce the crying.
4) Take comfort in knowing that it is not dangerous for babies to cry...not wrong for them to cry themselves to sleep during this stage for a few nights...and not your job to MAKE her sleep. Your only job is to set the stage for good sleep. She will have to learn to soothe herself to sleep on her own.
5) Do this for me for 3 nights, and I promise you will have a sleeping baby through the entire night. The crying and protesting is so hard to hear (I know, I've been there with all 3 of mine), but in the end, it is a gift you will be giving your daughter by teaching her to fall asleep on her own.
6) Babies have more infections and don't grow as well when they don't get enough sleep, so do it for her health, if not for your own sanity!

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I am so, so sorry to hear that you are having such a rough time with your son. I am exhausted just reading your description...I know you've got to be fried! When there seem like there are so many possible things going on at once, and when it also seems like they might all be intertwined, I like to break it down into individual issues. First, the arching/spitting/pain/fussy symptoms that you are describing sound like textbook acid reflux. I am not his doctor, and therefore am not able to diagnose reflux in him, but from my estimation, it is absolutely worth scheduling an appointment SEPARATE from his well baby appointment to talk about this possibility. And soon. It's not dangerous, but the lack of sleep and general unrest that you've been having to endure is! Secondly, the hunger. This seems to have 2 probable roots - your body's lack of milk production during daylight hours and his inability to eat enough to stave off the hunger longer because he's likely in so much pain during feedings that he's cutting them short. The milk production issue should improve with time, but in the meantime, there are some herbal remedies that can help, under the direction of a lactation consultant. If your pediatrician's office does not have a lactation consultant on staff, contact the hospital where you delivered, as most hospitals have outpatient lactation services. You can schedule an appointment for you and your baby to be evaluated by the lactation consultant, and recommendations can be made from there to improve your daytime milk supply. The possible acid reflux issue, can be addressed, sometimes through medication, if that indeed is contributing to his ineffecient feedings. In theory, once that problem is fixed, he will be able to tolerate feedings better, therefore he'll eat more at each feeding, and therefore he'll stay full longer. Lastly, the issue of a possible underlying milk/whey allergy. Some babies with this type of allergy have obvious symptoms like blood in the stool, but other babies just have what appears to be very bad acid reflux symptoms. There is a way to test for this in your pediatrician's office. Even if the test is negative, breastfeeding mothers who still have a high suspicion can go on elimination diets to determine which foods are causing the problem...these dietary modifications can be spearheaded by your local lactation consultant as well, but most often include cutting out dairy, eggs, nuts, and wheat. That's a tall order for most moms, so don't try to take that on by yourself...contact a lactation consultant, please! Lastly, remember that if you're not thriving (because of lack of sleep and not eating and drinking enough), eventually it will catch up with your baby too...so don't put off getting help. You WILL get through this difficult time. Hang in there and keep us updated.View Thread
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