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He said, "there's nothing we can do for it, no surgery would help you, it's progressive. Here's some naproxen, call me in four weeks."
That pretty much takes away my ability to support myself with absolutely NO direction whatsoever! The more I think about it, the more appalled and dissatisfied I am with that consult. No MRI, no real tests. He looked at old x-rays online, three quick views that showed nothing. Did a little manipulation and sent me on my way.
I refuse to accept that as an end! Without the ability to walk...and walk A LOT...I am homeless. That just can't be the END of it all! Don't specialist treat osteoarthritis as well as rheumatoid?
I asked about braces since it's screaming painful. He said, "well, you could wrap it if you wanna keep it warm or something but nothing really does much good." He said, "well, you COULD get cortisone injections" then changed the subject!
And the more I write out what this guy said, the more upset I get. What doctor gives you a DEVASTATING diagnosis and then says, "I got nothing for ya, have a nice day, and pay your copay on your way out" Okay, HE didn't say that last part, his receptionist did!
So I'm going to put on the $50 knee brace I bought at CVS and get ready for another brutal night at work. I would SO appreciate some advice! I feel like a bomb got dropped in my life and it's just "too bad! Here's an aspirin!"
I've worked SO hard all my life...raised two kids waitressing and bartending. I'm back in college but only a sophomore and YEARS from having a degree that will help me get out of the restaurant industry. And NOW...another devastating thing about this knee thing is I can't sit! I think the reason it's so bad right now is from sitting in class! So...walking is OUT. Sitting is OUT. How do you support yourself from a recliner?? That's the ONLY time I'm out of pain.
Thank you in advance to anyone who has some advice!View Thread

The orthopedic surgeon has now declared that I have not "mild arthritis but "advanced" arthritis with something called a "Baker's Cyst" on the back of my knee. WHICH is hugely better...for now.
The waitressing is brutal...but honestly, without having to I'm not sure I'd be moving all that much AT ALL! I'm a couch potato when left to my own devices!
I HAVE learned something from the physical therapist that I hope will help all of you, who have so generously added comments here. I believe she called it "dynamic standing". When I stand, I SLOUCH. Like LOTS of people! Don't most of us have dreadful posture today? I know I do! Anyway...keep your feet shoulder length apart, facing forward, weight balanced between both feet. But try to keep the WEIGHT off your arches....so the balls of your feet, the SIDES of your feet and your heel. The way I do it is to simply lift my arches a little and let that triangle carry the weight. I SWEAR it's doing some good! My knee, anyway, is MUCH better.
Oh, and the ortho gave me a handout that stated that Glucosamine/MSM is completely myth but if it's make me 'FEEL' better, by all means, waste the money.
I think that's baloney! I just know WAY too many people who are all participating in that placebo effect if it's REALLY not working. There are millions of us who SWEAR by it. Are we all imagining it? I don't think so! Funny how some docs aren't in favor of cheap remedies, huh?
Thank you, everyone, for your continuing conversation! It's so great to see that I'm not alone!!!
KimberlyView Thread

I would LOVE to respond to each and every poster...but I simply don't have enough time.
I am going to follow up each and EVERY post, though, and the advice in them. First, I've been using HEAT which I'm going to stop and switch to ICE! I knew that....silly me! But needed the reminder!
My daughter bought me a home ultra sound unit that I've used twice so far so the jury's out on that. But I DO have the second opinion appointment MONDAY! YEAH! Tomorrow I'm writing a bullet point list and I am going in LOADED FOR BEAR!
I do feel WAY more prepared...for the doctor, for the future, for the PAIN...and all the responses make me feel so much more connected!
Thank you all SO much! Now, it's time for math, then Spanish THEN work. At least I can sit relatively comfortable to two outta three!
KimberlyView Thread

This site alone has now brought me MUCH comfort! Just knowing I'm not the only one suffering...and BOY OH BOY is it painful when it "flares up". I have no better word for it..sometimes it's manageable, sometimes it's cripplingly painful.
But the response that you sent, whoever you are!, is immensely helpful and I'm VERY appreciative!
KimberlyView Thread

THANK YOU!!
KimberlyView Thread

I would LOVE to work from home! TALK about job security! As a waitress, I've known I was on a limited time span...even if it HAS lasted almost forty years. And, NO, that first jerk doctor didn't even allow me time to ask questions, spent LESS than 20 minutes with me. I have an appointment for a different doctor in about 10 days. If he's no better, I'll keep searching!
THANK YOU so much for that link! I'm going to explore that!
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