Hi I'm 28 years old and have been dealing with chronic pain for 10yrs. I have herniated discs in my lumbar spine along with arthritis and bone spurs. I have a 2 yr old and its very hard to take care of a toddler and be in pain 24/7. My pregnancy was horrible I was in so much pain I couldn't put any weight on my legs and my pelvic felt like it got trampled on by a horse. Long story short I've been through hell and back with my doctors not believing me or helping me with my pain. I need help finding a doctor that will actually listen to me and help me with my pain. I have so much debt already from medical bills and I can't afford to keep trying different doctors as we have private insurance and have yo pay a lot out of pocket. I live in Springfield, MA. If anyone know someone that can help that would be great because I've gotten to the point where I feel like my family would be better off without me. My husband works 10hr days and has to do laundry and dishes and cook dinner. I've been in so much pain for so long that I'm turning into someone I hate because I'm so angry and sad all the time I have no patience anymore and I used to be known for my patience with kids. I feel like a horrible mother and wife and its from being in pain all the time. I don't know what else to do.View Thread
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