I understand, I have two girls the oldest is almost 4 now and totally laid back and easy going, The youngest is night and day different, she is now 2 years old. I'm luck and both my children were verbal early in age, however with the youngest we had to start over with all teaching techniques. We used sign languages with our girls and this helped, the younger one would yell for no reason, and started blaming things on the older one when she wasn't even there, she also hit and bit and stomped her feet and arms. She doesn't do that anymore, and I'm not sure its due to anything we did, just time and patience's, we had lots of advice and it was hard, but this too shall pass. Just keep reinforcing what is right and wrong and good luck, your not alone. I do recommend you keep them busy mentally and physically this helps both you and them. Just a thought.View Thread