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However, about 5 months after we started her on the medication she started to wet herself. I'm not talking about spoting, but she soaks herself. She spots nearly everyday, and soaks herself by peeing about 2 or 3 times a week. We have been to the doctor, and they can't tell me what's going on. She thoughts it was mental.
Rather than medicating her more, we went to a family therpist who told us she belived it was anxiety. After 6 sessions, we thought things had improved, but they haven't. She will do really good for a while, but then have a really bad few weeks. Even if it's not as bad as soaking herself, she is always spotting her panties.
Does this have anything to do with her ADD? Is her medication a factor? How can I help her get better control of her bladder?View Thread
I believe you are right to be concerned and not just let this behavior go on and on......
This is what the American Academy of Child & Adolescents Psychiatry says about lying:
If a child or adolescent develops a pattern of lying which is serious and repetitive, then professional help may be indicated. Evaluation by a child and adolescent psychiatrist would help the child and parents understand the lying behavior and would also provide recommendations for the future.
Here is the link where I found this info:
http://www.aacap.org/cs/root/facts_for_families/children_and_lying
I think an evaluation by Child Psychiatrist is warranted. I would make sure the Dr. is board certified and has a good reputation.
Good luck, and take care,
-KathleenView Thread
All I can say was that I was sort of excited! Something new was happening and it felt -amazing-. I felt connected to every woman in the world all of a sudden.
I remember my mother sitting me down and explaining -everything- to me. I know you are worried about robbing her innocence but her honesty saved me from sooo many problems.
When I started to learn about sex and masturbation from other kids at school (Yes, kids can become sexually fascinated with themselves as young as -5- from what I saw) I rejected it -all-. After all, I -knew- all the answer, I trusted my mother and she had -already- spoken to me.
What I'm trying to say is do you want your daughter to be the child listening to other kids tell her all the fascinating details about sex (Probably wrong)? and for her to feel like you never told her cause it's bad so she just keeps it to herself or attempts to try it? or do you want to educate her now so when the topic comes up she's the most carefully educated out of the bunch (Plus if she has more questions she's 10x more likely to come to you).
Anyway, I'm a mother myself too, and I worry about this myself. I've tried to shelter them as much as possible without suffocating them =P...it seems unfair for something like a period to come so early...View Thread
grasping for straws here. my 6 yr old (now 7) started having skidders and I thought she wasn't wiping right and instead the soiled underwear has gotten progressively more and more soiled (caked) to the point I'm frustrated and don't get it. I know she's been holding it in because she doesn't want to miss out on what's going on. didn't know it could lead to something like this. going to try to fix it at home before going to the DR. hope this is it!View Thread
If you do need to avoid dairy/milk/etc, you may want to check out the Food Allergies Families board. There is some good info there on avoiding dairy.View Thread
This summer he will be at day camp where they field a strong competitive swim team. So he will be swimming 9 times a week for 8 weeks this summer.View Thread
SKD123View Thread
I was a super tom boy, too, having 2 older brothers. I hated it when my Mom made me a sports bra in 5th grade to basketball camp.View Thread
I don't worry about it - we have a great variation in sizes in the family and, as long as our doc doesn't seem worried and as long as they're healthy their heights don't matter to me.View Thread
My mother warned me a few weeks ago to have "THE TALK" with her, but as usual, I though Miss. Know it all was exagerating. So of course she took it in to her own hands, and gave her a breifing of "The Talk", I wasn't upset, because I wasn't sure if I was ready, and nature dam sure didn't care about my feelings.
So anyway, I'm on my laptop doing homework for my online class, and my daughter literally walks into my room, and says "Mom, you think I have my period?" and, I'm like "Charm, I told you before, I would discuss that with you when your ready, I don't know why mommom told you anything anyway, and then she says. "Well, I have a red wet spot in my panties....see". I jumped up so freaking fast, I forgot to breath and gave myself an headache. So from there of course I new what to do, but OMG what's next, does this mean, I have to discuss sex with my 8 year old???? I feel like she's being robbed of her innoscense!!!View Thread
You are certainly welcome to ask this question on our Parenting Community. Honestly though, the botton line is you need to get her to the doctor when she comes and get this checked out. There is not diagnosing online, no one can guess at this. You need to get her into the docs when she is having symptoms.
Good luck and health!
Chrissy
WebMD Community StaffView Thread
IMHO I would to every alternative possible before tryigng that med. Good Luck!View Thread
My 6 year old son is afraid of curly hair. At first I thought it was he just didn't like it, because in December when we were planning his birthday party, he told me there were certain kids he didn't want to invite to his party, all of those kids have curly hair, and that was his only reason for not wanting to invite them. I told him he had to invite them anyway because we were inviting his whole class.
Then as the months went on, anytime he saw someone with curly hair, he would try to hide or runaway. Yesterday, my hubby and I were going to watch Doctor Who on Netflix and my son started panicking and said, no, you can't watch it. I asked him why and he said because he has curly hair. I told him the one we were watching didn't have curly hair and he said ok and he was fine as we watched it. Then I asked him why it was wrong to have curly hair and he said curly hair was scary.
We sat down and talked about it and he can't give me a reason why curly hair scares him, but most people that we know with curly hair are kind of scary to him, even those we have known for a long time.
Help! How do I help him overcome this? The curls that scare him the most are long ringlet type curls and big curls that are close to the head. And before you ask, no, he doesn't really have any experience with clowns, however I'm sure a clowns hair would terrify him.View Thread
DD2 is in 3rd grade but has been an avid reader since she was your DD's age. I think her favorites have always been mysteries and she started with series like: Nate the Great, Cam Jansen, A-Z Mysteries (she loved these), Stink (this is Judy Moody's little brother and the books are a bit easier than the actual Judy Moody series), Magic Treehouse, Judy Moody series, The Ramona books (also a big hit--she read them all), and the Rainbow Fairies series (she read these early on in first grade and I thought they were decent and age appropriate. Of the hundereds they probably have now, she most enjoyed the original Rainbow Fairies, The Sports fairies and The Pet Fairies.
M is now into things like 39 Clues, Hugo Cabret, Wonderlust, The Secrets of Droon (great series of shorter paperback stories if your DD likes fantasy) and as of yesterday, The Tails of Emily Windsnap.
HTH's.View Thread
No two children "present" exactly the same for ASD (autism spectrum disorders) - there are mild forms, severe forms, and a thousands of kids fit somewhere in the middle.
Your son may be fine, but I think I'd talk to a few professionals, discuss your concerns and see what they say about your son's development and behaviors.
Take care!!
-KathleenView Thread
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