Put a TV with cable in his room. Trust him to go to bed on time on his own with the TV on a low volume. Let him fall asleep to it so he has something to listen to/think about when he goes to bed. (If there's nothing to hear other than eerie creeks and sounds in your dark room while your eyes are closed what are you going to be thinking about?)
I'm 13 and I stopped going into MY mom's room when I was 11.
Instead of getting a TV in my room I just started sleeping downstairs where the TV was and I would listen to it quietly as I fell asleep. Trust me. Get a TV for him and this problem will disappear.View Thread
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