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I have read that children suffer greatly from divorce. That their school work suffers, their esteem suffers, everything suffers. At the same time, their self-esteem is already poor. Would it get worse if I got divorced??? Are they better off staying in the present situation?
I can't find any resources on the web that list the pros and/or cons of these two options......
I know only I can make the ultimate decision, but wanted advice about how this could/would effect the kids. They are my ultimate concern!!!!
TIA!!!!!
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Well I hope the best for you & your family. I'm glad you plan to get everything done at once. I think that's best.
Good luck in trying to conceive again( if you decide to that is, although I doubt you will need it).
I'll keep you in my thoughts. Glad I could be there for a little extra support.View Thread
As a non experienced person, I might suggest accepting the stepdaughter and fiance the way they are, or get out of the relationship. Changing them and their relationship is unlikely at this age.
However, if you decide you are able to accept them as they are, one idea might be to model independence, talk of it, cut out and post articles about it casually, and kind of 'for yourself'. Some weak influence might occur. But I would not expect it. It is not likely.
You could also babysit the child while the mother gets a job. Just find a way to accept the situation rather than change it will probably work best and bring you more satisfaction.
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What I did to have the girl is conceive her later in the fertilization window. I had read that female sperm live longer than the male sperm so it worked for me.
Wish I remembered the name of the book.View Thread
Don't let your mother make you feel guilty. I think it's great taht the skills you are learning with your child who has Down Syndrome can be used for the benefit of your youngest child too
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The ovulation kits are usually disposable after one use. Also you will get a better response if you post this on the trying to concieve board.
have you tried taking your tempuature and charting it ect. I had trouble concieving and found that the ovulation kits were not for me and I wasted a lot of money. There are other indicators to assist you in deterimining ovulation.View Thread
As I go through the same issues as you do with a nuclear family, I can't help but wonder why you haven't said something to her son?
All children, regardless of age, have to be treated fairly and equally. If it is required that the house stay spotless, then her son needs to do the same, no questions asked. You should talk to her, tell her your concerns, that you don't want to fight, but you want it fair between ALL the kids. If not, then eventually it's going to seem as if you are not treating your kids fairly and letting hers get off scott free. This is a JOINT venture, not just her way or the highway, and the sooner she knows that, the better.
If worse comes to worse, show her your post on here, and see what she says...my BF and I speak alot about co-parenting since that is one of THE biggest issues in divorce and parenting. If you don't talk about it, the other person doesn't know it. Open and honest. Best policy!
Good luck to you!
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Circumcision is always a hot topic on WebMD. I thought you might like to check out the this debate on the Parenting community and share your views!
Do you think the DH should decide if their son should be circumcised?View Thread
Our guest expert, Dr. Altmann asks: "From your own family experiences, do you have any tips to share about teaching social skill to children?"
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Divorce can be very emotional for our children. At times, a child will blame themselves for causing the divorce. WebMD has some help: Kids Coping With Divorce can give you some tips and warning signs to look out for.
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Think about what you like to keep track of and milestones you like to share with your family and friends and post them here in this thread. I bet you all keep track of a lot of things our staff would never think of!
Can't wait to get your feedback.
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The best way to begin a healthy life style with your children is to begin right away. Dr. Altmann has some suggestions to help you with:
5 steps for healthier kids
Please share with Dr. Altmann how you ensure healthy eating habits in your home.View Thread
We all are trying to eat healthier but if we look close at our natural foods we will find that our meats are filled with hormones, fruits and vegetables filled with pesticides.
Organic foods might be our answer. WebMD's: Organic Foods Overview gives some useful information for what to look for when trying to buy organic.
Do you try to buy organic foods?
What advice can you share when trying to change over to organic foods?View Thread
Dr. Altmann has a great discussion on the Parenting Community entitled: Are your kids ready for cyberspace? Come share your thoughts.View Thread
I have a Jeep Grand Cherokee. It is great for kids and made for rough ware.View Thread
Ask the daycare center how they encourage him to eat. If you beg the child it puts him in control to decide. Consider taking your grandson shopping with you and allow him to pick foods that he likes but healthy then as a treat give him one choice of unhealthy. If he is eating at daycare then he can eat at home. Make dinner time fun!
Consider changing the chocolate milk to Ovaltine, or Ensure chocolate flavor.View Thread
You are absolutely right. Consider having the PCP examine her and send recommend a specialist. We have an expert on the main Parenting board: http://exchanges.webmd.com/parenting-exchange
Dr Benaroch and Dr Adesman can give you more information. Please keep us updated.View Thread
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I wish a very happy, warm and safe holidays! I hope you are surrounded by love, that the food is good, that the lights stay bright, and you find plenty of reasons to laugh and smile.
Lainey
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