So I just wanted to share something that happened with me and get any thoughts. I have an Irish heritage (freckles and all) and my husband is hispanic. Recently a man who obviosly had the same heritage as me asked me what country I adopted my son from! The only thing I could come up with was "he's mine". It does hurt my feelings though, that people assume that my boys aren't mine because they are darker than me. Not sure how to deal with feeling that way about it. Like I'm not represented in the gene pool.View Thread