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My challenges, however, have been immense. Sick most of the time, had the flu, apparently an on-going sinus infection that I'm still trying to battle naturally, recently back/nerve issues, and of course the ol' psychological obstacles that are probably the cause of most of my strife.
I have been healthy all my life, so I guess I haven't quite known how to deal with this. The biggest problem has been extreme fatigue, and it is still unresolved. The recent addition of B-12 shots every 2-3 days and 15,000 IUs of D daily seemed to help for a couple of days, but today was about the worst, so it's it's not working. I have not been able to exercise throughout the whole pregnancy because of the fatigue. So sometimes I get fearful about the birth. But I always feel good about the health of the baby. I have that at least.
I don't want to scare other older pregnant women who may be at the beginning or trying to get pregnant, but this is my story right now, and I'm calling out for help if anyone has any ideas or experience here.
I think a big aspect of my condition is being single and not feeling emotionally supported the way I need to be. The father, also a first-time parent at age 52, surprised me and turned infantile once he found out I was pregnant (though he claims to be ecstatic about it). He has not been able to offer much support, and says he in fact needs support.
My mom has been scratching her head the whole time and repeating over and over how all HER pregnancies were so perfect! Every day she wakes up and seems to have forgotten I'm about 25 years older than she was when she started.

If someone could tell me one little thing that might help my energy, I would be eternally grateful. Much love and hope! Thanks~View Thread
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Hope everyone is well!!!!!View Thread
We were not planning another, but we were not preventing it either so it is not gonna be a big surprise or anything. My other concern is family and friends. I am not so sure they will be happy, so I have mixed feelings about how to annouce it with them as well. I am approximately 7 to 8 weeks along. I am gonna schedule a Dr's appt soon. I have miscarried in the past around 8 to 10 weeks so I am anxious over that as well, as to why I have not scheduled my Dr's appt yet. I guess I needed to get it off my chest and let someone know, so now maybe I can tell my inner circle. Thanks for letting me annouce to you ladies and any advice you could lend me I would appreciate.
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I am currently 38 years old my pregnancy was healthy and low risk. I have 5 children after having 3 vaginal and my last was a c-section which was 6 years ago I had a successful vbac delivery no ruptures, no tears, my baby was 7lbs 5oz and was born exactly on her due date 7/16/2011 what a blessing!
I say all that to say that i had to stand firm while in labor i was dialating too slow so they wanted to give me a c-section telling me that my baby could have brain damage and could die due to the baby's heart rate dropping then it would pick up then drop again, but it was my faith and steadfastness that allowed me to accomplish what I desired and that was a natural vaginal birth with no medications. The pain was great but the reward was well worth it.View Thread
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My name is Rachel, I am 42 and found out a week ago that I am pregnant. Saw my OB 2 days ago and he said I am 6 weeks along. I am both scared and excited. I have 3 boys - 13, 12 & 8 and this is my 5th pregnancy. I had a miscarriage 2 years ago and I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS) on Feb. 9, 2010. So far, I am doing well with my MS since there are no major flare ups except for some numbness and tingly sensations on my right thumb, pointer and index fingers. I stopped my medication, with my neurologist's approval the day I found out I was pregnant. I hope this pregnancy will go well. My husband and I haven't announced it yet. We wanted to make sure that the baby's fine before we tell the kids because they were really saddened with my last pregnancy. There was no heartbeat at 10 weeks.
Is there any member out here that is or was in the same situation as I am today? I mean, pregnant at 42 with MS?
I wish everyone well and enjoy your pregnancy!
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Any and all responses would greatly be appreciated.View Thread
4 weeks prego & HCG levels rising daily along with Progesterone levels.
Find out June 21st exactly how far along & get a due date.
I know you all are just dying to know, so I'll be back with updates
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Has anyone ever just had the 2 blood tests w/o the NT scan? I'm really nervous about all this. I won't even get any results until AFTER the 2nd blood draw. I do have a Level II ultrasound appointment set up for August.
Thanks for any help you might be able to provide!
EDD 12/23/11View Thread
I was starting to think about my daughter's future and the excitement of her going away to college and all that it would bring. I'll be 60 by the time this baby is 20. Did anyone else feel this way ever? I know it's selfish but WOW. I'm floored and worried.View Thread
DD 1 - EDD 12/23/2008 but born at 33 wks on 11/9/2008
DD 2 - EDD 10/18/2010 and born on 10/12/2010
07/18/2011 - snh571 (Samantha) - PINK Team
08/25/2011 - kbjoe — GREEN Team, thinking PINK
08/30/2011 - scoutabout (Lisa) — GREEN Team
09/04/2011 - ericajbusse (Erica) — GREEN Team
09/14/2011 - amberrenea (Amber) — GREEN Team
09/26/2011 - cruise_control (April)--Green team
10/07/2011 - bamamom68 — BLUE Team
10/07/2011 - Aimeebryant (Aimee) — GREEN Team
10/15/2011 - lbean1975 (Teasa) - GREEN Team (for now)
12/26/2011 - tldye519
UPDATES NEEDED:
05/22/2011 - 73nichole — PINK Team
Wingate702 (Cheryl) — was due on 02/09/2011
volmom03 (Cara) - GREEN Team (Think Pink!) was due on 02/10/2011
jlbwondering — GREEN Team was due 02/28/2011
jescar - YELLOW Team was due 03/03/2011
k_ykelly (Lori) - BLUE Team was due 03/11/2011
Sigma3rc74 - PINK Team was due 03/19/2011
DDMHob - GREEN Team was due 03/21/2011
Momma2lucas (Jody) - GREEN Team was due 04/12/2011
Jamjeng (Jamie) - GREEN Team was due 04/20/2011
Aduray (Amy) - PINK Team was due 04/26/2011
NEW BABIES:
Cheyenne828 (Pam) — Sarah on 3/24/11
Cheri320 (Cheri) — Emma Nicole on 3/4/11 at 11:38 am, 8 lbs 4 oz, 20 ½"
43Hope (Emily) - Kerrick Walter on 2/18/11 at 2:30 am, 8 lbs 12 oz, 20"CarrieD6 (Carrie) - Gabriel Zayden on 12/22/10 at 1:43 am, 9lb 5oz, 22''
rbird30 (Robin) - Addison Lynn on 12/2/10 at 6:42 pm, 5 lbs 10 oz, 18".
Janna1016 (Janna) - Alyssa Joy on 11/8 at 4:29 PM, 8 lbs 13 oz., 21"
Truewyatt (Brandy) - Estelle Abigail Marie on 10/30/10 at 4:48pm, 10lbs 3 oz, 21"
QueenOfStarWars (Jeannie) - Theresa Elizabeth on 10/12/10 at 8am, 7lbs 9oz, 19"
Belle38671 (Deb) - Kaianne Carbree on 9/7/10 at 10:27am - 7lbs, 14 oz, 20"
BeachKiwi (Alison) - TWINS Max & Freya on 8/12/10 - Zane at 2:21pm, 7lbs-3oz, 21". Freya at 2:34pm, 6lbs-5oz,19.75".
Guinnessstout (Amanda) - Einin Loveina on 8/9/10 at 11:37pm, 7 lbs 9 oz and 21".
Dwaw02 (Angela) - Taylor Marie on 7/18/10 at 4:14 pm, 6 pounds 15 oz and 19".
Ntherelng (Renee) - Nathan Jensen on 6/20/10 at 5:34 am, 6 lb even and 19 1/2".
TEAMS:
BLUE Team = Boy
PINK Team = Girl
GREEN Team = Don't know YET but will!
YELLOW Team = NOT going to find out (until baby is born)
PLAID Team = Boy/Girl TwinsView Thread
DD 1 - EDD 12/23/2008 but born at 33 wks on 11/9/2008
DD 2 - EDD 10/18/2010 and born on 10/12/2010
DD 1 - EDD 12/23/2008 but born at 33 wks on 11/9/2008
DD 2 - EDD 10/18/2010 and born on 10/12/2010
Though my little one is 7 months old, I try to check in from time to time and see what's new on the mommy board.
How far along are you? How are you feeling? Avoiding swollen feet?
Did Nichole have her baby????
Hugs!
JeannieView Thread
DD 1 - EDD 12/23/2008 but born at 33 wks on 11/9/2008
DD 2 - EDD 10/18/2010 and born on 10/12/2010
im due 12-26-2001 and it was totaly not expected we have had 2 misscarages and the last one was 21/2 yrs ago so we thought we were not able to get pg again and was going to go to the dr to see about getting my tubs tied .
My dr wants me to start progesterone from 16 weeks on and i dont know any thing about it . If i could get some info that would be Awsome
Have a great day everyone
TheresaView Thread
P.S. I see these little code letters behind some of your signature lines and I can't figure out what they mean. I've got that it's husband's age, other siblings, etc. Could someone please clue me in and I'll add it to mine?
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I found that the teaching hospital (half the distance!) does it, and either cervically or transabdominally, but I had to specifically ask to be referred there. Then they were really tight for appointments, so I am going to be tested at 11 wks 6 days.
Did anyone else who opted for this testing have a difficult time finding a practitioner?View Thread
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