I say make the decision of wanting to be a parent independent of meeting the right guy. If you meet the right guy soon you will end up having to rush into things to beat the biological clock. I am 34 and I met my boyfriend last year and he wants to rush everything and miss all the good stuff because he wants to have two kids. I am beside myself over it. I wish I either met him years ago or when it was too late to have kids so there wouldn't be all this pressure. I love my boyfriend but I am not ready to have kids and I don't want to miss out on things.View Thread