If I may, I can relate with you wife maybe. After our lose a year ago, the thought of being intimate was so far out of my mind . It was all connected in my mind you see... Intimate = pregnancy= possible heartbreak again. Eventually we worked it out but still after a year has passed I still think of loosing our baby when we make love. It's a long process to work through not only in your mind but especially in our heart . Maybe she's afraid of the possibility of another heartache and even letting you down again? . Good luck and hope this helps someView Thread
im 38 soon to be 39. my husband and I are trying to get pregnant. its been a struggle like none other. I had my tubes tide almost 15 years ago then we decided to have them reversed 3 years ago. 2 years later we got pregnant. 9 weeks later I had a ruptured tubal pregnancy.it devastated us.That was just over a year ago this past July. Im starting to worry that we wont get pregnant again since the dr removed my ovary and tube from the side of the tubal pregnancy. I had dye ran through the tube that is left and everything looked good according to the Dr. Im just afraid that since its been over a year , with constant trying with no pregnancy, that it wont happen again. We really would love to have another child and my Dr says to keep trying as long as we want to but im worried about my age. Am I to old to keep trying?View Thread
Thanks so much for the words of encouragement . I guess I just am letting not getting pregnant get me down a little. Some months I think I should leave well enough alone after a many key downs , but we have decided to keep trying for a few more months. It's just hard seeing babies everywhere and not knowing if we will ever be blessed again.View Thread
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