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i am still tired but the "evening sickness" is going away. i don't have another doc appointment until may 7th, but just for a doc visit. i am large so i don't think we'll hear the heartbeat through the doohickey they use on just the belly! (wow! i am losing it!)... and i don't get another ultra sound until may 13th, for the 12w genetic measuring for trisomy 13 and downs.
i believe all is okay, but this time around, they seem to not be checking me as much. i THINK i am okay with it but deep down i kinda feel jaded. weird right? i don't have the feeling of anxiety with this pregnancy but i am definately nervous. just not so much. weird.View Thread
i am still tired but the "evening sickness" is going away. i don't have another doc appointment until may 7th, but just for a doc visit. i am large so i don't think we'll hear the heartbeat through the doohickey they use on just the belly! (wow! i am losing it!)... and i don't get another ultra sound until may 13th, for the 12w genetic measuring for trisomy 13 and downs.
i believe all is okay, but this time around, they seem to not be checking me as much. i THINK i am okay with it but deep down i kinda feel jaded. weird right? i don't have the feeling of anxiety with this pregnancy but i am definately nervous. just not so much. weird.View Thread
My update: 4w5d. No weight gain yet and not too much by the way of symptoms. Some occassional nausea, heartburn. Tender breasts. So far so good. Have my first doctor's appointment tomorrow. Really just a confirmation, but I will get to talk with my OB as well.
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TuTu to TWO & Grammy too! due nov. 21st --> (pic of ultrasound)
(we are hawaiian and tutu is a form of grandparent, it's said it means "wise")
we are off to buy a Big Sister shirt for our DD...
wish us luck...wish ME luck!
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* I had intercourse the 20th, the 24th, and then April 8th.
* Had spotting very scant on April 7th.View Thread
My EDD by my calculations is 12/18/13. Yay Christmas baby!View Thread

today i am beginning my 8th week and this morning i had to do my one hour glucose testing. yuck. i didn't mind the taste of it a couple of years ago...maybe i am getting older and now i know sugar is not that great for me anymore!
that or it was because i was sooo hungry and sugar is NOT what i wanted to be tasting! .... i did end up getting slightly light headed toward the end of the hour, but not enough to say anything. (i think!)i played hookie from the babysitters today! as in, the babysitters is my MIL and she doesn't know we are pregnant again, so when it's time for me "to get off work" i will go change my clothes and go pick up the DD!
sneaky! but til that time, i am using the added time in my day to quilt a blanket for my nephew. it has taken SOOO much time! i only get to work on it when DD is napping and now that i am KU, i also have to take naps now... so i don't get to work on it as nearly as much as i need to. it NEEDS to be done by may 31st. anyway, that's my update!View Thread
all is fine and dandy. she said that she doesn't want to see me gain and that she said she'd like for me to actually lose. i am hoping that it won't be a problem because with my DD (2 yo), i kept losing but was trying to ONLY gain 15 lbs. oh well. if i do gain, i gain, if i lose, i lose. i am NOT gonna stress about it, i am just gonna eat healthy and listen to my body.my craving, although it's "too early to crave things yet", is cabbage, cole slaw to be exact. which i NORMALLY do NOT like! so maybe something in cabbage is needed?
or maybe it's the sweetness of the sauce?
hehe! my ultrasound is set up for the 9th, this coming tuesday. i am HOPING/PRAYING to see a heartbeat, but because i do believe i O'd late, as long as the baby measures a week smaller than the 8 weeks that it's "suppose" to be and no heartbeat, i think i will be okay....MAYBE?!!?! who am i kidding?! i want to see a heartbeat SOOOO badly!
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I'm new here but I did spend quite a bit of time on the TTC after loss board. In June of 2011 we found out that I was pregnant for the first time. We were thrilled as we had been trying for almost a year. I went in for the initial consultation appt. and everything was fine. They scheduled an u/s for a few days later but I started spotting before the u/s. When they did it, there was no heartbeat. I had a D&C the next day. We were devistated but the doctors said it was just chromosomal and I was fine to try again. We despirately wanted a baby so we started trying again and I got pregnant again 2 months later...only to m/c again at around 6 weeks before any doctors appts or u/s or anything. I asked the doctors what was wrong with me but they insisted this was just bad luck and everything was fine. We started trying again and found out I was pregnant again about 5 months later--actually took the test on what would have been my first due date. We were elated...thought that was a sign that it was meant to be. Started feeling sick and sore breasts and everything. First u/s was great--strong h/b. Had another u/s at 9 weeks. Everything still looked fine. Then started spotting at 11 weeks 3 days. Went in to the doctor and had another u/s only to find out the baby stopped developing around 9 weeks. Scheduled a D&C for two days later but the next day at home I lost everything. DH rushed me to the hospital where I nearly passed out and they did a D&C to get any leftover tissue but they said the baby was gone. This led us into a variety of tests over this past summer--genetic tests, ultrasounds a HSG, bloodwork etc. After finally seeing a second specialist he told us he thinks I need a blood thinner to help the placenta attach properly. So, I was finally able to get pregnant again. They started me on progesterone and letrozole. I am 15 weeks 3 days right now...due Sept. 21st. Sorry for the long intro story to get me to my point...which is: I'm terrified! I know I'm out of the first trimester so I'm a little safer now. I also had u/s every two weeks during the first trimester and everything was always good--measuring good (even measuring a couple days big), strong hb etc. I have had no cramping, bleeding, spotting anything to tell me that something is wrong but I just cant get it out of my head that something is going to happen to this baby too. I want to be happy and excited and bond with my baby but I just cant seem to get happy about it. I know worrying is not helping but I cant help it. I need support from people who have been there. How did you get through your pregnancies without losing you mind? I'm sure I'll feel better once I can feel the baby move but right now I dont have anything to tell me that everything is fine. I graduated from the specialist so no more every-two-week u/s and my first appt with the regular doc is one week from today. I feel like I'm going to lose my mind before that appt. gets here. And even when it does, I'm going to be so scared that they will not find a hb. Help me keep my sanity
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we have been trying for the last 5 months and this month i was convinced that i wasn't/haven't been ovulating...i guess i had!
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we have been trying for the last 5 months and this month i was convinced that i wasn't/haven't been ovulating...i guess i had!
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Now I have a 22 month old who's vocabulary is off the charts and thinks she is a lion and fills my house with lots of beautiful and loud roars and a 5 month old who rolls around everywhere and chews on anything and everything put in front of her.
Although I have 2 beautiful children, I still ache for the baby that we lost. I found myself this very morning calling my doctor to ask if they have on file what the gender of our baby was. They have already told me that they didn't run those tests, but I felt the need to ask again for some reason so this morning I picked up the phone and made the call. They told me the same answer, but I feel better knowing that I called and I am not wondering anymore if they didn't tell me at the time because they didn't think it would be "healthy" for me to know that information, know what I mean? So, I will never know, but it doesn't matter because I will meet our angel in heaven someday. I truly believe the baby we lost is a guardian angel to our girls. I lurk on here quite a bit to see if there are any other women who are in need of the same encouragement that I needed. This is a safe place to come to vent, cry, scream, laugh, worry, and just get out all of the crazy that comes with pregnancy after loss. I just wanted you all to know that I am here, waiting for someone to listen to, someone to encourage. This board was a lot more active when I was pregnant so I hope that the lack of activity is due to less losses rather than fear of stepping forward and introducing yourself. Don't be afraid! We don't bite! I know there are others lurking out there! How about EVERYONE who is lurking introduce yourselves. Basically if you find yourself reading this post, tell me about you and what brought you to this board. Lets get some activity going on this board again!
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TRIGS: 1 loss (Jackson, Aug 6th '09), story in profile.
But I wanted to post and let you know my sweet Josephine Anne was born on January 10th at 628 am. She was 9lbs 6 oz and 21 inches! She is BFing well and sleeping a few hours at a time through the night.
Short story- I woke up at 3am to strong contrax, we got to the hossy at 4ish and started the iv fluids for the epi and the GroupStrepB antibiotics also. Got the epi at 5:45ish and by 6ish I was at 10 and my water broke all over the doctor. Pushed her out at 628am. There was meconium in the amniotic fluid (meaning she had a bowel movement in the womb) so there was some concern there and also I only had time to get one bag of GSB antibiotics, and I was scared to death something would happen to her during birth... I dont know if everyone feels this way or if its because we lost ^Jackson^ but I get SO nervous during labor. But everything was fine and she is here and healthy!!
I am so so thankful, I feel the Lord has heard my prayers and blessed my babies(my 2yr old & my newborn), and I am just overwhelmed at how perfect and sweet they both are. I am feeling very thankful right now, I am sure most moms feel this way but I think coming from a place of loss, it magnifies how wonderful it is when everything is OK.
((((hugs))) ladies!!View Thread
TRIGS: 1 loss (Jackson, Aug 6th '09), story in profile.
Posted by An_249840I was 10 weeks pregnant, heartbeat was perfect, bloodwork perfect, so what changed so drastically? Ladies this is my horror story, one I have never heard of before, because people do not speak in details too often. I miscarried soon after I had my flu shot, in which my doctor insisted that I had to get. Does this sound familiar? You'd be surprised to know that according to some websites, they claim that the flu vaccine has not determined or examined if the flu shot was safe for the fetus. So why the insisting on this especially when you are pregnant. I need answers, I am in agonyView Thread
I am a mother of 3 children. I had a Miscarraige 3/2011. My husband and I really want to have a baby together, we have had no luck since.. I was experiencing Sciaitic pain, Sore breasts, and slight cramps yesterday on 1/4/13. I am not supposed to start my period until 1/6/13. I want to mention I experienced Sciatic pain at the begining of all 3 of my other pregnancies, even with my miscarraige too i had in 2011. I have not had sore breasts like this my misscarriage in 2011. Anyhow i took a pregnany test earlier today 1/5/13,left it in the bathroom and went to put a load of laundry on it only took like 15 minutes to complete came back to the bathroom and noticed i light/faint second line on the stick.. Did I want to long to check the test? Are these results accurate and should i retest? How long does it take for HCG to be detected into your system? Please hekp! Thank You!View Thread
I hope everyone had a good holiday and here's to a happy new year!View Thread
My DD was born 12/10 after 2 mc. She has Prader-Willi Syndrome and this baby could also have it. This pregnancy is totally unplanned, but I am okay with that. Here's hoping for the best.View Thread
When I took the pg test in april I knew, the second the plus sign showed up, I would never get to look upon that child and hold it in my arms. The 2 weeks of tests and u/s, pokes and prods, pelvic exams and questions; I never had any hope. My mind knew what my heart didn't want to accept. I hated that people kept saying reassurances knowing what I felt. The only people that knew were my sis and mother. It was heart wrenching and I became a very bitter person.
When my husband read the pg test in August, I was floored. It immediately became a source of anxiety. This whole pregnancy has been anxiety and fear. I literally exhausted myself beyond reason. Yesterday was honestly the best day I have had since the day I had my son. That includes becoming married. It makes me thankful for every moment of sickness, pain, pokes, tests, and peeing myself. As much as I am embarassed by that last statement, I am thankful cause it just reassures that this kid is growing and moving just like he should be.View Thread
My fiance just got back from Afghanistan and we obviously have been having a lot of sex. We have been going out a lot too so I have been forgetting to take my birth control until 9-10 at night. Before he came home I was taking it around 5.
Ive switched to 9 at night for about 2 weeks, and a few days ago I started spotting. I figure its because of this little mess up in my BC schedule (i take seasonique and Im half way through the entire pack)
This morning when i went to the bathroom I have this think clump from my spotting. Ive never have anything like it before. It was a think patch that almost looked like red skin. Very think, not very mucus-y at all. The texture was almost like wet gum.
Very strange to me. Should I be concerned at all?View Thread
We just celebrated my sons 2nd birthday last week..it amazes me how long the days were when I had my losses and how fast the last 4 years have gone.
My daughter is now 4 going on 14...she amazes me each day.
Hang in there and sending tons of calming vibes and ad H&H 9 months to all!!View Thread
Melissa & Baby Clark
35w3d
w/g - 30 pounds!!! Yikes! lol
s/c - Swelling, heartburn, general all around uncomfortablenesss.....I am really starting to feel done! I wish I could just stay home and sleep the next 5 weeks! The doctor told me I had a little bit of Anemia and of course I am still stuggling with the gestational diabeties....so things are hard right now! I dont know about you ladies but I get tired of people saying "its almost over!" no it isnt! lol. My poor husband I was so mean to him yesterday over so stupid stuff and I cry for no reason at all. My emotions are all over the place! Ah well, it will be worth it in the end.
Next appointment on Thursday and now on weekly!View Thread
His and hers family of 4 kids
Mine-DD Emily 12..DS Kody 10
His-DD Rinoa 11
Ours-DS Maxim 4
LO due 06/17th/2013

I know it doesn't mean a defenitive loss but this is exactly the same as the two previous times..View Thread
His and hers family of 4 kids
Mine-DD Emily 12..DS Kody 10
His-DD Rinoa 11
Ours-DS Maxim 4
LO due 06/17th/2013
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