My 17 year old daughter told us Thursday that she is 5 months pregnant. The boy's family has known since august and did not let us know. She has not had ANY prenatal care. Of course I made an emergency appointment and had her seen today. My worries are that she did not want me to come in with her and they can't tell me anything because of HIPA laws. I thought that we were close and have ALWAYS told her that she could come to me with anything. But there is this wall of disconnect and I can't reach her... My husband and I are not in a financial position to really take this on and at 17 the 2 of them are not either. So I have been trying to have her think about adoption. And we get the brick wall it is not for me to make her choice and I have stressed that to her. We are so confused and don't want to lose our daughter.Is there anyone out there that can relate to our situation?View Thread
Thank you for your post. we are reeling still... I have always talked about sex a as a woman YOU need to protect your self. But this is happening and her Dad and I don't have the right to tell her what to do but, we want her to realize it's not like on TEEN MOM and it isn't EASY........ Most of all we love her but money is hard for us right now and we want to to have a plan..... GOOD LUCK and I hope you have someone there for you....... View Thread
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