sorry to hear that things were as you expected! hopefully you are just a week behind and evrything checks out! I see this was posted a week ago so i'm curious to know of the updates from this weeks appt... hope you got some better news!View Thread
love both ideas! When I told DS(3) was when we went in for the first U/S... Baby was about 9wks so we were pretty sure it was safe and he loved having the pics to show everyone and he got to hear the heatbeat which he tried to mimic to explain to ppl View Thread
sorry about your loss... was this what the ob/gyn has advised you or did your bleeding get worse? I know this is a hard time for you right now and I hope you have support to help you get thru it! I m/c at this time in my 1st pregnancy so I know what you are going thru! I'll keep you in my thoughts and if you ever need to talk I'm here! There is still plenty of hope. I had a m/c at 9 wks in 2006 and gave birth to a healthy baby boy in 2009 and am now almost 25wks pregnant with another baby boy in 2012! have faith and give yourself time to heal!!!View Thread
welcome back to the boasrd delilah! takes a strong person/family to try again after that lose! My thoughts and prayers are with you and this little one! Happy and Healthy 9months to you!!!!!View Thread
Hey there I had a m/c at about 9wks so when I got that BFP with DS I was scared to heck n back, but remaining calm and telling myself that this time was different got me thru the first trimester. I kept my life going on being super careful of things that could potentially harm baby-to-be but we made it thru! Keep telling yourself everything happens for a reason and if its meant to be it will happen! I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy!! think happy thoughts, it will get you thru it!View Thread
Lurking from 2nd tri board Hey there ladies, sorry to hear about these men! Honestly it is their loss! They wont get to experience the pregnancy or the U/S or any of it! If they still don't choose to be there after the baby is born then they aremissing out on the most precious thing in life! I have a 3year old and have raised him mostly by myself! His father has just recently realized what he is and has been missing out on. in the last 8months he and I have gone to court for child support and visitation and he pays and sees him regularly. The last 3years have been rough because I work twice as hard to make sure he has everything 2parents would give him, but I would never change any second of it. He is a mommy's boy thru and thru The biggest help for me was having the support of my friends and family to get me thru the money stress of adjusting and the new mom stressful days. Izayah and I made it thru that and we are happy as can be. Now I'm expecting LO #2 and in the last 3 weeks we went from a family to just me and Izayah and baby-on-the-way. I know it will again be hard, but I remind myself everyday that I have to be strong for myself and my babies. It is all worth it in the end!
I know it may seem or sound impossible to do alone, but you really arent. There are ppl out there that will be willing to help especially when you need it most! Stay strong for yourself and that LO and one day you will realize you don't really need a man to raise a baby!
Congrats on your pregnancies and hopefully you update soon! Im here is you ever need to talk or anything!View Thread
Lurking from 2nd tri.. Glad to hear you ladies are staying active! I was in a dance class before I got pregnant and continued thru it. Just before our final show, I reached the 20week mark and it actually helped me get thru the 1st tri pleasantly!... With my first I stayed active and my labor was easy peasy.. hoping for the same great results! H&H 9months! View Thread