First of, am I too old., secondly my concern is with having a 3rd child. I have one 6 year old and she is so beautiful, I am not bias. We tried and tried then gave up and that is when it happened. My actual concern is after this delivery barring anything unseen will i be able to try again? I have always wanted a large family. I have a pretty stable marriage. You know we all have our quirks. Should I pursue? I heard down's was a possiblity I would never abort, but is that fair. Should I just get the operation something you can never take back and deny life. I am so conflicted. Someone Please HELP!View Thread