My surgery was about 3 weeks ago. You are definitely not alone. I am going through a period on confusion, depression, and the feeling that I "am not whole" anymore. Mentioned it yesterday to my wife and she really unloaded in me for feeling this way. I think it's a "she doesn't get it" thing. Trying to keep my chin up and concentrate on the positives instead of the negatives, but that doesn't make it go away.View Thread