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HaylenView Thread
Even when we're having what she has already tried and already decided she doesn't like... the rule of the house is, take at least one bite. 9 times out of 10 she actually likes it.View Thread
I've been there done that!
Maybe a family activity might work. I couldn't get my son interested in anything outside a game boy or x-box!
So as a family we would go roller skating every weekend or every other. Then he would ask to bring his friends along and after a while he was joining the town soccer team. Maybe something you can do with her might spark her interest into doing something fun and active without you, down the road.
Skate or hike then a picnic, a bike ride?
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HaylenView Thread
You've already taken the first and most difficult step, making the decision to improve your health! It is never easy to make changes and it can be very frustrating when the results don't seem to match the effort.
The next step, which you may have already taken, is to see your doctor for a checkup. That will give you and your doctor a starting point and a better idea of where you are at. A check up can also help your doctor see if there are some complicating health conditions that are making it hard for you to meet your goals.
Calculating your BMI and finding out the percentile or ranking, helps determine the level of increased risk of health problems, and thus helps determine how intense your personalized plan should be.
After trying the usual things (like healthier eating, increasing physical activity, cutting down sugary drinks, decreasing TV/computer/screen time) then there are other ways to ramp up.
Maybe things would be easier with a group of other kids? Sometimes a program over 10 weeks or so that includes some brief classes about cooking healthier, strategies for increasing physical activity in day-to-day activities, exploring what the barriers might be that are making it hard to change. Also, setting up a specific plan for healthy eating with a nutritionist or exercise specialist can give you a specific roadmap to follow. Sometimes it is hard to meet a less defined goal of "eating better" or "exercising more."
There are different options for kids at top of the charts, percentiles in the 99% range. There are a few very specialized centers around the country that do consider medication or surgery for some kids. It is not a first option and usually most other options have been tried before that point. I don't know if that is a good fit for you or not.
In the meantime, are there tips that other teens or parents would like to share with Brittany? Maybe a strategy that seemed to work well for your family?View Thread
I thought it was a great idea to be able to help kids get their exercise and be a opportunity for the kids to see adults model good habits.
So, how long and how hard should kids exercise?
The general recommendation is for kids to get at least 60 minutes a day of moderate or more intense exercise per day.
O-kay. 60 minutes is clear, but how moderate is moderate?
Here are a couple or resources to help you and your kids set a good pace.
1. http://blogs.elon.edu/ptkids/category/tm-tools/24-perceived-exertion-scale-for-children/
The link outlines a 10 point scale of exertion with child-friendly descriptions. Moderate exertion would be at a 5/10. Some versions have faces to go with the numbers like a kid's pain rating scale.
Scoring:
1……Very, Very Easy
2……Very Easy
3……Easy
4 ……Just Feeling a Strain
5…….Starting to get hard
6…….Getting Quite hard
7…….Hard
8……..Very Hard
9……..Very, Very Hard
10……So Hard I am going to Stop
2. This one is even easier: the Talk Test
http://www.cdc.gov/physicalactivity/everyone/measuring/index.html
http://www.cdc.gov/physicalactivity/everyone/measuring/index.html
"The talk test is a simple way to measure relative intensity. As a rule of thumb, if you're doing moderate-intensity activity you can talk, but not sing, during the activity. If you're doing vigorous-intensity activity, you will not be able to say more than a few words without pausing for a breath."
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I live in Southern California - if we only had a helicopter, we could do much more!
HaylenView Thread
My son was able to play football in the yard with his buddies.
Over Thanksgiving, our whole family had the 3rd Annual Tiongson Turkey Trot. It was sorta like a flash mob of walkers/joggers/strollers through the neighborhood. Great way to start out the holiday season.
While traveling, I would hit the hotel gym with my daughter who would work on her dance team routine and stretch while I was on the machines.View Thread
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HaylenView Thread
It sounds like there are still some things left unanswered for you after the first visit.View Thread
Second, maybe there is some teasing going on at school or in the neighborhood that is giving him this inaccurate body image.
Societal and cultural pressures beyond the schoolyard and neighborhood might be at play as well. Media messages about physical appearance are everywhere and are capable of influencing kids this young. We sure don't want the heathy eating and activity message to turn into an unhealthy drive for thinness.
Lastly, could there be something more? Maybe. If you can't seem to make any headway on changing your son's concerns about himself, then maybe a check up with your doctor can be a way to see if there is something more.View Thread
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http://exchanges.webmd.com/fall-parenting-challengeView Thread
"Activities for the Whole Family" is the theme this week. Click the link above, check out the entries and vote for your favorite. Post one yourself!
Haylen
p.s. Dishes with Apples/Pears is this weeks Healthy Plate Recipe Challenges . Sweet or savory, raw or cooked, anything goes! Head over there to vote and post.
It's hard for me to get into Fall food or activities. Supposed to be OVER 100 DEGREES where I live in the Southern California valley this weekend. Not feeling very "Fall" at all
HaylenView Thread
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HaylenView Thread
To help answer your questions about your son, we need to get an idea of his potential health risk. To do this, docs will use the Body Mass Index percentile, just like we use the growth chart percentiles to give context to the height and weight measurements over time and relative to other kids.
Studies of docs relying just on their eyeballs to determine risk based on weight show that we don't do a good job of picking out kids at risk or potentially at risk as they grow up. So the first step is to make a diagnosis based on BMI percentile for age using the child's height, weight, gender, and age.
Increased risk of health problems is greatest for BMI percentiles greater than the 95%ile for age. There is some increased risk between 85th and 94th%iles as well. I tried to calculate your child's BMI percentile but I wonder if there is a typo in your child's height above. 28 3/4" is more like the height of a 9 month old. Maybe his height is 38 3/4"?
Using the taller height and guessing your son's age to be 3 yrs and 1 month yields a BMI percentile of 91. This is not the highest risk zone, but something to pay attention to over time since there is a risk of it climbing higher as he grows up.
Limiting portion sizes is a useful strategy to encourage healthy eating habits for a lifetime. Hungry kids can always ask for more.
Studies of adults show that portion size makes a big difference. The classic popcorn bucket study is a great example. People were given free popcorn at a movie theater. Some people got large buckets and some got small buckets. Guess which group ate more popcorn? The large bucket group.
Then the twist. What about giving away stale popcorn? Even when the popcorn wasn't tasty, the large bucket people still ate more.
I think that some (many?) kids, just like adults, are capable of overeating and portion size can be an unconscious trigger to eat more.
A typical pattern that I see in my practice is kids who are maybe just a little heavy as preschoolers, then have a steep climb in BMI percentile through early elementary school years to become obese. I don't know why that happens, but it happens fairly frequently. I think your doctor has probably seen this same phenomenon and was very astute in picking up on a small increase in BMI percentile. Offering some advice at this very early stage can hopefully prevent the BMI percentile from rising higher over the next few years.View Thread
Spoiler alert: he's bringing lunches from home again!
Read her story here: Teaching Healthy Habits. You'll learn more about her son's not-so-healthy lunch and how he knew it contained too much sugar.
Do you talk about unhealthy food & habits at home with your kids? If not, do you have questions for our experts about how to start? Let's share!
HaylenView Thread
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Due to budget cuts recess time has been cut down. I'm going to try and keep up our family walks after dinner but homework can throw a wrench into that plan...
What activities do your kids participate in during the school year?
HaylenView Thread
What you found out about your daughters symptoms at her appointment?
Haylen
p.s. You've posted in the Raising Fit Kids Community but for medical questions, you might want to post next time in the Parenting Teens and Preteens Community where more medical issues are addressedView Thread
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Haylen
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Part of the way my family tries to find that balance is through portion size. The mini or kid size ice cream treats are a good "sometimes" food. Going out for frozen yogurt instead of ice cream is also a good option. Splitting or sharing items is another way.
The goal is not erradication of sweets but appropriate, moderate enjoyment of them in the broader context of a healthy balance of food, move, mood and recharge.View Thread
We also found a fitness bootcamp that provides childcare, so we go twice a week together. My daughter gets to run around with other kids and play, which keeps her active too!
We also try to walk and push our daughter in the jogging stroller a couple of times a week when the weather is good, and we purchased a membership to our local pool to take both of our kids several times a week during the summer. Sometimes we also take them hiking - the important thing is getting them out of the house and moving, while doing something fun together.View Thread
I know I looked forward to laying on the couch and watching TV during summers when I was a kid! So let's discuss alternatives here -
HaylenView Thread
I am going to rethink the class for the winter, I am in Missouri and at times the weather can really interfere with activity.
I do think some kind of class or sport is important at some point. I played softball and volleyball and even though I was not competitive they really helped my self esteem. My father in law is a black belt in tae kwan do and I always thought that would be a great thing, since they teach respect and self awareness along with activity.
What scares me is kids that are in so many activites that they burn out, or don't know how to play on their own when they have a little free time.View Thread
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