This is a tough one. Changes for kids stick best when the whole family is included. Add trying to keep consistency between households, and wow.
I think a vist with your pediatrician with both mom and dad may be the way to start. Both households need to be on board and understand the future health risks as well as how this is affecting the child now.
This could be a chance to explore what the barriers are that are getting in the way of healthy eating and activity.
Identifying the barriers (time, lack of resources, lack of awareness) and then brainstorming ways to overcome them could be the next step.View Thread
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