I wanted to learn more, I needed to learn more but I think it is clear that what the message was from this.like I said my emotions arLe to strong for this board. I don't this to happen again. These are good people. I will miss everyone especially YOU. I know this person was couldn't help it.but the thing s that were stuck in my head and have to wonder about it. I never ment for this to happenView Thread
If anyone wants to comment on the thread below this one do it here. I want to leave it in case.the family will reply again.sunless you want to send best wishes. I did leave a message for roh, I went to where I knew she would go.I think this changes it. The person was not being like mean,there medical issues affect their judge mentView Thread
I want to know what you guys did to my mother! All she has done is cry for the past two days. Now she won't even eat.How mean and nasty are you people. I can not believe that you called her a bully!! I have read through this forum and others here. There is nothing but meanness and hate here. You all should be ashamed of what you done. Treating a victim domestic abuse like that.View Thread
It seems that I have dragged my past here. This person can not let go and move forward. They want to get even with me and hurt you all in the process. As I said before please do not keep this going. It will only get worse. I don't want thatView Thread
I want to let all the valuable members here know how much I care about you all. Thank you to the community members who have helped me and any other person who came her asking for help. I'm in a bit of a difficult place emotionally right now. Because of this, I don't want to cause any fights by defending my friends on here from verbal attacks, I need to take care of myself and avoid heartache for a while.
I do not feel safe here because every time I think about posting my own feelings, I see how others have been treated and don't want to have to deal with that. This should be a safe place, and as long as even one person doesn't have the ability to speak freely, no one truly does. Deb has been put down and attacked for no reason, multiple times, by a user or users who seem only to want her to look bad. I know how the internet works, I might be next. So I'll take some time off and journal.
I miss you all, already! Thank you for what you have done for me.View Thread
I love you both for being so help. But this is happening way to much.and I will never let this board be harmed.even admitting to my mistakes it s not enough. I will be looking in because you to my family. My life is not simple to post any different. I handled it wrong when I posted t and I am very sorry thatView Thread
Why I do I do the work if I keep getting abused. All up u want is for me to take your abuse and dealing. All you care about.is me taking care of you and being your slave. It doesn't matter ho I feel,I am here for you and not for myself. You don't care how worthless I feel or the no trust that I have in life . I have no human contact in years. None of that matters to you. So I ask again why do I the workView Thread
Hmmm, no Deb? Where oh where has our Debbie gone? Where oh where can she be??? LOL!!! Sorry, couldn't resist the temptation!!! So, how are you, and how is it going? How is your son, is he healing nicely? And have you spoken to your therapist lately? I don't know if you have, or not, but I do know you haven't talked to me lately?
O.M.G.!!!!!! Do you have a boyfriend??? Is that why you neglect me? I mean, us? LOL!!! Hey, when you stay away for so long, you do scare me! I mean, us!!! You did say you could keep in contact a lot more, now that you had a new phone, right? Well, of course I am right, I always am!!! LOL!!! No, really, that is what you told us, I remember that! Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, where is our Debbie???
Hello, hello, hello, is there anybody in there, just cry if you can hear me? Ahhh yes, Pinky!!! Gotta love the Pink!!! LOL!
Okay, I yanked your chain hard enough! I just hope you check in once in a while? You do know how much we care about you, don't you? You do know how much we worry when you don't check in once in a while??? I'm not trying to put pressure on you, no, just a little arm twisting, is all! LOL!!!
WE DO MISS YOU WHEN YOU DON'T CHECK IN ONCE IN A WHILE, YOU KNOW??? We care, is all!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi - just an interesting turn of events. My long-lost friend called me yesterday and asked if she could come...
Posted by Anon_11642
Hi - just an interesting turn of events. My long-lost friend called me yesterday and asked if she could come over - I told her sure. Didn't know what this was about and hoping things would improve with this friend of mine.
First, she hugged me and told me she felt she has neglected me. I didn't say anything except glad you came over. But she did ask me why I don't go over to her house and visit her. I didn't know what to say so I said "I really don't know." No more was said. I guess I didn't go over there because I didn't know we were still friends but she is right as I rarely go over there - I just call her instead. Her husband is always there maybe that's the reason - it is so much easier to visit without husband included but never said anything about that. But did tell her I would come over more often.
So, we visited for almost 2 hours - glad we are still friends as I mentioned here before my friends are very important to me. She has been busy cleaning her house since she has worked for so many years and painting the garage. She wants to be organized in her house. I told her she could clean my garage too - LOL - I like neat too but can't always as my husband isn't that tidy.
Anyway, wanted to share my good news with you - you listened to me when I was down so anyway I feel better about this mystery.
Thanks for listening to me. Have a good weekend.View Thread
I didn't want to type on your last post, it would have replaced Dr. Leslie's post with mine, then you wouldn't know she responded to you. Without actually checking your post, that is?
I just wanted to say I would be thinking of your son, and you too, of course! I hope all goes well with his surgery!!! That's if he still needs it, of course. If he already had the surgery, I hope it went well, and was a success?! What kind of infection was it, if I may ask?
I hope you get to talk to your counselor today? From what you have been saying, you need him now?! There should be some way you could get him to talk to you in emergency situations? I don't suppose there is, tho?
I hope in the time you have to wait on your counselor, you might like to talk to us/me? I can sure get chatty, I suppose you already know this, and that is why you stay away from me? LOL!!!
I just want you to know I am thinking of you, and hoping all is as well as can be?
omg i thought this site may be an answer to reach out to others with similar situations but the last post i...
Posted by An_260057
omg i thought this site may be an answer to reach out to others with similar situations but the last post i see is 3 yrs ago i about to leave. poor me hope someone sees this and gets on this site soon or i leaving. ok now here it is. my husband had a mesh hernia operation about 2 yrs ago. never was the ultimate lover no i am lol. but i loved him to death. since the operation he has no freaking interest in sex whatsoever can get erect as hell he has a good one but gets desensitized and can never come for about a yr and a half now. you know what this does to a partners self esteem. of course you wonder if he having an affair or if its just you somehow. well now last 3 mths i have had an affair and cannot seem to get back to where we ever were, it seems like he does not care. if i go out alone or stay out all night supposedly at a girl friends he just does not care. i know he is not having an affair himself he simply physically cannot and i know that but its his lack of attention in alllllllllllllll other areas that makes me act out. what can i do. i have tried romance, i have tried mans heart to the stomach with good food, he states he is still totally attracted to me but never never shows it,. i am so hopeless and lost i just cannnot cope without some form of affection in my life . i have been in abusive relatilonships before overcome them all very indepentand, hard worker, awesome lover i have been told and yes i know this but cannot get even a trickle from the person who swore to love me forever! it is as if i no longer exist period in his world!!!!!!!!!!View Thread
Hi - it's me again with this so-called "peripheral" friend - apparently, she came over to my house as she...
Posted by Anon_11642
Hi - it's me again with this so-called "peripheral" friend - apparently, she came over to my house as she left a note - I was working out so missed her. It just said sorry she missed me and signed her name.
Hmmm - wondering what this is about - she either is trying to find out why I don't call a lot or who knows what else - anything is possible - OR she is having problems with husband and wants to talk about - it is anyone's guess.
I'm posting here because I am not sure what to say if she asks me if something is wrong - or asks if she has done something to offend me - etc etc and so forth.
I know I shouldn't say the word "you" - but if she asks if something is wrong with us I would like to say that I don't hear from you although I don't call her either anymore - don't want to start an argument - trying to salvage something. Her birthday card to me was very mushy and nice -
Don't know what to say - very confused - don't want to start an argument even though I would like to tell her off. I did text her just now to tell her sorry I missed her and to call before she comes the next time.
Would like to make a point about out "distant" she is without offending her - maybe you guys or gals can come up with something "generic that doesn't offend anything okay." Hope so - will check the board.
Hopefully, she will respond to my text message - I didn't phone but responded with a text. Thanks.View Thread
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Thank you for responding. I am just going to let her call me - I dont want to call her - if I invite her...
Posted by Anon_11642
Thank you for responding. I am just going to let her call me - I dont want to call her - if I invite her anywhere I'm afraid she'll say she can't so am not going to give her the opportunity.
I'm just letting her be for now - you know she has worked for many years at a health dept and had the latest in computers. She bought a computer for her home and has internet from what she tells me. Email too and has text on her phone - I mentioned to her never get an email - she says she needs to learn how to do it - yeah right - all you do is hit reply - you would think she could. Know she texts too.
Anyway, I don't understand this woman - best thing for me to do now is "nothing" - and see what happens - probably "nothing" - LOL -View Thread
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