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Reply: Are you the jealous type?

Have you ever considered that you are so head over heals with this woman because she is...

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Reply: I'm angry

FCL, I was thinking the same thing! Few people realize you don't have to answer questions...

Posted by tmlmtlrl

FCL, I was thinking the same thing! Few people realize you don't have to answer questions just because they are asked. What's wrong with "I prefer not to talk about it" or even "maybe we'll talk about it some other time"? Then you can decide over time if you're comfortable enough to talk about it or not.

I also have not talked about my past with my husband. It's never come up. Your past (good or bad) forms who you are today. You should not be ashamed.

I read this on facebook today: "What you think you become." -Buddha

I believe that's where you're at. I'm an over-thinker kinda person and I think you are also. If you're always thinking a woman isn't interested that's what you're gonna get. Quit trying to figure out what someone else is thinking of you because no matter what you think it is it's still YOUR thoughts not theirs. I'm very guilty of this. When I see people I try to think what they are thinking of me. And if you have a predetermined answer for all woman that doesn't leave room for other possibilities.

As for pursuing, I'm interested in details of how you handle situations. You are already an anti-social person which makes it hard for others to approach you. So what do you do (have done) to pursue or approach others? Like the woman at the concert - why didn't you approach her? Why not inject yourself into that conversation?

Woman like for a man to be interested. If you were at a restaurant and met eyes with an attractive woman and she looked away what is your next thought process? Do you write her off as not interested or do you wait for the next eye contact and smile?

I was thinking about you saying you don't fit in, feel like an outsider, a lot of people do. Where are you located? I guess you don't need to answer, but when I lived in San Diego, CA it was crazy... no one was from there and it was more odd to see two people of the same race together than an interracial couple.

I completely believe you have your mind in a place that you sabotage yourself in given opportunities. You need to re-frame your thought processes. Learn how to communicate with strangers. Not necessarily a woman your interested in, just a complete stranger. Talk with people in line at the store. Find opportunities to step out of your comfort zone and talk.

Years ago I had the problem of talking with strangers. Well more so starting up the conversations. I couldn't mingle. I stepped way out of my comfort zone and became a waitress to learn to approach and speak to people. I've always been an anti-social person. I like being alone. I don't want to always be alone though.

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Reply: I'm angry

You say you are the common denominator and no woman has ever liked you. Does that mean you...

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Reply: Are you too nice?

Honestly I don't think she's going to do anything because she is overcome by her guilt....

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Reply: To Stay or Go?

Why is the assumption that she is going to harass you or blow up your phone or freak out?...

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Reply: To Stay or Go?

That doesn't sound "more simple" at all. That sounds like a mess that could potentially...

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Reply: emotional attachment

The important question is - how important is an emotional bond to you ? It sounds like it...

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Reply: i'm just so sad.. lost feelings for husband, do th...

Does this sound like you? ...

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Reply: Living with Compulsive Hoarding

Well color me wrong. I guess you can throw her out. I forgot you said she has her own...

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Reply: Living with Compulsive Hoarding

I think more of the point is that that is her legal residence. He wouldn't be allowed to...

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