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In the end, he keeps apologizing after he hears your side..why? if he's soo sure your not the one making up the story then why go thru all that trouble of fighting with you to get the same end result?..
Maybe you, your son and that DIL of yours need to sit down together and get this done and over with.
Good luck
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yes, i wanted my kids to grow up with a mom & dad but c'mon, this isnt tv, this is real life and we have to deal with it the right way, the only ppl that matter are your kids!!! They will NEVER appreciate you for staying with someone so negative and believe me when I tell you, those kids are going to treat you in the same manner as your husband because you are showing them that this is how its suppose to be.
Dont let it be too late honey, run with your kids. Have faith in God, he'll help you through this. Dont die in this mans hands, where will your kids end up????View Thread

as far as us together? we seem to be doing well in other aspects such as..companionship, financial and he is soo happy that his kids, despite being grown, have welcomed him back and things are back to normal...his doctor told him he needs to stop smoking and stop drinking so much coffee because it seems that that is contributing to his problem sexually, but I just cant get into the "mood" with him because I hate to have to deal with him not being able to perform and I can only imagine how he feels..I was an every day sex going female to once or twice a month now

but, I can function just fine without it but I wonder for how long?View Thread

Long story short, I met my husband when I was 16 have two AMAZING children (which are now 26 & 21) after 16 years together my husband lost his mother and lost his mind along with it. We were seperated for 10 years and now out of nowhere, we have been placed on the same path and we are currently back together for almost 2 years...here's the prob...while i was seperated, I have learned so much about myself, and have truly enjoyed 'SEX'..in every shape and form I love it!! I have had an amazing 10 years of truly enjoying everything about it without feeling the least bit "insecure" about myself. It has made me the confident woman I am now BUT sex with my husband is BLAH!..He reminds me of someone who has never had sex and doesnt know what the hell he's doing!! I'm guessing its because of my experience before but I'd rather not have sex AT All and just lay in bed and "snugggle" till I fall asleep.
I'll be like 3 weeks without sex then try and just get annoyed at his "fumbling" Im not missing the sex with him but I do sure remember the good ol times.
my concern is how long will I be able to keep this charade?
I cant imagine never again have the kind of passion again. And the stress this will bring into this relationship in the end. A relationship withou sex? without passion? is that even possible?
I feel for you dealmein2 I really do.View Thread
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