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I did see a "like" in the profile pictures for Cousin It and I did add a Yeti... but...

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I didnt mean to duplicate, and i wasnt reminding you, just sharing. I think you did a...

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I didnt mean to duplicate, and i wasnt reminding you, just sharing. I think you did a brilliant job with the "bootleg", and i congratulate on being able to do that with precision, and good instincts. Absolutely excellent.
No i couldnt tell that you found my FB page. I did look...my smart phone isnt always so smart. Is there something that i missed?
The comment i made to the delightful doctor was pure sarcasm on my part, and it indeed showed that if I wanted to work on his team i had to do what the rest were doing, and i just didnt see or hear about him being "that" good. As far as the general gossip, I didnt want to be on that list by any means. His comment I thought was rather a pale attempt at an insult and my response was indeed an insult.
I have had requests for FWB and have turned them down. I do my best to learn from situations in life, and that at times no matter the "agreement", the situation changes, and peoples emotions are chaotic in the begining, and become more so when attachment is involved, so I choose not to become entangled in situations that could be harmful, just as you choose to do. We just do it in different ways as does everyone else. I have no expectations in relationships and like to keep things simple, and healthy.But for some FWB it is an effective solution, for others it is not a place they can go.
I do remember Sharon Stones comment about that. Not that i have the desire to make that change as i do enjoy going out and having fun with the guys. I really enjoy the Indoor Go-Cart racing and skiing, and if the snow keeps up, I will soon be in heaven.
My hair is untouched by all means. Has not been cut since 1993, and nothing chemical touches it. It is my mantra.
Thank you for being engaging, that is a trait that is sorely missed within todays communication. Most people do not see life as an adventure, and the work needed to accomplish things is a labor of love.
Respectfully, Cousin It...LOLView Thread

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Amazing! very few know how to do a bootleggers turn...I prefer to decelerate at entry...

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Amazing! very few know how to do a bootleggers turn...I prefer to decelerate at entry of the turn and punch it at the apex...suspension has be right and no sway. My father taught me many things...spincast/fly fishing...chess...how to sail a 32ft Columbia(he was a Navy man)how to operate a 21" chainsaw and how to build things. My brother taught me how to met every challenge...my favorite memory is camping and fishing in the primative area...I am still good with a 24oz framing hammer...I rebuild or fix most anything...have my own shop...I was in the hot rod club, did ski racing in HS, studied chemistry..microbiology and was a surgical nurse(also worked other areas) for 13 yrs before leaving...had studied architecture and built my own home but decided I didnt like all the external issues...and went into nursing...needed my head examined for that one...did a 2yr stint as a lingerie model...but didnt like the politics much...so now I work using my hands and fixing things and enjoy being happy. My ear for machinery works well for me. Ok...enough about all that. If you do find that fb page look for Cousin It on the friends section. I hope wherever you are that you have a great and happy holiday. It snowed all last night here so I awoke to glistening mountains...the sunlight was blazing...and the woodducks, widgen and mallards were talking up a storm. Watching football today. I will sign off for now...be happy.

Oh by the way...when I worked in the OR I was asked by a dr if I wanted to "play"...I said "play what...a game of chess?" He explained what he meant and I said "No" he asked if I was a lesbian( I had 3 boys at the time)...I told him I was not but if he was the alternative choice I would gladly convert...I just didnt want to be on his long list and all the nurses and staff made jokes about him and his affairs...needless to say I lost my job the next day on his team. I am pretty (Creek Indian and Scottish/Saxon ancestory)...interesting cross...long honey blond hair witb streaks of auburn and brown green eyesbut I guess that attention never made me feel pretty.View Thread

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As I said I grew up following my dad and brother. I chased them down mountains and...

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I basically said what some of my male friends have said about "dumping", just...

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Your level of honesty is fantastic. I agree with several of your points and disagree...

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Hey there...there are women and men out there that want just the physical relief of...

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Hey there...there are women and men out there that want just the physical relief of having sex...married or unmarried. In my neck of the woods(Id) it is mostly married and the cheaters web sites are making a profit. I have seen women who use guys just so they can brag about it and make themselves feel as if they have some sort of control in their lives. There is always a goal involved for them. Husband puts the roof over her head and makes the car payment and her lover's supply the sex...for some it is receiving presents...feeling special. For the guys it a bit different. They can be married and not getting getting what they want or cannot afford a divorce so they get on line and set up arrangements. Other just want as much sex as they can get and anything goes, just to be superficial. No emotional connection. It is however disturbing when your intimate with a person and they are fantasizing about another woman while having sex. I have never been comfortable with FWB situations. What I have wanted is communication and to do fun and exciting things together like skiing and whitewater, that is what turns me on and I love to be intimate with someone who can have an adventure with me. I do love being intimate and I love to orgasm but when it is a FWB their is no intimacy, romance or the desire to fly to Mars, make a couple of orbits and burn up on re-entry. It is just about the sex and the relief.
Communication is a key to everything. Sex, Pleasure, and Attention from the opposite sex is all we crave. Friends With Benefits was invented by man so they can have fun and not get involved with a committed relationship. If you are involved in a FWB arrangement and you are asking yourself, Is he using me for sex? Hell yes he is using you for sex. Get your head out of your posterior side! Some good advice about FWB which also can be used in everyday relationships would be if you are going to be in FWB arrangement you have to be honest with yourself, your partner, have rules, and communicate. However, If you begin to fall for your FWB and you decide to tell your partner, be prepared to lose your FWB status and possibly a friend.Enter a FWB arrangement only if you can agree to keep it a sexual relationship. If the two of you have mutual friends, you should agree to keep it a secret. If you feel you are becoming jealous, than you need to end your FWB agreement.Keep in mind that a FWB arrangement can work under the right circumstances. However, when you mix sex, pleasure, intimacy, romance, and feelings together, in the end someone is heartbroken. AND if you are a person that goes through life seeking the relief of an orgasm from multiple people then their might not be much to you and most anyone could walk across your waters and not get the hem of their pants wet.
I have experienced many things in my life from what it feels like to be a FWB, to having an unfaithful husband,to learning what it takes to be complete and happy. Work on completing yourself and being happy with who you are as a human being before thinking you need someone else to complete your life. Expectations are the greatest source of disappointments, in ourselves and others. We are in intelligent, capable human beings that are far past our knuckle dragging days. We make choices based on our own self esteem. We are responsible for our choices and the positive and negative effects they have. Mostly we need to learn to be positive towards ourselves and provide that enviroment within which to grow.View Thread

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