You think you have problems remembering log-ons??? I have that just about every time I try to log-on?! I can remember my e-mail address, but I can forget the password in a moments notice! As an example, yesterday I tried to log-on with my tablet, I had just signed into a search engine, so I had just used my password, I couldn't get in, so, I decided to try something else, and just like that (fingers snap) I couldn't for the life of me, remember my password?! Talk about forgetful? Yep, I'm the star pupil for that snafu!!!
Debbie, I am so sorry for what you have been through!!! I know I haven't ever been "Abused", but I sure no how it feels to be verbally, and mentally abused!!! So, sure, I can commiserate with you, or, we could both decide to change our misfortunes into opportunities? What do you say??
I say starting today, we are no longer receivers of abuse, we will now fight against it!!! Each time someone tries to abuse you, in any way, give them a good, stern, talking to! Tell them NO MORE!!! Say to them in a positive voice, "I am my own person, I will make my own way! Now, get out of my way, cause here I come!!! Be as positive, and as upbeat as you can be?! Talk with others who have gone through some of the things you went through! Gather a group together, if you think that might help? Just start trying to help others around you, then see how things go, ok? Try new things, get involved with other groups, if possible? The more you help others, the more you help yourself!!! I truly believe that!!! Try it, take it slow, if need be, but do it!
And find a counselor that will stick with you through thick and thin?! I wish you good luck, Debbie!!! You don't really need it, I know, but hey, its a saying?!
Well, I have to go, its getting very late! Deb., I want you to stay more active here, too, in this group, or any other you feel may help you the best, ok? Please don't be afraid, cool? There is nothing, or no one here that, can even get to you if they wanted to, right?! Try to help others, it will help you, also!
I hear ya!!! I hate it when it does that! I had written till my fingers hurt, and when I come back, its nowhere in sight? How does that even happen? It has happened to a lot of us here, at least a time or two? Not sure what it is, but it is enough to tick you off, I surly know that feeling!!!
So, have you tried sending something to that e-mail address I gave you? I went there twice yesterday, it seems to be working ok? I even used my tablet, no problems! So, if you want to get off this board, go there, and I will send you my regular e-mail, address, so we can chat privately, cool???
Ok, well, its getting late, I had better get busy, I'm running out of time, my bro's granddaughters b-day party is at 3 to 5pm. today, and I am not missing that!!! She sure is something, what a personality she has? That is one great kid!!!
So, you take good care, and we will talk more later, cool???
I'm so sorry Michelle, Web. got me again, it seems? I had typed a nice (very) long response, but it seems to have gone of into wherever they go when it is refused to put out??? You probably think bad of me, now? I couldn't blame you, I'm rather upset myself, over this site!
Of course now, I cannot remember everything I said yesterday, but here goes?! I had a safe trip, but as I was coming back, I had to stop a few times just to get out and wake up, I was that tired! Everything at the neurology clinic went fine, I even got a call from my doc. yesterday/last night. He said he could see some residual things that are what must be causing my stabbing pains, and why my neck crackles and pops when I try to shave?! And, he said that is looks like they might accept my surgery recommendation? Its just a matter of time, now? Once I have a pain pump, or perhaps a stimulator, hopefully the amount of pain I have drops down to tolerable levels???
Yea, I know what you mean, concerts, or just about anything like that, is gonna cost you big bucks! I haven't been to one in years! Not unless you count the Basillica Party in Minniapolis Minn.??? There they have three stages with bands playing, just take your pick, or walk around and see them all? Still, that was what, two years ago, now??? Oh well?
It sounds like you might want to be careful at work? What if that lady wants someone else to pay for her own laziness, and says you do it too? She probably won't, but keep an eye on her?!
I'm sorry you're not sleeping very well!!! I know that feeling, intimately! It is not fun, and what is worse, having to take pills just to sleep?! I hate that, but for me, it is a life saver!!! Maybe once it warms up, I can get out more, and wear myself out? Even that, never helped me much?!
My tablet is up and running, I played with it for 5hrs. yesterday, and it still had about 25% left on the battery?! Amazing little thing, it is!!! I even watched one of my movies on Flixster, the color is amazing!!! Only problem there, my neighbors let me tap their wifi, and its the slower one, so there was some buffering? Still, this is one awesome little tablet for the money!!!
I keep checking the email address I gave you, but nothing is in there? I played around with it yesterday, as well. It seems to be fine? Rarin to go?
Too funny!!! You asked me if I was easy? NO!!! I like to be wooed! Now days, I wouldn't mind being wooed, you know? Back in the day, I would do it with just about anyone that asked, or I went after, no more of that!!! Now, I want to be wooed as much as a woman would like it, I suppose? Why not? We are a loving sort of people, we want to be shown affection. I have never been wooed, it might be kinda nice, you know?
Well, I better go, things to do, more things to do! Busy, Busy, the more I stay busy, the better! You take care, and watch your back, you never know!!!
W.T.H.??? Where is the response I gave??? Please don't tell me that all that typing was for naught? Where did it go??? This is like the seventh time my post's have disappeared??? What happened to Web.M.D.??? Why is it so screwed up now??? This really tics me off, damnit!!!
I now have to apologise to Michelle thanks to this crappy new way of doing business?!
Last night, as I was playing with my pet rat, I got this unbelievably strong feeling someone I knew, was going to be in great demand? Hmmm, since you are the only one I know of that does art, I have to believe it was about you? It was really strange, I wasn't even thinking about anything in particular, except how big my rat was, when it hit me? It took me a couple of minutes to figure that one out???
I think I would have liked the dragon no matter what? I do believe your Dear Spouse has an eye for art? That may be a good thing to have, right?
Well, I made it, somehow? Up and back, no problems except for being tired enough to fall asleep at the blink of an eye?! No kidding, on the way home, I could only blink one eye at a time, so I wouldn't fall asleep! LOL!!! At least the roadways are clear of crap, until you get into the city proper!
One good thing came out of this trip, I got my tablet I wanted from the Walmart there! Ha, ha!! This one can suck a lemon!!! Now, one I get it charged, I can get it set up, and ready for travel any where I want to go! Yessss!!! I think I will get more use out of this, than I did the phone?!
I saw Muddy Waters once, in Omaha! He is still awesome even at his age!!! But, he only opened for another group we couldn't stay to watch, it was just too late!!! I really loved S.R.V. Rest his soul!!! And oh yes, the Stray Cats had one of my favorite songs; Stray cat strut! LOL!!! And yes, his band is awesome!!!
Hey, if you have to, take the cane! Anything to get out there!!! When the days are ok here, I go out, even if only for a short time?! Standing, instead of sitting, also burns more calories! I like to stand behind my kitchen chair, so I can watch the telly, and I will dance as much as I can before I die out, and have to go to bed?!
Well, I have more to get to, so please take care, and I shall see you on the flip side!!! Good night, sweet dreams!!!
Wow, the Dragon is the one that really caught my eye, I always loved to read fantasy books with Dragons, elves, Sorcerers, dwarves, you name it Fantasy, I will read it!!! I thought the feather was an absolutely awesome touch!!! Your spouse is right tho, the colors could have been enhanced, I'm sure?! LOL!!! Leave it to the better half, eh?!
Roh, again, I loved your work, it just blew my mind!!! I can't wait to tell everyone I know, that I know a famous artist! Of course they won't believe me, but I will know its true!!!
You don't have to thank us, what are friends for???
Is this true? Have you really lived through every means of abuse there is??? It that is true, you have endured more than I ever would have liked!!! WHY? Why do you have to feel guilty for being coerced into the exact things you hate? How is that your fault? It is not your fault!!! It is the fault of whoever is doing the talking!!! Deb., you never wanted the abuse, right? Well, you won't get that here?!
We want you to want to come here, as a way to escape from your tormenters! So, come back all the time!
I have to agree with both of you! Roh, you want your art to be perfect, but to who's standards? Like Michelle said, its all in the eye of the beholder! When I looked at your work for the first time, I was blown away!!! Every single piece brought something out of me, emotions, you know?! Again, it is all in the eye of the beholder! And it is also true that, as long as you have your Spouse, ahe will always push you to greater and greater hights, as it should be!!! Try not to get overly technical, ok? We still want it to look like something you did, and not a ruler, you know??? Don't get so critical, leave it up to the beholder, if you can? LOL!!!