My best memory of using something like this' is when my ex and I started bowling together? She never wanted to go bowling with me, and so I was always on a league. Once I got her to go, she saw all the fun I was having, and wanted some herself. I was just starting to go to the desk to ask them to announce a lone bowler looking for a league, when they announced the opening on the very team to our right. That year was the year we started to really look for other things we had in common? We started a poker club in our neighborhood, penny ante stuff, but a lot of fun! Our house could not handle the amount of show ups, so, we had to split it between two homes? We had some mega games, and mega fun!!
Yes, Dr. Leslie, I can see how this works, I have seen it first hand? Excellent topic!!!
I am so sorry for you, Debbie!!! No one should ever have to live a life like yours, and not get any pleasure out of it anymore? You have taken the time too help others, and now, they have no time for you? Is that about right?
I know how a hardened heart feels Debbie, I have been there/done that myself! You can turn away from others, but you can't turn away from yourself! I know, I tried to myself. You have to let love back in, Debbie, you must take that chance!!! Hey, you know how all of us here love you, right? And you have accepted us, haven't you? There, you have let love back in, now love yourself, also! You can do it, if I can, anyone can!!!
I love you just as much as I love my real sister, so get used to it, okay? If I were a betting man, I would lay odds on the other regulars loving you just like that, also?! You are loved, Debbie, and you have said you love us too, right? Yes you have! You see, you can have love in your heart of hearts, even if you hate some members of your own family? You can have love again, all you need to do is go out and let it find you. You found us, you can find love again, I just know it for a fact!!!
Your heart is not hard, Debbie, you have love in there for us, then you also have some in there for yourself!!! Now please allow yourself some slack, you deserve it, and you know it!
I love you, Debbie, my sister from another Mister! Let your love flow over those that have none, and that hard feeling inside of you, will soften and love yourself again. I know it will, it has happened for me from just knowing you guys here!
Thank you, Debbie, for loving me enough to help soften my hard heart!!!
Now, now, YOU do indeed deserve it!!! Why should you be any different than anyone else? If you NEED this procedure, then by all means YOU should go get it done!!!
Your Therapist may be right? I don't know? But, sometimes, our frustration leads to depression? I know, been there/done that!!!
Please go get this procedure done, then come back here and tell us all about it. We are very interested in the outcome!!! Come to think of it, we are very interested in YOU?!!!
O.K. now, go get that appointment set up, then follow through with the treatment. I'm sure you will be glad you did?! I too, will be glad you did!!!
Please lighten up on yourself, stop punishing yourself for past decisions. The past is just that, the past! It is not your here and now, so get it off your back! Do what is right for you, not someone else, okay? You will thank yourself later, i'm sure!
BOB thanks you for all of that attention, he really does! He can get jealous at times, you know? Poor lil fella!!! He always tries so hard to please.
I always try my hardest, too!
Let me see, why yes, it does seem to me that I do have somewhat less pain than before? It still burns like fire, but those needle like pokes of pain seem less? If I were you, I would most definitely try it out!!! From this literature they gave me, it is kind of expensive? Treatments range from around $50, to $80 dollars, so be prepared. The Dr. also told me that some insurance covers it? Check it out, I don't think you will be disappointed?
Have a great day!!!
P.S. Almost forgot? If I was there, you could do whatever you wanted to me, and more! LOL!!!
Whoa!!! Say what??? Stretch??? From here??? No way!!! LOL!!!
You sure have one of those humor bones, don't you? No, I don't mean BOB! You silly! LOL!!!
I am getting stronger day by day, getting my guns back. Now, if I could just get rid of this big belly, I could be happy again!!! I am going to get back to my prime fighting weight, even if it kills me!!! 195lbs. In case you were wondering?
I had my first Acupuncture treatment, today. It was awesome!!! I felt better almost at once? I get 12 total, so we shall see, won't we?
Okay, gotta go, more to do ya know? And just so you know, BOB called and said he was hurt by your cruel words? I think he means the "Not Human" part? Oh well. Oh hey, have you gotten those reports back from the doc's office, yet? Being curious, again!!!