I also agreed with you the last time, and i still do! I like a lot of what Sluggo has said! You do need to get this off your chest, so to speak?! If this is something that bothers you this much, then it is important that you make her aware of it?! No, you cannot change who your mother is, but she is your mother, and therefore, you have to show her some respect also. What she did was wrong, and she needs to own up to that, so that she gets your bounderies!!! This is/was your apartment at that time, and when she came to stay, she was a guest in YOUR home, NOT HERS!!! Therefore, she is the one who stepped over YOUR boundery, and she should at the very least, apologize to you?!
You cannot keep going on like this, or it will eventually destroy what love you do have for your mother! Therefore, i feel it is imperative that you set your mom down, explain this to her, tell her how this has hurt you, and that she, as a guest in your home, has to abide by your rules/bounderies. And, when you are in her home, the same thing applies! Then, tell her you would like an apology for crossing those boundaries, and promise you she will not do that ever in the future!
I fear you are going to give yourself ulcers? Let it go in your own mind, it will only drive you mad! Seek your apology, but let it go for your own sake! Then, once you get that apology, all will be right in your world!
I hope something one of us says, will strike a chord in you, and help you out?!
Hope you are ok? I'm the same. Nothing ever changes for me, its the same dull routine every day, usually! Sometimes, change is good?
You get to go to your sisters house to do laundry? Must be nice! I suppose my bro wouldn't mind, his wife might, at least a little? No, it would cost me more to go up there when I need to wash clothes.
I stopped to get some gas yesterday, it was $3.49 a gallon. Just the day before, it was $3.40. How does this government allow us to suffer like this? Its all the rich controllers, that's why! The rich have taken over our government, and they are fighting tooth and nail to stay in our Reps, and Senators pockets! Even Obama learned who owns our government real fast! He was slapped upside the head with money as soon as he walked through the White House doors!!! Now, all those promises he made, were just like what every poll says, ALL LIES!!! They lie to ya to get voted in, then lie like all the rest, just to stay in, its a nice cushy job. Who wouldn't like to work a hundred and a handful of days a year, and be paid swell? Its all a lie anymore! Nothing is done to help the middle class, and everything is done to hurt the poor more and more!!! The rich are after a two class America; the rich, and the poor! Something is going to boil over real quick here, I hope you have a good spot to hide in? The defacation is about to hit the oscillating motivator! When it does, it will be hell to pay!
Yesterday it was warm, today it has cooled back down some. Who knows what tomorrow will bring? Well, I suppose I have bent your ear enough, I shall go for now!
Take care my friend! I hope you stay well, always!
I woke up extremely early this morning, and just sat there on the edge of my bed, like a dead head, thinking nothing, feeling only pain. I fell back to sleep around, 5 and slept till 7., now I feel like a Zombie!
Oh boy!!! You get to endure some pain and punishment too? Awesome! LOL!!! No, just kidding, I hate these tests, so who wouldn't? I'm sorry you have to go through the kind of pain you are going to feel! I'm guessing you won't be feeling any embarrassment? Your Dr. has probably seen so many now, he is probably sick of looking at them? I wish I didn't have to go through that kind of surgery ever again?!
This is going to be a very long time for me, coming up. All the trials and tribulations I have gone through, may pale in comparison? Who knows, maybe it won't be as bad as she says, eh? All I can do is, bite down on my tongue so as not to scream out in pain like a little girl!!! LOL!!! The monetary pain is going to be the worst!
Well, I had better get a move on, daylights a wastin!!! Things to do today, like grocery shopping, one of my all time faves! I might even do some laundry, too, just for fun?! LOL!!!
Well, Michelle, this is so long for now. I will try to get back on later, see what's happening? You take good care of yourself! Later, my friend!
Well, there you go, she is doing just what you said she is doing! Playing you like a fiddle! These slinky women you meet on some of these sites want one thing, and one thing only, money!
Please stay off the sites like dating sites, or cam sites, or any other. You are a young man, you should be out there doing what all the rest of your age group is doing. Find what that is, and be there when everyone else is! Exposure is the best way to find a mate! If women cannot see you, and judge you by your conduct, you are doomed to keep repeating your mistakes! You have to be where the ladies can see you, watch you, examine you, see how you dress, comb your hair, or even brush your teeth?! Without exposure, you might as well live in a cave! Get off the internet altogether, well, except for important stuff like posting here, or school work, things like that? No more dating sites, or anything like that, you hear me? Go outdoors, if its cold, you may need to go to the library, or even a classy bar? You NEED EXPOSURE!!!
I hope you take what everyone is telling you as truth, we are older than you, and we have been around the block a few more times than you?! Please get off that internet, and go out there, find that mate!!! You can do it, you can do it!!!
Thank you, I did indeed have an uneventful trip today! It sure was windy, it tried hard to blow me off the road, or into the path of oncoming traffic?! Nope, you are stuck with me! LOL!!!
I got some very bad news today, something I had hoped would not happen, but felt it coming on, nevertheless?! My last fusion surgery didn't work. There was no successful fusion? It is like I went through that pain and agony, for naught?! Now, they want to run the dye test on me, plus the electrode test. The dye one is for an M.R.I., and the electrode is a couple if pins stuck in my hand and arm, then they shoot electricity through them, it registers how much nerve damage there is?! I hate it! It makes you jerk hard, and it can hurt!
So, it looks like more surgery just for my neck, and this time, she says they go through the back of the neck. OH GREAT!!! This is just what I needed, NOT!!! I thought I was having a lot of trips this month? Well, with this tacked on, who knows how many there will be?
Lemon Pepper Chicken, one of my specialties! I love it, but lemon on fish? Forget it! There is just something about it, I am not sure what, but I can do without it!!!
Well, it has been a very long day, I am off to dreamland, I hope?! See you tomorrow, sort of? LOL!!! Good night, sleep well, and sweet dreams!!!
Thanks for stopping by! I am glad you are seeing this in a better light! You certainly sounded down in your initial post. I am hoping this therapist can help you even more, to understand the thinking, or perhaps its not thinking, of us males? LOL! Its widely known how men think with the smallest head possible, so, that always causes conflict!
Don't get completely down on us, though, there are some of us that are actually decent to ladies. Kind, caring, compassionate to name a few of our better traits. I hope in the future, you find one of us, and have that "Fairy Tale Wedding", and life?! That would be nice, wouldn't it? Not too likely, though, sorry! There never is a completely happy marriage. There has to be bumps along the way, or how else can you grow closer to someone?
If anyone, I mean anyone, even if they looked like my dream woman, I would never talk to her ever again, if she asked me to help her on a site, any site, PERIOD!
I don't know what you look like, but when I was in the Army, I had a buddy that was about 5 feet tall, weighed maybe 125 soaking wet, had a pimply face, and yet, he had more girlfriends than I did, and I'm 6 foot tall and fairly handsome?! Go figure? When it comes to woman, anything goes!
Now, my final advice to you is, go out side, mingle in places where the ladies are hanging out. Get out, be seen, and act approachable, I mean smile, and have an open arm stance. Wear clean, neat clothes, wash your hair, brush your teeth, do these little things, and you should have no trouble getting looked at, that is when you want to flash that award winning smile! Take another look at what we all have been telling you, see al the similarities? That is a combined knowledge of us older people, both sexes. You should count your lucky stars you found this site!!! LOL!
I liked your fish meal, but I don't care much for the lemon on trout? I like all the different species of trout, they all have their own taste. I like salmon, and tuna, even mackerel! I take these huge horse pills that is nothing but fish oil, the doc. said it would help with my joints? Ok, I think it might help a little? I do know one thing, fish oil is very good for you!!!
I went to the S.S.I. office yesterday afternoon, turned in my paper work, so, now its a waiting game, I expect? I was trying to hurry so she could leave, or what ever her emergency was? I think she needed the bathroom? LOL!!! Anyway, I tried to add everything up, and I came up with 800 on expenditures. What? I only get $721? How is it I spend more than I get? Hmm, I hope they see the mistake, and correct it?
Today is my first of three long trips to hospitals this month. Today, I go to Sioux City, actually it is called the Dunnes? It is a good 2 and a half hour ride one way! And then, on the 14th., I get to go to the V.A. hospital in Sioux Falls S.D., another two and a half hour ride one way! Then, on the twenty fourth, I get to do that one again! Lucky me? Good thing I get travel pay!!!
Smoking??? Blah, I quit that habit almost a year ago, as a matter of fact, it will be a year on the 29th of this month!!! Yippee, yah hoo!!!! I am so glad I quit, I will never smoke another one of those nasty things again!!! Am I glad I quit? Yepper, never felt better! However, I smoked for so long, I am still trying to get that crap out of my lungs! When I see young people smoking, I think to myself, are they going to smoke right on in to their middle age? I feel so sad for them, they know not what is in store for them, or how they are destroying their lungs/body? Its hard to put them away, I know, I have quit, and restarted smoking I don't even know how many times? Once was for almost four years. Why pick it back up, its a habit you don't really want to break, its familiar? Its a long part of your history, and they have been your friend, your long time companion! Its grip runs deep! The only way to beat it is to make your mind up to quit, and be done with them! Its all in the mind!
Oh shoot, I suppose I had better go for now? I still have things to get done before I leave. Thank you for writing back! You take good care, and I shall see you later!!!
What? Fresh fish don't smell? Have you ever cut up a fresh catch of Trout? It sure does smell fishy to me? How bout catfish? Whoowee, it sure smells mighty fishy to me? LOL!!! I know what you are saying, I have been in those types of restaurants in S. Korea. I guess I have eaten it raw, they put little pieces of it in this seaweed wrap, mighty tasty!!! I loved my ex-wife's cooking, I miss it to this day! Ah well, alas and woe is me, and all that rot, right?! LOL!!!
Yep, I guess if I can't have oriental cooking, Mexican dishes are second choice! Then Italian! Who can pass up a great spaghetti? I used to make a fresh sauce that all of my friends wanted so badly, I was threatened with physical violence! LOL! True story!
I can't help you with the phone? Sorry! But if you ever get a lap top, let me know!!! Ok, I have been playing with mine for a long time! Do I know everything? NO, not just no, but HELL NO!!! LOL!!! I just know the basics to help you set it up, that's all!
This is going to be a very long month for me! I have one appointment at the Dunnes tomorrow, and two at the V.A. hospital in S.D. one on the 14th., the last on the 24th., yeah me??? I hope I have enough gas?
90 degrees??? Send some of that this way, would ya??? Well, we are not doing too bad? Today it is in the upper 50's to low 60's? Not too shabby at all!!!!
Well, I better get a move on, I have to go to the store.
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