Yes, fun times, and pregnant times. My ex wife wore my tightie whities when she got too big for hers. At first it looked strange, and that turned into hilarious! It was also a turn on, in some weird way? Maybe it was the way they highlighted her rear end? I've always loved a full trunk, uh, er, I mean rear end. LOL!!!
I'm glad this brought back some fond memories for you! You sure need a distraction from your ongoing problem! Eh???
I am glad my words helped you in some small fashion! I might be of some service to you yet? Have you thought of ousting them on their favorite Social Media spots? You know, like Facebook? Hopefully, the unwanted exposure will work in your favor? And they will quit doing this awful stuff to you?
It would seem to me that, your boss is just as childish as this kid is? I mean, look at her behavior? She is acting just as childish as he is by discussing you behind your back, sort of? I believe it was Roh that mentioned "Stalkerish Behavior"? Well, not sure this is that, but it could be very soon? Please go to someone higher up that you can trust, and tell them of your concerns. BUT, ask them to keep it on the down low, to minimize any more unwanted exposure. They may want you to have a meet with your higher ups, and the supervisor you are having the problem with? While this may be further embarrassment on your part, you really need to do this?!
Stiff upper lip, and all that rot! LOL!!! Good luck!
Wow, what a clod he is!!! Nothing but a piece of dirt! Like FCL has said, you dodged a bullet. Drop this adult wannabe right now! He is a child, I hope you can see him for what he really is, now? No adult male would ever betray a woman like he has, not one worth his salt, that is? What he has done is pure childish behavior! Do not respond to any more of his texts, phone calls, tweets, whatever?!
You must turn your boss over to H.R. like FCL said, you must! She is harassing you, and that is illegal! She, (your boss) is also behaving like a child! Do NOT tolerate this harassment one moment longer, turn her in!!! You will be glad you did!
Again, cut all ties with this child on line, the phone, what ever his contact method?!
I wish you luck with both things, the childish adult, and your harassing boss!!!
Sure, I know what you are talking about! It is our body's self defense mechanism at work. Lets say; if a body has been smoking for a long time, the body is used to that behavior, and sees it as good. So, when we try to quit, it is a hard road to walk, right? I'm not sure if its conscience, or subconscious? I do know it can be done, tho, right? I quit smoking by telling myself how nasty a habit it was, and how I would feel better after I quit. I call it "MIND OVER MATTER", your brain is the first monster you have to convince to change. Once you conquer that, the body will follow, or whatever?
There, you see? Nothing to it! (cough, cough) Um, well, it is easy enough, I guess? You have to get your mind conquered in order to fight the body, or whatever it is, and win? One more thing I think is important here is; YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE YOU CAN DO IT!!! After that, as long as you want it, you will get it!!! Use your mind, inject it into whatever it is you want to change, and it will be a whole lot easier on you!
I sure hope something in all that rambling strikes a chord in you? Look at it this way, if I can quit something I loved, and was my best friend through thick and thin? ANYBODY CAN DO IT!!!
I remember someone telling me this quote when I was younger, don't remember who? It goes like this "What the mind can conceive, the body will achieve". I hope you get it, I did, but at one weak moment in life, I had forgotten it, Now that I have it back, I will never let it go again!!!
I really hope something in all of those words help you, sis, I really do!!!
I always like to welcome new friends to this site!!! So, WELCOME NITA!!!!!
I'm so sorry for your current predicament!!! No, absolutely not, no way would I ever judge another!!! I'm sure you had to do whatever it was, so rest assured you are not judged by me, ever!!! I did some bad things in my past too, and I was accepted here by the best people I know!!! We have become like a family, and I couldn't be happier! I know they will accept you, too!!!
So, Nita, where are you doing your time? If I may ask, that is? Only a month left on your sentence, you must be in heaven right now? Well, except for your current relationship, that is? If you would like to talk about it more, please feel free to expand on that? Someone here has probably had the same experience you are having with your significant other? Couldn't hurt, right?
Nita, look at it this way, when you get out you are still going to be young. Your life on hold will pick right back up again, and in no time at all, you will be right back in your life again! Only this time, don't break the law for any reason. I found out too late, if you ask for help, you will most likely get it? If not from the first choice, then try another? I wish I had done that!
Well, Nita, since I don't really know who you are, I don't think I can just send my email out over an unsecured system? I hope you can understand that? I would like nothing more than another friend, we have so few of them in life, right? I promise you this; once we get to know a little more about you, I will be more than happy to be your chat buddy! As you can see, I am pretty chatty, for a guy that is?! LOL!!!
Now, please feel free to give us some more info on this lousy relationship you are having. Like I said before, one of us here will have probably been there/done that??? So don't feel embarrassed or anything else, we are here for you!!!
Now, I have stayed up all night, so I am off to bed, I hope? I am happy you have come to us for help!!! Good night, or good morning? LOL!!! Oh wait, there are more here to answer, oh lucky me!!! LOL!!!
Take care, follow the rules, and you will be home before you know it!!!
You really do have a problem there, don't you? You never mentioned your ages, so this is kind of hard to comment on? If you ask me, this is no relationship at all? You say you have this virtual relationship, what is that? Is it just an on-line sort of thing, or actually in a virtual world like in a video game? Either way, this doesn't seem like any relationship to me?
Think about it, what kind of life will you have with this virtual reality guy? Since you have never been with this guy, how do you make any judgement calls? He may be the sweetest guy in the virtual reality world, and be a serial killer in the real world? Remember now, this is just supposition on my part? I don't know this guy, okay? My question is, how do you know this guy?
Most times, those who say they are not ready for any relationship with you is; they are either married, or not who they say they are? Like I said before, how much do you know about this guy? That is what you need to do right now, before this goes too deep to pull out! Hey, he might even be that pesky 13 year old that is just yanking your chain? You see where I'm going with all of this? You need to do a little sleuthing yourself, find out all you can about this guy!
Find out all you can about this guy, before it goes too far to pull out. If you know where he lives, or works, that could help you? Do you know any of his family, or friends? What ever you can do to protect yourself from some heartache, do it now. Before this gets beyond your control, you know, find out now, the sooner the better.
I hope something in all of my ramblings helps you? I wish you luck!
Yes, I have some rubber soled slippers and even tennis shoes, but it doesn't help like even I thought it should? No, nothing I have tried, works? I even tried putting some aluminum foil under my easy chair, nope, same same?! Last night was the worst! They had me jerking so hard I snapped forward and hit my right eye on the edge of my desk, knocking out my right lens of my glasses. And putting a nice bump on my forehead. Even have some swelling over right eye, now. I lost count of how many times I picked myself up off the floor trying to watch this new forensic files type of documentary?
I do wish I knew how they were doing this? Maybe then I could find a solution to my problem? I have no choice but to hang in there, I guess? At least until I can move out of here, anyway? It is kind of funny, why won't this guy park in his own driveway? Could he be afraid of me? Me? A poor old crippled up guy like me? I keep asking them if they are afraid of poor old crippled up me, but I get no answer? My guess would be, yes? I passed them once outside the entry door, the guy and his son wouldn't even look at me, and his girlfriend looked scared as hell? All I said to them was HI? Hmmm, only those that lie, or are scared of being caught, looks this way? So yes, they are guilty of some horrendous crime, right? I think it may be more embarrassment than guilty? I mean, who could do these awful things to a cripple? Worse yet, a disabled veteran? I ask and ask, yet get no answer? I truly believe they feel guilty for what they do, yet refuse to quit doing it? Oh well, what can I do when they have everyone here hoodwinked? Nothing!!!
So, what kind of help could anyone give me when these people lie so well? They have everyone thinking its me, when I know the real truth! Only problem is, how to get them to believe the truth when they see it? People should know the tolerance factor in the drugs I take, right? No? Yep, that is right, they don't! Everything I take is old hat to me, it is like taking an aspirin any more? So, how do they not see the truth as it is? I've asked those that are the closest in my life, to watch me at all times to see if it might be me hallucinating all of this? NO, is the answer every time. Go figure, right?
Yep, it still has me scratching my head, too! LOL!!!
I wonder, do you have this self doubt, or is it from his lack of interest in you? Either way, it has to suck! I'm sorry you are going through this, I know someone very close to me that has no interest in sex anymore, and his wife suffers. Oh sure, he takes these E.D. drugs for her, but he has zero interest in sex at all. To be honest, I don't much either, but I still want it?! Sure, I have to take Levitra for it, but I am willing to where my bro is not? Go figure, eh?
I guess when us guys lose our ability to become aroused by our female counterparts, we also lose our desire for sex? It IS NOT your fault!!! No matter how much you lose in pounds, he will still not have the desire he once had. Not even the pills help with that, at least not that I know of, anyway? The thing for me is, once that pill kicks in, I'm as randy as a teenager again!
I wish I could help you more, but what that is, well, I don't know? I hope you can get him to talk about it!!! He has to know he is not alone in this, it is the two of you!!! Tell him to get on line and read more about E.D., the more ya know, right?
Good luck, keep us informed, we would love to help, if it's possible?!