Yes, my wife and I are going thru the EXACT problem you are experiencing. There are times when I will set a romantic setting, (things that used to really trip her trigger) candles, bubble bath, massage, dressing in leather and that sort of things and she will barely even look at me ! Well you know where this is headed in a hurry. I truly love this woman and her I. We have been married for 30 years and all other aspects of our lives are good. I guess if you have no desire for sex there is no point in pursuing it but I'm just not ready to give up on it, so I just keep trying.View Thread