Well i've been heare before, sometime last year i caught my husband txtin some female; so i got the number and txted her. She informed me that my husband told her we weren't together any more and all this crap; sending pix of his member. So when i told her who i was she was like ok, she doesn't have time for a lying as married man, and that was that. He apologized and claim he would never do it agian. Now i just had his baby; 3month old boy. And he's txting some different females; well a few from his past. Idon't know if he's attention seeking or what. I just know thru out the pregnancy its been tough, struggling to find time for one another. Yet he has the nerve to say trust him, why don't I trust him, the marriage will never work unless i trust him. I'm just thinking to myself " do you take me for a fool." Still don chat sites; what person do you know that has 700 friends on fb; I mean really. I'm trying to figure out what to do next. He works retail and i believ he is txting a customer from what i seen in his phone. So..... any suggestions?View Thread
@FCL I agree with you as far as it being a addiction. He's a chip off the old block. His father was a piece of work, i don't know if he's still is due to him being older now. The crazy thing about that is his mother still loves him, but they have been divorced for a while now. His mom even told me he similar to his dad, a red flag should have came up then, but I thought he would be different. I will try and talk to him but its hard not to be mad because as soon as i do he's going to say "well why are you still going threw my things." I can just picture how it's going down even if i casually bring it up.View Thread
@FCL He loves his son to death, and he spends time with him, take him to daycare. I can't say that i physicaly caught him in the act of going to see someone bu he's been making plans to. So i don't know exactl when I should just come right out with it. We been thru this once, yet he probably think I won't check his lphone anymore. Not!!!!!!! Its like he makes it easy for me to find. He has a laptop, tablet, and don't forget his phone, but he holds on tight to it.View Thread
How many times can you keep forgiveing a person? I can't turn the other cheek, i only have 2. And what if he doesn't learn his lesson? I feel like my mate is very disrespectful in alot of ways, but he doesn't get it.View Thread
Thank You Dr. Phelps! I will approach him again about this, and rate his reaction. If he blows up again it is a for sure sign, but i have to show him i mean business. So it can go either way. Will let you know what happens.View Thread
Hi Dr. Phelps! I really need advice. I have been married to my husband almost 2 years and i felt i hit the jackot. Damian is my husbands name and he is so charming, and sweet. When we first started talking he told me everything about him; even the bad things that happend in his life. For example, he was molested by a male family member when he was just a child, yet i find most people;especially men don't share that information so early. My husband also told me he was exposed to sex at an early age; his father had a naked woman in there home and told Damian to touch her; my mouth hit the floor. I wasn't sure what to think about that. But to fast forward, i am 6 months pregnant; it was unexpected; yet we are both excited about our new arrival. I came across some disturbing discoveries, My husband likes being on chat sites, especially singles. He likes porn sites, but what man doesn' t thats not the main issue. I confronted him about it after i came across some txt's he made to a couple of women, first he got made for the simple reason i went thru his phone and ipod etc. I felt that something was wrong and i knew he wasn't going to be honest with me. I told him to delete the contacts, he claim he did. Now a few months later he is doing the same thing, i did threaten to leave him if i ever come across these contacts or any new ones. I'm so close to having our baby, i don't know what to do. He give me this lame excuse he's thinks he is going thru a mid life crisis; and that may be at our age, he is 35. The crushing thing is he knows what i been thru in past relationships, if he want to run around , why ask me to marry you. I can't say i caught him physicaly wiht another woman, but he was damn near close to it, and his response to that " oh its just words. What should i do, because he turned sown counseling.View Thread
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