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Reply: I'm angry

I agree with what the others have said in regards to discussing past relationships, or...

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Reply: I'm angry

I'm sorry, I should have made it a little bit more clear... I wasn't implying that you go...

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Reply: I'm angry

Ok, I am going to take a stab at this and reply...I agree with a few others on here when...

Posted by Kloudnine

Ok, I am going to take a stab at this and reply...I agree with a few others on here when they say that there may be some deep rooted issue that needs to be resolved. There may be reasons that for 15 years, all of these women have been not interested or rejecting you, or you feel they're rejecting you...any maybe it's just a matter of it's not you, it's them, and the fact that you both are not compatible, or it's just a matter of bad timing. It could be a number of possibilities. I find myself in the same boat, on numerous occasions, and often blame myself for it happening over and over again. But one thing I have come to terms with, is it is NOT always me, and that I can't sit there and overthink the situation...I just need to move on. While most people do not want to be rejected, and do not take rejection well, it is something that happens, it's a part of life, you need to learn to deal with it. I think it would be great to sit down and talk with a therapist. It may help to get someone else's perspective on things.

One thing I guess I do not understand is that you say you don't want a girlfriend, and that you are content with being single, then why does this bother you so much? If your intention is to have an experience with a call girl, then do so, and call it a day, but deep down, I don't think that is what you really want.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you, I think it is the people that you are surrounding yourself with, and the women that you choose to approach. I also think that people are initimidated by the idea of you being a virgin, and that is not a bad thing. I personally think it is great, and I give you credit for that...I admire you for it. Not many people can say that. If I were you, I would hold out and not do the call girl thing for the experience, I would hold out for the woman that you choose to be with, and the woman that is worthy of you. It is going to be the greatest experience when it does happen, and especially with someone that means something to you. I don't think that you should have that first experience with a call girl that does not mean anything. You really do sound like a great person, and I think that any woman would be lucky to have you. You sound very responsible, independent, intelligent, and confident in what you do, and believe it or not, those are a hard combination of qualities to find in one person. Not to sound conceited, but I feel that I posess those qualities as well, and you should be proud of that. The confidence that you have in yourself shows on the outside, and people of the opposite sex are attracted to that. I don't think that buying a Corvette will attract a woman, and if it does, it's only going to attract the wrong kind of woman. I always thought that I was cursed as well because of the things I have been through relationship wise, and here I am again..struggling....but I am starting to realize that it's not me, it's the people that I surround myself with...like I said, I think that is part of the problem for you as well.

Keep your head up, and do what you feel is right for you. Don't settle for any less than you deserve, and don't be so hard on yourself. Things happen for a reason, at least that is what I believe. I know it's not easy to listen to others tell you that the "right one" will come along for you..heck, I am tired of hearing that myself. I have learned to live alone and be single, and I am content with it for now, but then again, it would be nice to have a partner to share my life with too. Best of luck to you...View Thread

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Reply: Long distance--how long is too long?

I meant no disrespect at all, but I know you deserve better. I am not calling what you...

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Reply: Long distance--how long is too long?

I agree with FCL, drop this guy! Honestly, what is this man doing for you that you are...

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Reply: Lost?!?!?!?!?!

As far as the romance goes, and the connection, you need to figure out how to connect...

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Reply: Lost?!?!?!?!?!

Hi there...First of all, don't EVER blame yourself, or your body image on anything!! That...

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Reply: Falling In Love

Thanks D! I would give the shirt off of my back for anyone..it's just how I have always...

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Reply: Falling In Love

Thank you for reaching out : ) ! That means a lot, and yes, the feelings that I have are...

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Reply: Falling In Love

Oh hurtHeart, I feel for you, I really do. It is awful, and lonely to feel the way you...

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