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Needless to say he is really hurt. He doesnt manage stress, drama, rejection, etc very well at all. I really need some advice on how to be there for him the best ways I can. I feel so terrible. Please I really want to help this smooth over.View Thread


I'm very sorry that you're dealing with this. When someone is able to cheat on you once, it makes it even easier for it to happen again. Do. Not. Settle. Even if he only cheated on you once I'd reccomend you leave and never look back! But this happened with multiple girls, over periods of time. Who knows what he hasn't told you. Only reason you know what you do is cause YOU caught him. He couldn't be there for you even when you needed him most. Is that someone you want to stay with? Screw (couples) therapy. Get whatever help you need, but get it for YOURSELF. You are going to have love for him. You will miss him, of course. That's ok. That doesn't mean you should be with him. Hell, women that are physically abused love/miss their partner, and struggle to leave. That doesn't mean they should imprison themselves in such a relationship.
I can tell you this, you will never be happy with him ever again. You may go periods of time, and have your moments, but these are things that will haunt you. I tried to make a relationship works after he cheated on me only one time, and it caused a break down once a month. It's a continuous hurt. Even if he was sincere and NEVER did it again, it would continue to hurt. Please don't make this mistake again, do not stay with him!
There are people that fall in love. Get married. Have a family. They're there for each other, show their love, do anything to make you smile, would die before ever even thinking of hurting their partner in such ways. Please please please. Find someone that ACTUALLY makes you happy. Who ACTUALLY loves you. Who would NEVER imagine hurting you. Doesn't that sound better than what you have with this.. Pathetic excuse for a man *cough* boy?View Thread

You do really just need to sit down and have a long talk with him. If we wanted children before he met you, and altered his wants to be with you (it's sweet) but unfair. Him trying to justify it by using his career as a musician is just that. Him trying to rationalize it. Stress to him the importance of his honesty. Set aside you and the relationship.
Best of luck!View Thread

Definitely think it through awhile before taking action. You never know when something may fall in your lap!View Thread

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