Im in the same boat Cadd77.. Its so difficult dealing with the person you truly care for be so far away. My boyfriend plays baseball is away a majority of the year. I see him once every 3 months for a weekend. I dont want to make it all about me though, so back to you, If your having doubts take a surprise visit to see him. It shows your willing to take that trip even if its for a weekend. The hardest part of long distance is the fact that you physically cant be with each other and it sucks. No need teeter if you care for him. Trust him and care for him, if it doesnt seem right to you then you know what you have to. You need to be able to know when enough is enough.
Thats all I can say for you.... Best of Luck I hope it works out too.....View Thread
my boyfriend and I have been on and off for 2 almost 3 years. We are 21 and 22 years old. He went away to school and we met through a mutual friend. He now is away most of the year due to his job. I love him more than anything but I have this constant fear that he is going to cheat. I know everyone says long distant relationships dont work but in all honesty I want to try and prove people wrong. Stupidly, I believe everything he says, and I'm more scared that I'm going to get my hopes up and my heart broken. My biggest fear is being alone and this situation doesnt help. I trust him but i dont trust the people hes around, is that bad. please i need some advice, this makes everything in my life so difficult. please helpView Thread
now hes another issue, he came home this past weekend. We saw each other friday night. He had a family party on saturday. Now we have been consistantly together for 8 months now and I feel that I should of been at least invited. He told me on Sunday that he should of asked me? is that screwed up that I wish he asked me? I know his parents dont like us together but we make each other happy and I feel that that was the reason I wasnt invited. I think after 8 months I would of got the invite. It was his choice to not invite me but I think its kind of wrong, that he didnt even make the offer. I love him dearly and I would do anything for him.. Does it make me a clingy girlfriend that I want to spend time with him and his family during the holidays?View Thread
now the thing is that his parents dont like me because they say im going to make him lose focus.. thats the last thing i want for him to happen. When I asked him what I should get his parents for christmas he told me a happy son and thats what they have but I feel I have to get them somethingView Thread