If you are still a member to this site and watching this thread let me know. I am in a similar situation and can relate. If his wife would take care of him and his needs he wouldnt be looking. Contact me here please I would like to talk to you too. No one here says anything about you that is good when you let them know about your situation as they didnt me either. I do know people who sleep in separate rooms so its not hard for me to believe. My situation is different in that his wife knows, knows me, talks to me, and he and i lived together til we lost our home. So I do get where are coming from on this. I would like to see what is going on with you now.View Thread