Roh, I'm happy you're on the mend. Bronchitis is no fun.
About your other question I have no idea. I often wonder why some people always seem to feel 'left out' if they aren't consulted and included in everything. Imo I don't think it means you love them any less. I also think people need to be somewhat separate while still being partners.
You've made many strides towards being a better person but don't give up your individuality to make someone else happy. I could be taking this all wrong. Just know that I care about you and want you to be balanced and happy too.
Well Dennis since Bob is neither warm blooded nor human it's highly doubtful. It does make me feel pretty good though. It certainly would be wonderful to have some nice strong arms wrapped around me once in a while. Come on, stretch Dennis. ..lol
Thank you Roh. It is rewarding to be helpful with words or deeds. I was raised to know that if I helped someone that someone would be there to help me when I was in need. That premise could not be truer.
I admit that a lot of times I feel totally inadequate.