I have as i told you a wonderful therapist. as he has stuck through me all pf this. when i ended things with my brother. i said to him that if he was going to keep not respecting me than i wish to have no contact with him,he then said to take and remove him from facebook and move on with my life. we are suppose to be family. i have not spoken to him in two months, which is not easy because he lives up the from me.he would gives more thought to his friends than his family. you see i do know how to forgive. my problem with my siblings us they both say that they did not do anything wrong, i dont want to forgive and be treated like a child again, that is where i am stuck. i dont my move on in my life i just ignore it and it is destroying my life, i hate being around people around people because i dont know to talk to people. my relationship with the other board is over, they hate my guts, and it hurts alot. thanks for listeningView Thread
Thanks Dennis. i am sorry that i did that. i just got really angry. i want to move on in my life. i want to be free. but the mistakes i made, it is being held over my head. i can and will do the work., i need to build on my skills on how i relate to be, people. you are the best dennisView Thread
Thank you very much, i will ease myself into being here. it has been a long 14 months. i have been reading the board here for while. It was something that you wrote in reply to about forgiving. it was when you said about their partners feelings being heard. it made me realize that was what my problem was for over forty years. i was looking for the love and protection from my family .as a child i never got that as so many others like so many others, It just caused so many bad mistakes that screwed up my way of thinking and being. i have removed both my brother and sister from my live. they were very toxic to me.. they both claim that they never did anything wrong. my mother went to get me and my sister to work it out in the hospital where my brother was. my sister had me to a point that i almost hit her, they both treat me likea child and i refuse to let that happen. their put downs are why i have always had the same put downs to myself. But there still more work that i need to doView Thread
thank you Dennis,I know that over the last several years i have gotten stronger. but my relationships skills are horrible, i thought by coming here i can learn more so i can improve my self worth. by improving my relationships with the people in my life, while i am here i will do my best to help but it may take a little bit. i am semi new here and i need to get to the people here a bit betterView Thread
thought after decades of misery, u finally had a chance to be happy.i felt worth something. but it is the same old story. people know what i think feel and say. they are right and i am wrong, i just got out of the hospital . i want to be free from this. i paid my due thanks for listening/ you knew me as friedeggsView Thread
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