Ive been cheated on in the past also, and my jelousy and trust issues drove off every man, and only made me miserable. I would watch miles on their trucks, look at phone, history, computer, etc.. it drove me crazy!! its a hard thing to change, and i think anything is: but I dug down deep and realized that i was the only one that could change me! I now realize that "NOTHING" that I can do will prevent him from cheating.. and if he wanst to cheat, their is always someone and a way to do it. I guess i always just hated the idea that i may not find out about it. Now, i just dont let my mind go there, i no longer "look" for clues, I trust him, and when my mind starts to wonder about something he said, him taking trips, or being on his phone, i just tell myself NO, SNAP OUT OF IT: IT ONLY HURTS ME!! its hard trust me! BUT i can say that watching him, and me being so green was literally worse on me, and killing me slowly!View Thread