Hi kit. I'm glad you posted as I think there are so many of us in the same situation. I am 56 yrs old, live alone, and was diagnosed 7 yrs. ago. I have yet to get my family to show any interest. I have frequent flare ups and the fatigue is overwhelming at times. Whenever I have to decline a family function, they don't bat an eye. They believe I "exaggerate" my "arthritis". After all, doesn't everyone have some type of arthritis. Because of my RA, I miss work alot and my work is what keeps me going and I truly love my job. I have learned to suffer in silence and rely on my medical providers for support. We all need emotional support. I've learned that if we can't count on family or friends, we need to find other resources that will provide the support we deserve. That's why I finally decided to join this community. Take care and stay in touch. This seems like a safe place to share.View Thread