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Another thing is that I ordered compression gloves for my hands this past week and my only options were nude, black & grey. I am a huge fan of those colors but I would love to see some fun colorful options. Just because our bodies are trying to fight a war doesnt mean that we should succumb to generic looking medical aids. I was also thinking about a rhinestoned cane.
We go through so much everyday between pain & medications. I dont want to sadly look at my nude glove wondering how my hands will be in a couple years. I want to look at a glove that inspires me and feels me with hope. A glove that can be a conversation starter with people who dont know about RA, somthing to spread the word. I want to have accessories that make me feel fun and vibrant, not sad, old & in pain. How do you feel about this? Would you buy more aids if they were more fashion foward? What aids would you like to see with more options? Surely it cant be just me who wants change?View Thread


I finally graduated and got insurance and after going through a slew of doctors was diagnosed with RA. Luckly MTX will kick in right around 3 months and when you see your general doc for refills on your antidepressents ask for pain medication and show him/her proof of your RA. That's what I did and the pain medication has helped ALOT. Feel free to email me just to talk or to blow off steam at maggiemizar@yahoo.com . Im super close to your age so I can compleatly get how fustrating it is to not be able to do everything you want and to not have the same energy levels as your friends.View Thread

For starters, if your low on energy, which I was/am and drinking things with caffine increase your nausea and/or acid reflux try asking your doctor for an appetite suppressent such as phentermine. I know it sounds silly since we already dont have an appetite but it gives you lots of energy without the jittery feeling. Having my energy back makes me feel better and since it increases my blood flow it seems that my pain medication works better. The better I feel equals the less depressed I feel.
My MTX has just now started to kick in to reduce my pain and swelling (THANK THE LORD!!!!) and Im starting to feel normal. I was already diagnosed with MDD, major depressive disorder, so I was on medication for depression. I would HIGHLY recommend you get on something quick for your depression. The medication that you will be perscribed will take some time to work. I would suggest to make sure whatever the doctor perscribes you is an extended release. This seems to help with my nausea because the medication is released throughout the day and not all at once. If you are having ANY feeling of depression you NEED to get on something asap as well as start doing things that make you happy.
Okay, now that the depression medication talk is out of the way, these are the other things to keep my mind occupied and happy.
- Talk to friends, call them, instant message them, do whatever it takes for you to keep in touch. Listen to their problems. Make plans to hang out, even if it's just lounging on their couch watching a movie.
-take this time to start learning about the things you have always wanted to learn about. Since holding a book or kindle can be difficult, rent an audio book. It lets your mind escape reality and your body rest.
- Start pampering yourself. Depression can lead to getting lazy on your appearance, especially when you are suffering from depression and pain. Start doing your nails often, search for new easy ideas for fixing your hair and investigate new tricks to better application for makeup. We dont have control over how our body feels on the inside but we can dominate how awesome we look on the outside.
- Do yoga or stretch everyday. You dont need to go to a class to relax and clear your mind. It helps reduce the stiffness and pain in your body. It also seems to increase your energy.
- Make your bed an ultimate luxury zone. Since we dont feel good we are bound to spending lots of time here. Buy super soft sheets, a fluffy comforter and perfectly soft pillows. I like to spray the eculuptis spearment (bad spellling!) fabric spray from Bath & Body works. The spearment seems to reduce my nausea.
- Create list of things you want to get done and try to get one done a day. This helps you not feel so overwhelmed.
- Take up a hobby. It doesnt matter what it is as long as it refocuses your mind off of being sick and hurting. Watch a season or show that you have always wanted to watch but never have had the time. Start a blog. Learn to cook something new. Anything.
- Relax and know that there are a lot of other people out there who understand. I talk with another lady who has RA thru email and it helps alot. My email is maggiemizar@yahoo.com if you want to talk and/or blow off steam with someone who actually gets it.View Thread

I started on the pills but my stomach just couldnt handle them. I switched to the shot and the side effects are much better. I dont think that one or the other contributes more to the hair loss though. I think its based on how long you have been taking it and the build up in your system.View Thread

As far as the hair goes - Im loosing mine too. I am VERY attached to my hair - for goodness sakes I even have a pretty successful blog names after my hair (borntobeblonde.com). I have noticed that after being on Methotrexate my skin has been a lot dryer so I only wash my hair 2x a week - maybe 3x. I sleep in my conditioner so when I fix it the next morning its silky smooth. I dont know if this helps because I know Im going to loose it anyways but maybe being really really gental will help slow down the process. At least thats what I tell myself.
Good luck and Im sorry about your diagnosis.
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I like to wrap my presents really pretty. My hubby will wrap them and then I like to make big bows out of tulle. I usually put lots of pretty ribbons on my presents. I do a couple new presents every week so its easy to keep up with. He will put a sticky note to say who the present goes to and then I take over. But I love Christmas and I love having the best wrapped gift.
Oh, and gift cars are always a great gift, especially for teenagers and college students. Even as an adult I love getting gift cards!!!!View Thread
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