You have a GREAT time! Yes saw him last night.. He said that he has abit of anxiety not being with me for 7days..And the he could not believe how much i really am in his heart,life and never thought he could feel lost without me. That is good... OK stay in touch and have a wonderful vacation.. View Thread
Hi How are you? I really like hearing from you so much! Yes it has been a week today. He called last night. He was not happy that i was not available Sunday. He said he wanted to see me, I told him that if he would of said that he was coming over, i would of probably not gone at all. He did not ever mention it. guess not he sees what it is like for me when I can not see him.. lol. I like how he mentioned that when he talked to me while I was there that it made him mad. ( oh well) I need a life too. Anywys he says that he hates to be without me.. OK time will tell. I have learned alot from him and what I had done is shock myself. I have never been a patient person at all in life. At least not till him!!! lol... Stay in touch please..View Thread
Thanks! I always really like hearing back from you alot!! Yes he has been very busy.We talked alot over the weekend and I was busy myself. he did however tell me that i put a knott in his stomach cause he was worried that i was made that he changed are plans all of a sudden. Was I mad? A little I guess, but was OK with it. I needed to take care of my Grand-daughter on Saturday anyways and would be going home mid morning-Sat.. So no biggie. But it was the fact that the night before I on Thursday we talked about the weekend, and he changed it. ( i was fine) When you text someone things are always turned around many times over. He told me that he did not like feeling like I was so mad that we would not see each other... I was told I placed a knott in his tummy! lol... He told me that i needed to let him take the lead in are relationship and let him get things done so that he can make things happen.. I was just like (whatever!) So I did keep busy and it will be a week since we have seen each other. Normally Tuesdays, Thursdays and all weekend. I think I did just fine all week. Did I miss him? Yes, but I did just great!!! Not sure really what is going on with her or if she knows about the money, but all he had to do was tell her that he was putting it into his boat.. She does not ever go there. Stays at home and when it is good for her she goes to the grocery store.Well anyways that was how it went. And honestly I am fine... And it was nice from time to time to be busy and not be available to him. I went out sunday for a cook out at a friends house. he needed to see that I was not home and was out doing something with friends that I have not seen in awhile. There was no contact while I was gone at all. When I did get back home I let him know. He usually will place a xo in his text and he did not for the first 3... Lol yea I think he did not like the idea that I was out with others... lol... Oh well!!!!!!
Big Turn around for me. I have always been able to take care of myself until recently with a BIG cut back at my work. I had to break down and I mean break down and tell him I was having a hard time making it. He loaned me 1,200. I did not want to accept it ,but he said.. he really wanted me too take it cause he saw how stressed he was. He does not that I have always been able to take care of me and never never asked for help at all. Get this! Last night while talking on the phone he was telling me how happy he was that the weekend was near and we would be together. He does have a few companies that he does own and manage alone so I know that there are demands. We have always always had the weekends together. From Fri nite at 7 till late Sunday ay 9 or 10 pm.. Well get this. Today he told me that since it was going to be so hot that maybe we would have a working weekend and he would get things done. I said. sure I will see you Tuesday nite. And he said do not be silly I will see you before then.. I said..no Tuesday will work.. No word yet from him... Makes me wonder if she found out about the large amount of money that he put out and now he can not leave the house for the weekend. Weird I get money and now he can not leave to be with me like he said he was looking forward to doing. ... Am I upset YES!!! I am grateful for the help, but what in the hell does the weather have to do with being with me tonight? OK now what do you think? I am more and upset with this. ThanksView Thread
Thanks for getting back to me. I can not tell you how nice it is to hear from you. Hope you do not mind if I stay in touch with you from time to time. Hope you will do the same. And again Thanks very much !View Thread
Thank you and no your not being harsh. I was informed last night that her meds had to be changed again. My question is to you is. How do you know when meds have to be changed so that things are more stable? What would cause for meds to be changed? I am not sure what causes come one to have there meds changed. Thank you for your help and advice.View Thread
Hello. Hope your life is doing well. I have a questions for you please. My boyfriend who has the ex living with him. Well I have wanted to meet her for 4 years. He told me that she is afraid for another woman to enter into the picture due to he takes care of her. Financially. She has not one family member to take her or help with finances. She does not work and before the divorce she was a nail tech. She feels like if he is with another woman that will pull him away for taking care of her. And with no other help she freaks out alot. Does this make alot of sence to you? He is has told me that he wants to grow young with me for the rest of his life. And that I am the one that he wants to marry one day. I told him that as long as he has to take care of her that will not ever happen.. He told me to just wait and see. So for now that My question is to you. Does that make sense of why I do not go to the house? I hope to hear from you.View Thread
Thank you so much for you help and replying to me. I can not tell you how much this means to me. I was informed that if she knew about me, that she would be afraid that i would take him away from taking care of her. see there is no family to take care of her at all. he is the only one financially etc. The house is her safe place. He is with me 5 nites out of 7. And friday right thru sunday nites. 4 yrs of loving him. I have wanted to be a friend of hers if allowed. He said that she basically is a loner, when on the right meds she does drive, but not far. I am sure that it is hard on her and also hard on him that his life is not normal. I am not trying to be mean at all. I just sometimes wish that she would be able to live on her own. She is 46 yrs old. Thanks for your words.View Thread
I am not trying to be disrespectful to you at all. I am just learning about the mental disorder. My boyfriend is taking care of his ex wife and she has no family to take care of her. She still lives with him and I guess that if I go to his house she is afraid that I will take him away from her and no one will be there to take care of her financially. With no where to go, I am not allowed there. This man is wonderful and take care of her. I was informed that sometimes she does not sleep all day and is up all night. My question to you is this common of the mental illness.? I love this man and have been understanding of him and his needs, but now I am breaking. He leaves his cell off and I was informed that if she knew of me that she would freak out. Can you please give me your imput on his situation. I love him and try and understand, but she does not know of me at all. He does take care of her financially and she still lives in the house that is in his name only and paid for.. I have seen the dovorce papers as well... Thank you and would really like what you feel about my story. thanks.View Thread
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