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I need help
I have lately been through a VERY hard time and i have started self harming I have cut my arms and face and...More
Posted by An_254296
Sadden by the quietness of this board
I used to come to this board and other ones to find comfort, friendship, hugs when needed it. These boards...More
Posted by Anon_550
LLT, Paja, others?
Hi, there! I am hoping you will see this sometime and send me an email so I can invite you to a new, but...More
Posted by tnmist
strange site
Signing off.....
Posted by nightflier80
trigger. it only hurts me - i don t tell
It has been a while since I SH, I have thought about it more often. Why do I care as long as I am safe and...More
Posted by nightflier80
Anyone wish to stay in touch post webmd... Here's ... I guess it is called a disposable email addy. lol.More


Life is the school, Love is the lesson.
Posted by mandybutterflykiss
Halloween Celebration.
Hi everyone. I'm throwing a party and you are all invited! I have homemade popcorn balls, peanut...More


Life is the school, Love is the lesson.
Posted by mandybutterflykiss
Brainstorming Guidelines for Taking Back our Board...
I would like to begin by saying: I think: I would like to see the past issues on the boards stay...More


Life is the school, Love is the lesson.
Posted by mandybutterflykiss
Miss You All.
I left the boards for awhile as I needed to do what was best for my own wellness. The boards at that...More


Life is the school, Love is the lesson.
Posted by mandybutterflykiss

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Shall we fight to take back our boards and family of Butterflies or let go entirely?
  • Any unresolved hurts that need to be heard and addressed?
  • Anyone else seek to brainstorm on how to take our boards back?
  • What are your visions of what our boards should be?
  • Should our boards be?
  • Should we just move on?
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Can someone help me?
I've had to leave the SA community because there is no support there. Four trolls are having a hay day...More
Posted by marysings
so long
i'm out of here. i don't like what this board has devolved to. take care everyone. hugs
Posted by slik_kitty
cutting while sleeping wanting advice
so about a week ago i started waking up with scratches on my back and every night it got worse my boyfriend...More
Posted by home82
roll call
people lets take our board back. I am seeing post going unanswered. We have never been about that. This board...More
Posted by moreos
so sad. triggery
This has been a extremely rough week & 1/2. I'm struggling on levels that should send me straight to the...More
Posted by moreos
happy bday!
Posted by slik_kitty
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Posted by moreos
Guess Who's Back (TRIGGER)
I'm not sure if anyone remembers me, I haven't been on in about a year, mainly because I was better and...More
Posted by Sammurai711
Self-Mutilatior's Big Secret
Self-Mutilators go through great lengths to hide their scars and secure their secret of self-injury....More
Posted by CrimsonTruth127
snowy says hi!
she's really busy and doesn't have time to get on the boards. she says hi and says she is thinking of...More
Posted by slik_kitty
having tough time
Hello to everyone. I have been feeling extremely lonely, even when in the presence of others. It doesn't...More
Posted by Anon_473
felt my heart stop beating
dnt no what happened but 2 nights ago im laying in bed then all the sudden i felt this weird feeling in my...More
Posted by TravisD27
dissociative episodes-possible trigger
Does anyone have any experience with dissociative episodes and self harm. I am considered a self-harmer by...More
Posted by ducky200318
Returning to the board…. (possible triggers)
* * * * * * * * * * * It is hard to believe I haven't posted since September of 2008. Even more...More
Posted by Sandy1986
no one is posting. i hope everyone is doing well.
Posted by slik_kitty
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Posted by An_253028
funny story
Ya'll know i'm a grandma right. well my grandbaby is far away in another state. probably won't be able...More
Posted by sittingbull594
Anyone ever try E.C.T.?
Just wondering if anyone's tried it & what their results may have been? Kate_TeMore
Posted by katenewbie
cutting before school (clothing, hair, etc)
my son cuts his hair and jeans before school and we are often late because he thinks doesn't look right. he...More
Posted by An_253211

Take the Poll

do you think it will be his body soon?
  • yes he will end up cutting himself too
  • no with medication, he should be able to just change clothes
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Why? Can't the baby sleep more than 20 minutes?! Mama needs a *&%*$&#* break. I can't take it. And...More
Posted by off_the_wall
Took a lovely lunch break at wholefoods, sat outside in the warm air and read on my kindle. I treated myself...More
with love and fulljoy
Posted by rugger1369

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For when you can't find the words
Inspired by replying to another post... I thought something like this might be useful for those of us who have taken to injuring ourselves ... More
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