Let me try and explain about the disassociating vs. the mindful way of escaping to fantasy land in your mind and when you would escape. MAY BE TRIGGERING MAY BE TRIGGERING MAY BE TRIGGERING
BE INA SAFE PLACE WHEN READING THANK YOU!
So disassociating does put you in a dangerous place such as the situation with the men that hapopens i think it was last week? You weren't present for that. you disassociated so badly that it drove you to that.
Wehn we learn to not disassociate and have mindful thinking that will allow us to escape with our true control of our mind then we learn how to be empowered. Stay with me and i'll see if i can explain further.
I used to be a big disassociater too. I practiced with my t how to make a safe place and still have that today. It wasn't so much about making it fantasy as it was having a safe place to go to in my mind when a situation that was hard came to me and i couldn't deal with it. Not when I was being attacked from someone or some kind of physical harm would come to me. That is not when u go to yor safe place. you go to your safe place after the danger is gone and you are safe and you need a place to be protected in your head. Then you have your safe place in your head. For instance I have trouble quiet frequently with feeling that i am going to have my house broke into and that i will be assaulted in all the worse ways. This is not in reality. Because i was assualted and almost raped 3 x im my life once a gang of men and they were real close calls. I still have that on me but its not as intense. so this is when I realize i'm having a hard time with reality and need to go to my safe place. What i would suggesgt is having your t work with you on this so that you know the difference between disassociating and going to a safe place that you choose in your head! It really does make a diff.View Thread
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SO HERE THE DEAL....I SAW T TODAY AND SHETHINKS IM DOHGN GOOD FOR EVERYTHING I'VE BEEN TRHU AND SO DOES PDOC NURSE EVEN THO PDOC NURSE I DONT LIKE AND SHE HURT ME TODAY WITH THE SHOT IN MY ARM AND I NEW TO HAVE IN IN MY HIP BUT SHE TALKED ME INTO ARM SO WHAT DO I WANNA DO BECAUSE T WOULDN'T GIVE ME ANY APPT CEPT 3 WEKES AWAY SO I WAS LIKE OK AND THEN I CANCELED ON LINE AND WROTE MY LAST EMAIL TO HER! IVE HAD IT WITH PEOPLE IN MENTAL HEALTH SYSTEM I'M TURNING TO GOD FOR EVERYTHING AND ALL THINGS PERIOD
I JUST I GUESS NEEDED TO VENT. I MAY DO THE INEVEITABLE BUT THATS OK ITS BEEN 6 WEEKS AND THEY DONT CARE IF I DO WHAT I DID 6 WEEKS AGO OR NOT AND NEITHER DO IView Thread
THAT IS GREAT! GOOD WORK! I HAVE A TREDMILL TOO BUT DOWNSTAIRS AND CAN'T GET TO IT BECAUSE CAN'T GET DOWN STAIRS. I NEED TO START WALKING TOO! FOR SURE! THIS GIVES ME ENCOURAGEMENT. THANKS FOR POSTING!View Thread
(((((((((((((BONNIE)))))))))))))))) NO NEED FOR AN APOLOGY! AT ALL OK! IT IS I REALLY WHO NEED TO APOLOGIZE AND RE READ THINGS SINCE I CAN'T SEEM TO REMEMBER! I WILL GET IN THE PRACTICE OF DOING THAT OK? I REALLY AM SORRY ABOUT YOUR DOCS AND THESE IDIOT MEN WHO ARE TERRORIZING YOU! HEARS AN IDEA! WOULDN'T YOU THINK THAT MAYBE THEY ARE A NUISANCE TO OTHERS AS WELL AND THAT BECAUSE OF THE NATURE OF TENANTCY IN THE BUILDING PEOPLE ARE JUST TO AFRAID TO SAY ANYTHING? MAYBE A TASK FORCE? AND YOU COULD GET PEOPLE BEHIND YOU AND THEN BUST THIS WIDE OPEN! OR CALL YOUR LOCAL NEWS AND COMPLAIN TO THEM? THAT WOULD REALLY BUST SOME STUFF DON'T YA THINK? I REALLY FEEL BADLY FOR YOU BEING SO MISTREATED! IT SOUNDS LIKE HOW THE VA USED TO TREAT THE VETS SO TERRIBLY AT THE DOC OFFICE AND USE IDIOTS WITH NO TRAINING AT ALL TO SEE YOU. HELLO! YOU CVOULD DO THAT FOR YOURSELF! RIGHT?! OMG THIS IS JUST DEPLORABLE! I THINK I WAS SHELTERING MYSELF FROM MY BAD GUYS! I STIL LHAVE THE SHAWDOWS OF THEM LURKING AND I HAVE A REAL WINNER WHO WAS PART OF THIS MASQUERADE NEXT DOOR! HE IS A REAL HARD HEAD AND DEF. IS SOMEONE WITH MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES. HE NEVER FINISHES ANYTHING HE STARTS AND ALSO HAS TRASH IN HIS DRIVEWAY HEAPED UP AS WELL AS JUNKER VEHICLES AND THERE ARE NO COVENANTS HERE EXCEPT THE GOVERNING FORCE OF THE COUNTY. MY NEIGHBOOR COMPLAINED ABOUT ALL HIS GOINGS ON AND THEY ARE FINALLY 4 MOS. LATER STARTING TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. RIDICULOUS! ITS STUPID HOW GOVERNMENT AND AGENCIES JUST HAVE NO HELP AND THEN THEY BLAME IT ON US! PLEASE YOU WEREN'T HYPER SENSITIVE I DON'T THINK. I THINK IT WAS I WHO DIDN'T GET IT! SO I AGAIN APOLOGIZE. I CAN ONLY HOPE YOU CAN ACCEPT MY APOLOGY. THANKS FOR COMING BACK TO THIS COMMUNITY! FRANView Thread
Georgia????????? Really??????????!!!! Like dem said not even someone who knows us! unless you're in disguise. I'm glad to know (being sarcastic here) that it's just a job to ya'll web md! I know that this post here is directed at the directives of this website!
Well We'll see how long this forum stands up! Things can get pretty scary here! but you who are the architects of this site the builders of this mangagment team don't give a hoot whom you hurt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS RIDICULOUS AND THANK YOU FOR THE WARNING BEFORE HAND!!!!!!!!!!! REALLY DECENT OF YA!~View Thread
SOMETIMES I FORGET WHAT PEOPLE HAVE SAID HERE. I FORGET THE EXTREME DANGER YOU ARE UNDER! I FORGET HOW MUCH THIS MAN IS AFFECTING YOU. I WAS ONLY SUGGESTING TO TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT BECAUSE WHEN WE DO THE SAME THING IT COMES UP WITH NO RESULTS. THAT DOESN'T MEAN LYE DOWN AND SHUT UP AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! QUIET THE CONTRARE MY DEAR!
BONNIE, I'M SORRY IF I UPSET YOU! I DO NOT WANT YOU TO LEAVE! I CARE FOR YOU A GREAT DEAL. YOU HAVE BEEN SUCH A GREAT INSPIRATION TO ALL OF US HERE.
AS KATE TE SAID CALL THE POLICE! EVERY FRIGGIN TIME. THE THING IS THEN THEY WILL GET TIRED OF IT AND OD SOMETHING ABOUT IT. ITS VERY IMPORTANT THAT YOU CALL AT THE TIME! I'VE HAD VERY BAD NEIGHBOORS ONE WEN TTO JAIL FOR FIRST DEGREE MURDER RIGHT ON MY STREET AND THE OTHER ONE I HAVE A RESTRAINIGN ORDER AGAINST..... HE FINALLY HAS LEFT THE AREA WHERE I LIVE THANK GOD! SO I UNDERSTAND THE TOTALITY OF HOW YOU FEEL DEAR WOMAN!
I GUESS IT WORKED FOR ME IGNORING BECAUSE THESE NEIGHBOORS WOULD TRY TO DRAW ME OFFSIDES. I DID NOT REALIZE THIS IDIOT MAN WHO IS SAYING JUMK WAS TRYUING TO KICK IN YOUR DOOR TOO.
CAN YOU PLEASE ACCEPT MY APOLOGY? I ONLY KNOWS WHAT I KNOWS DEAR WOMAN SO PLEASE FOR GIVE ME! FRANView Thread