have you tried driving in the car with a pacifier?? My niece would get hysterical and had colic... I was only 19 and my sis would drive and i'd hold K and she would sleep. I know you'd have to put E in a car seat but???
If you could get some literature to your finace's cousin about safe havens to go with her children then that would be a nice gesture. Perhaps you could find some and then give it to your fiancé. Its a very difficult situation to be in for sure! Since it's your fiancé's cousin (IMHO) I would ask your honey to take it up with the cousin. I think it would be way safer that way and not have the belligerent abusive man come over and whomp on you.
as far as walking away from a 6' bully:
I imagine your mid 30's? or late 30's. Sometimes all you can do is let it go. What would have been proven if you would have let this bully beat the crap outta you? Nothing except having to go probably to er and perhaps have something really profound happening to you physically. We only get one body! What you did was self preservation.
as far as your fiancé goes why don't you talk to her about it. Honest communication is the way of a successful relationship no matter how you dice it. Like bonnie said not every woman wants to have a fight break out.
It shows your strength by outwitting this bully by walking away. I think even though the height and weight difference what would you have gained by ingauging with fists with this guy??
just because you walked away doesn't mean you're any less of a man! Go out and do something you deem is manly. That might build your confidance.View Thread
thanks for the good thoughts. I fall way behind in my life but I keep thinking..... I've got to do good deeds for others and I've got to give to others because that is the way of God/Jesus!
I do my best to do this. My neighbor loves to go to breakfast and I knew I needed to take her. normally I am around the house with a housedress on and that's about it! my hair up in a mess on top of my head!
I love being a mom too and mine are 30 and 28. I have a different name now b ut i'm an oldie too. I'm sorry I can't divuldge. Just know i'm very happy to hear from you and that its such great news to know you are happy as happy can be.