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Life is too short, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly and forgive quickly.
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What creams can I use to put on the sore area?? I was scared it was a yeast infection at first but I really think he was just too rough with his fingers and we had no lube. So is there any topical creams that can help this heal faster or give me some kind of relief? Thanks for the timeView Thread
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I want to find out if for example you had sex 26th of May, 28th of May and 1st of June, and on then on 31st May, she says she felt dizzy and lost appetite for food, 1 June she complained of dizziness and fatigue. On 4th June in the morning She goes for pregnancy test and She is found pregnant. How possible is that the Man responsible for the pregnancy is the Man who had sex with her on 26th of May, 28th of May and 1st of June?
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Also, I had a complete hysterectomy at 22 and think that when my babymaker went, so did my ability to be turned on like normal.... Please help! I need suggestions and advice. Is there a natural stimulant that could help increase my libido? Thanks!View Thread
I've tried many positions and while it may feel OK for a little while, if he moves 1/8" the wrong way, it's zing! Therefore, of course, I cannot relax and I most certainly cannot orgasm (which I would LOVE to do). I am 43 years old and I haven't been very active in my life, but active enough for my brain to equate penetrative sex with pain. I am now single and I REALLY want to figure this out because I need to get back on the dating scene, but I feel like a fraud. Men find me sexy; women find my sexy. I FEEL sensual and sexy, but the reality of the bedroom is that it's always disappointing and now extremely disheartening. [br>What I WANT: I want my partner to be able to experience the pleasure of being able to thrust deep, without holding back, without hurting me. For me, I want to be able to let go and not worry about pain. I also want to be able to hold my value as a lover, even if the pain continues... this is MUCH harder. [br>POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS I'VE DREAMED UP: 1) There MUST be such a thing as jelly rings like those found on the toddler Fisher Price ring toy, that could be put around the penis to prevent deep penetration, but would allow him to feel as though he were going deep. The Fisher Price ones would hurt, I think (though I've thought about trying it with the phantom boyfriend), but some manufacturer somewhere must make something of softer material. I also think that the ring itself would stimulate my clitoris and entire area and that seems a bonus. 2) Surgery???? 3) Anal sex. I really love anal stimulation and though I've never tried anal sex with a partner, I think it could be a viable alternative. Question, though, won't some guys be totally freaked out by this??? 4) OTHER IDEAS SO VERY WELCOME! Please don't tell me to go to the gynecologist again unless you KNOW of something that they could do. I go annually for regular exam, and all is well down there, except perhaps the size. THANK YOU!View Thread
My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months now, and both of us are as infatuated with (and sexually attracted to) the other as we were when we began dating. We have sex as often as our schedules will allow for the time being, which is two to three times a week.
Let me start by saying he is an absolutely fantastic lover. He is warm and sensitive and knows how to keep a balance between sweet and "dirty." I have never been so satisfied in my admittedly short life, and I can't imagine a healthier relationship, sexual circumstances notwithstanding.
However, he can't have an orgasm without masturbating.
He has no problem getting an erection. He does on occasion have trouble maintaining one for more than ten minutes to half an hour, but after a minute or two of coaxing it back up, he's usually ready and raring to go, so to speak. One sex session for us lasts a minimum of two hours after foreplay. He thoroughly enjoys it, as his words, actions, and...erm...displays...exhibit. But we are concerned because those brief erection losses will occur at the most inopportune times, like when we are well into the act of coitus or when I am performing oral sex (and let me tell you, that has never been a problem), and because he can get agonizingly close to having an orgasm in any mutual arrangement, but it will go away completely unless he finishes with masturbation.
He is 21 years old, and he was formerly a chronic masturbator and had a porn habit, though not an addiction, the content of which started pretty normal and then progressed to some more extreme subject matter. Nothing that would make me feel concerned for his mental health or unsafe in his presence. We are very open and honest with each other and would like to explore the causes for these issues and work toward resolving them together.
I will admit that while I know in my heart that he is attracted to and in love with me, when this problem arises I do often feel inadequate, as though I just cannot match up to the plastic girls in his old porn collection, or his ex-girlfriends, or that there is something that I am doing wrong despite what everything he says and my past experiences would indicate. If there is anything I can be doing to fill in any cracks there may be in my own performance (which I do realize I have not really outlined in this post), please let me know, but my main question is what we can do to help him maintain an erection longer and, most of all, to help him gain the ability to climax during an actual intrapersonal sexual experience.
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What if he is in denial of having any type of disorder? or thinks this is just something he can do in his own?
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I ask this because when I was really young, before school aged even, one of my first memories is of my doctor visits. The doctor would walk in and the first thing he did was mess around with my testicles. Every time.
It messed me up inside.
I just need to know if that is common medical practice and I need to quit being a baby about it, or if that guy was sick.View Thread
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I found these are quite different than what I had used before. What I don't like is the reservoir nipple tip is much smaller than normal, and don't have much room at the end. I remember the ones I liked had a silver foil wrapper with blue printing, and they were called Crown Skin Less Skin. I've tried to search for images to see the exact nipple shape, but can't tell if they have changed their design. They had a much larger, wider fat nipple end which was soooo comfortable and felt really good. Just a straight barrel design with good lube. Has anyone used these, and where have you bought them, which type/name? I'd really like to go back to these again!View Thread
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I knew he watched porn at times and I willingly watch regular porn with him but I had no idea he was into all this. This is not just checking something out on a website. He has set up several file sharing accounts to share these videos through German and American sites (I know these because he left all the log in information written out on a sheet of paper next to the lube on the desk) and there are hundreds of videos. He is a computer geek and he did not think to put that garbage onto a drive I could not access?
We just celebrated 15 years together and three years married. He has Crohn's Disease and has worked less than a year the entire time we have been together. I support us. I have taken care of him, loved him and defended him. I got sick awhile ago and have a possible brain tumour. We only have sex when he initiates it and when I try, he says he is too sick but he can disappear upstairs for hours to watch that filth. I have no problem with regular porn and watch it with him. I am open to new things sexually and do some things I do not enjoy because I know he likes them. I have tried to initiate new things and he shrugs them off or laughs at me.
Regardless, I thought we had great communication. I have done so much for him and now all I can see is a lazy, selfish disgusting pervert. I cringe when he touches me and I cannot bring myself to share a bed with him. He is just ignoring the situation. We have been struggling financially for a few years and he has zero income. I cannot believe he would spend money on this kind of thing when I am making myself sicker worrying about feeding us, paying the bills and buying medication.
I have been struggling to make changes to our relationship and recently walked out for a week. Before I had even got to my family's, he had convinced them I was having a bipolar meltdown as a result of what is going on in my brain. I cannot express a single thought, feeling or emotion lately without him insisting it is bipolar and convincing everyone of the same.
If he had stumbled across these sorts of things looking at a porn site, I guess I could accept that but to have hundreds of videos equalling thousands upon thousands of hours of beastiality, incest, urination and other disgusting things is just unacceptable. What am I going to find next, child pornography? How do I deal with this? Even if he agreed to therapy, I cannot forgive the abuse of trust and money I earn. This goes beyond just checking these things out from curiosity. He is locking himself away for hours at a time, multiple times a week to masterbate to this disgusting and illegal junk. Is this a forgiveable offense?View Thread
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I've been working through some family issues that I'm sure factor into the mental/psychological aspect, but the only other thing that has changed is the fact that I have taken a significant amount of Imodium Multi-Symptom Relief since we started dating. It sounds silly saying it out loud, but since this is still a relatively new relationship, I don't feel completely comfortable going to the bathroom with her there (number 2, that is). As a result, I've taken the Imodium to severely reduce the need to go, and I'm wondering if this might contribute to my ejaculation issues.
I'm crazy about this girl, so I don't want something like this to jeopardize my relationship. Has anyone had a similar experience or have some advice?View Thread
So I've been married for over a year now, but we have not been able to consume our marriage yet.
I went to see a doctor and was told that I have Vaginismus. I bought a self-help book and a set of dilators.
The first step is to insert a tampon in my vagina. These are the issues I am having:
1. I can only insert half of the tampon in. It seems that there is no more space in my vagina for the tampon to keep going in. Why is this happening? I must be past my PC muscles by then, which means that there should not be any other obstructions, right?
2. The tip of the plastic tampon applicator is very hurtful to me. The teeth-like tip gets "squished" inside my vagina and I start feeling sharp pains as soon as I start inserting the tampon. I am nervous that it might hurt my vagina wall. Am I the only one with this problem? What can I do about it?
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I'm 27 years old and I'm a bottom. The few times that I have had anal sex, getting past the first bit of pain of entering is ok, and usually not a problem. however, where I'm having a problem is, the guy that I have been with is approximately 7 to 8.5 inches in length and once he's in and past the pain the first 1-5 inches isn't painful, but once he thrusts deeper, there is a sharp pain in my bowel but deeper. I realize it has a 90 degree curve to it, we've slowed down to go a bit slower but maybe not slow enough? By this point it's to the point of not enjoyable for me and it just simply hurts. I've always experienced this problem even younger with my first boyfriend when I was 18-19 and the same thing happened then. I do yes tend to 'wipe' and 'push' too hard while going to the bathroom I'm guilty of that. Anyway, I guess my ultimate question is: am I doing something wrong? Am I not using enough lubrication? I always thought I used enough lubrication, but maybe not? Is there a way to somehow get past the pain? I'd like for sex to be enjoyable...Would going slow to get his **** to turn around the curve or more lubrication help? I've seen lots of guys in porn movies that take gigantic sizes and how I can't figure out why and I'm asking myself why because most of the bottoms are built like myself, 5'9 give or take, 160 pounds, defined body..Has anyone been through this before? Is there a way to somehow get it further in without creating a ton of pain? As I said, lots of guys are able to... so it's not impossible..View Thread
I'm 27 years old and I'm a bottom. The few times that I have had anal sex, getting past the first bit of pain of entering is ok, and usually not a problem. however, where I'm having a problem is, the guy that I have been with is approximately 7 to 8.5 inches in length and once he's in and past the pain the first 1-5 inches isn't painful, but once he thrusts deeper, there is a sharp pain in my bowel but deeper. I realize it has a 90 degree curve to it, we've slowed down to go a bit slower but maybe not slow enough? By this point it's to the point of not enjoyable for me and it just simply hurts. I've always experienced this problem even younger with my first boyfriend when I was 18-19 and the same thing happened then. I do yes tend to 'wipe' and 'push' too hard while going to the bathroom I'm guilty of that. Anyway, I guess my ultimate question is: am I doing something wrong? Am I not using enough lubrication? I always thought I used enough lubrication, but maybe not? Is there a way to somehow get past the pain? I'd like for sex to be enjoyable...Would going slow to get his **** to turn around the curve or more lubrication help? I've seen lots of guys in porn movies that take gigantic sizes and how I can't figure out why and I'm asking myself why because most of the bottoms are built like myself, 5'9 give or take, 160 pounds, defined body..Has anyone been through this before? Is there a way to somehow get it further in without creating a ton of pain? As I said, lots of guys are able to... so it's not impossible..View Thread
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