To the risk of being old fashioned and politically incorrect I will speak my mind, which I often do, and sometimes I offend people. But if people get offended perhaps they should keep things to themselves and not advertise it in the Internet for the entire world to see it. I have been wondering where you draw the line between prostitution and friends with benefits! Because it seems to me that you could have more than one friend with benefits. So, do you draw the line on the fact that with prostitution there is money involved and friends with benefits is free! Both provide a service one for money and the other for free. From what I have read these arrangements are made between people who don't want to commit to a relationship or they are looking for the right person to come along, but in the mean time they want to have sex and they get it from a "friend" fro free. Some would get it from a prostitute for money.View Thread
GuardSquealer, I agree with you, I can't do it either because to me sex is more than just a recreational act. I have been this way my entire life and I am now in my late 40s. In any case, judging from my experiences of what I have seen, heard, and lived, it seems to me like females are more in tune with these types of arragements. Of course, you could argue that it takes 2 to tango, which is true, nevertheless, I think, most men would fall in love with someone they have sex with, but most would not admit it.
BTW, I don't mean this about females in any derogatoy manner, just my observations drawn from life experiences.View Thread
I agree, she came here to look for some help because she is obviously in a tough situation. To call her a "goal digger" without regard to her situation is cruel. Only someone who has never experienced these kinds of problems can be indifferent to her situation. It seems to me that her husband is either dealing with depression, which is very possible, or his pride is getting the best out of him. Having said the above, you might need to try a different approach than the one you having been trying. Take some of the advice from tmlmtlrl I thinks she has good points in her post. Love and understanding always helps. Even if you don't feel like making love to him, still do, because after all, love is not only a feeling, but actions. Push him to find the job of his dream at the same time support him with love and try to work with him on job searches. For a man sex is very important when it comes to feel loved and close to his SO. I only hope my post helps you, even if it just a little bit.View Thread
I agree with Anno-16867, if it's not alreaddy happening it will at some point. I am a male and work with mostly females and have business meetings from time to time, but we don't talk on the cell phone, we don't chat on the Internet and they definetely dont' ride with me in my car. And no, my wife does not have to know who everyone of these females are because, like 3point14 said, it's a non-issue.
My wife have heard the names of some of my female co-workers, but not of them all, but this is a non-issue because I am a professional and I don't mix work with inappropriate relationships and my wife knows it. Most importatnly, I know not to put myself in a compromising situation.View Thread
2 guys can't keep up with you ha!! I was looking the post below you posted on the other board. This is only portion of it. luvmy2babiesmuch posted: [TRIGGER> I feel so bad cheating on my husband, but then again, i love it.. not what it would ever do if he found out, but the other man.. i'm in love with him. he works with my husband, and at first he would just call and talk to me, and he would compliment me, and say how he wished he had what my husband had... then after 4 months of talking, it became physical. i have to admit, he just makes me feel so good. been with husband for 22 yrs, and this guy says and does all of the things that husband doesn't. i love sex, and would have it every day of husband would, but he's good at once a week, or once every 2 weeks. he has never given me any affection, and this guy always compliments me, and goes on and on about how gorgeous and petoite, and good looking i am. he loves holding my hand, and hugs me so good. every time i see him, he grabs me, and picks me up, and i wrap my legs around him, from day one, he gives the most amazing hugs. View Thread
wondringabouthis, I think honkey123 is stating her take on the issue at hand as well as sharing her experiences. Based on your comments I don't think you are respecting her opinion, I know you say you are, but at the same time you are trying to tell her that your ways are better than hers. Her opinion is her opinion and she did not ask you to abide by it, why do you feel convicted and obliged to respond in such a way?View Thread
Believe it or not, it's not uncommon, at least that's what I think. I have always been able to have multiple ones. When I was younger I could have 3 or 4, now that I am in my late 40s I can do 2, maybe 3 if have not have any for a few days.
Or maybe it's rare and that's why my wife calls me superman! but to me there is nothing super about it I just love her, desire her and I can't never get enough of her.
For whatever is worth, I have to say that I have always take care of myself as far as beinga ctive and eating healthy.View Thread
My wife of 15 plus years can't orgasm from penetration either. I think this is fairly common thing. She can if she is on top, but that's the only way. In order for her to orgasm I give he oral or use my fingers.
Speaking of orgasms, how common is it for a female not to be able to achieve multiple organsms? My wife has never been able to have more than one. She says that with one she feels like she is floating in the air and she just feels all drained of all energy. I have tried to convince her to let's try for another one, but she tells me that she can't. She stays too sensitive for a while after one.
I am just corious since this is not an issue in our marriage because we still make love every day, I like multiples and some times I have 2 while she has one, so it works great.View Thread