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I have been wondering where you draw the line between prostitution and friends with benefits! Because it seems to me that you could have more than one friend with benefits. So, do you draw the line on the fact that with prostitution there is money involved and friends with benefits is free! Both provide a service one for money and the other for free. From what I have read these arrangements are made between people who don't want to commit to a relationship or they are looking for the right person to come along, but in the mean time they want to have sex and they get it from a "friend" fro free. Some would get it from a prostitute for money.View Thread

I agree with you, I can't do it either because to me sex is more than just a recreational act. I have been this way my entire life and I am now in my late 40s. In any case, judging from my experiences of what I have seen, heard, and lived, it seems to me like females are more in tune with these types of arragements. Of course, you could argue that it takes 2 to tango, which is true, nevertheless, I think, most men would fall in love with someone they have sex with, but most would not admit it.
BTW, I don't mean this about females in any derogatoy manner, just my observations drawn from life experiences.View Thread


Having said the above, you might need to try a different approach than the one you having been trying. Take some of the advice from tmlmtlrl I thinks she has good points in her post. Love and understanding always helps. Even if you don't feel like making love to him, still do, because after all, love is not only a feeling, but actions. Push him to find the job of his dream at the same time support him with love and try to work with him on job searches. For a man sex is very important when it comes to feel loved and close to his SO.
I only hope my post helps you, even if it just a little bit.View Thread

My wife have heard the names of some of my female co-workers, but not of them all, but this is a non-issue because I am a professional and I don't mix work with inappropriate relationships and my wife knows it. Most importatnly, I know not to put myself in a compromising situation.View Thread


I think honkey123 is stating her take on the issue at hand as well as sharing her experiences. Based on your comments I don't think you are respecting her opinion, I know you say you are, but at the same time you are trying to tell her that your ways are better than hers. Her opinion is her opinion and she did not ask you to abide by it, why do you feel convicted and obliged to respond in such a way?View Thread

Or maybe it's rare and that's why my wife calls me superman! but to me there is nothing super about it I just love her, desire her and I can't never get enough of her.
For whatever is worth, I have to say that I have always take care of myself as far as beinga ctive and eating healthy.View Thread

Speaking of orgasms, how common is it for a female not to be able to achieve multiple organsms? My wife has never been able to have more than one. She says that with one she feels like she is floating in the air and she just feels all drained of all energy. I have tried to convince her to let's try for another one, but she tells me that she can't. She stays too sensitive for a while after one.
I am just corious since this is not an issue in our marriage because we still make love every day, I like multiples and some times I have 2 while she has one, so it works great.View Thread
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