My wife of 15 plus years can't orgasm from penetration either. I think this is fairly common thing. She can if she is on top, but that's the only way. In order for her to orgasm I give he oral or use my fingers.
Speaking of orgasms, how common is it for a female not to be able to achieve multiple organsms? My wife has never been able to have more than one. She says that with one she feels like she is floating in the air and she just feels all drained of all energy. I have tried to convince her to let's try for another one, but she tells me that she can't. She stays too sensitive for a while after one.
I am just corious since this is not an issue in our marriage because we still make love every day, I like multiples and some times I have 2 while she has one, so it works great.View Thread
I can't believe you are still living with this animal!! I am sorry, but there is no other way to discribe someone who uses another human being.
I would never, never do anything to hurt my loving wife, on the contrary, I do everthing to please her and in pleasing her I am satisfied. I love to make love to my wife, we do it almost every night, but my main goal is always to please/satisfy her.
Leave him, I asure you there are many good men there who would do anything to love/please you.View Thread
First, I am a male, happily married for 15 plus years and 3 kids. When I was single the times when I pushed for sex the first date were times when I just wanted sex, nothing else. After that one time sex I didn't care if I didn't see her anymore. Talking to other males, this is the case with a lot of man, females beware, unless of course, this is what you wish. When I wanted to pursue a serious relationship I never, never pushed for sex the first date. My wife has tell me many times that one of the things she loved about me the first date is that I didn't ask for sex, even though I wanted to make love to her from the first time I met her. She tells me that she would tell her friends that I was a gentleman because I didn't ask for sex the first date. 15 years later I still want her all the time I can't ever get enough of her; I love her curves, and everything about her. We make love almost every night.View Thread
I have nothing to contribute to this post, but I was wondering why is this post not getting more participants to respond to the issue at hand? I see that it is a conversation between a few pople only. Since I have nothing to contribute I just wanted to say that thankfully my wife and I (happily married 15 years) don't have this dilemma because we both agree that that part of the body is there to discharge body waste. Nothing against those who use it for sexual pleasure by the way.View Thread
I agree, from reading some of these posts, I am lucky because there are as many woman as man who face this issue.
There were times in our marriage when we would go for weeks at the time without making love. The times when we had new babies or an illness. I know how it feels not being able to make love to your spause whom you love and desire with all your heart.
Once we stopped having children things changed, we have more time for eachother and life is great! We make it a point to have a date almost every evening, we tell our two younger childres (11 and 13) that at 9:00 PM it's mom and dad's time and we are off parenting duties, my wife and I go to one of our family rooms and close the door, watch tv, talk, etc. This is our way to stay connected. And, of course, making love almost every night is another way to stay connected.
Spend time along with your spause, but this has to be planned and it has to be intentional. Nothing happnes by chance, I know, I am stating the obvious, but sometimes we need to hear it from someone else.
I am sorry you are being affected by your husband's serious problem. Don't enable him to continue by staying with him, I base this comment on what you said about his behavior and your suffering, he needs serious professional help for his addiction. Please don't feel less than who you are because this is not your problem, but his. You are beautiful and believe me there are good men out there who would give anythng to love you the way you deserve.
By the way, I am a male married for 15 years 3 kids and and each day I love my wife more. Our marriage is based on love, trust. comitment, grace, and understanding, which, in my world, is a very good recipe for any good marriage.View Thread
My wife is a little bit overweigh and I love her the way she is, in fact I can't never get enough of her even though we make love almost every day. I love her curves and it just the way I have always been, always liked nice curves, more meat than bones, I should say.
By the way, we have been married 15 years and have 3 kids. Each day I love her more.View Thread
Not sure what you are looking for here because what you have done is bad anyway you look at it. If you want to do these things divorce your wife first and then do whatever you want. You should have divorced her when she cheated on you, if this is true.
By the way, I am a male married 15 years and I would never cheat on my wife. If she chated on me not sure I can ontinue our marriage, but I would not cheat on her. I would rather divorce her and start anew. Just my thoughts, of course we all think differently.View Thread