I too don't see any problem with you, she might have a problem if she thinks you could go to someone else for sex.
I too live a healthy life style, am 47 married 15 years and 3 kids, I enjoy making love to my wife on a daily basis, more if we had the opportunity. In fact, the more I make love to her the more I want her and the closer I feel to her and want to be close to her as much as possible.View Thread
I agree with most posts here. Our actions in life are never without consequences and the consequence to you is that you are still suffering the pain of your mistake.
That said, don't tell your bf any more details, if you do, he would be hurt yet once more and he does not deserve to be hurt again. You need to reconcile to your yourself and God and be the best you can be on this relationship.
Very normal, I am in my late 40s and I am able to do this whenever I want. I used to do it fairly frequent when I was in 30s. I must say I was never able to do it when I was younger, like when I was a teen and in my 20s.
I can't believe the advice your are getting from some posters here. More so when some of them have responded to other post and stated their deep religious belief and practice!!
No one here can determine whether or not you are addicted to porn, what I can say is that addiction to porn is real and it can destroy a marriage and consequently, a family. You need to be honest with yourself and if it is a problem that affects your marriage you must take action. It seems like some here are ignoring your wife's feelings, that's okay, but you, her husband, must NOT, unless of course, you want to loose her. It matters that it offends your wife and you must settle that with her, even if you need to find counseling for your problem. Walk in her shoes for a moment, if she was doing something that bothered you wouldn't you want her to stop doing it?
I am a male, happily married for more than 14 years, and I would do anything to stop something that offended my wife because I love her, period. I would expect the same from her and I know she would because she loves me.
Don't ignore a problem when you know is a problem and your life will change for the better!View Thread
Whoa! What kind of family you have and what kind of values you guys have at your home? that a 15 and 17 year old are happy to see their parents have sex with other people!! I guess your kids can do anything seaxually becasue you cannot tell them what to do and what not to do, after all, you have set the example and you don't have the authority and the values to tell them so. I REST MY CASE!View Thread
I was not going to respond, but when I read that there were children involved I coun't help, but to stay my take on the mater. Who are you to tell me or anyone not to respond unless I agree with your pathetic point of view on mariage.
You too, grow up and stop living in fantasy world!! Just because you think your children are happy that does not meant they trully are, just wait and see.View Thread
Who told you that marriage was always goign to be fun and perfect? a succesful marriage requires a lot of work in all fronts, it requires both parties to be proactive and intentional about their lives together. If adding other people to your sex life was the only solution to marriage problems then almost all married couple would be doing it because everyone has problems.
If you have tried every possible solution to this problem why don't you both grow up and just get a divorce and spare your children a problem that might affect them the rest of their lives. After all you said that if one of you fall in love with one of the third parties that would be okay. Would not be better if you get a divorce and then find someone on your own? of course I have feeling that once the other relationship goes dull you would want to repeat the same drill again! when do you stop? GROW UP!!
I hope you think about your children and not only about your sex life.View Thread